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    Default Quick question on Streamate about a freeloader...

    He's the nicest guy and just wants to chat. He seems very sweet, but never pays a dime; always wants to chat about how I'm doing, etc and it's been nice, but it's getting to the point where I take my focus away from other customers! Should I block him and if I do, will he know that I did?

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    Default Re: Quick question on Streamate about a freeloader...

    Sigh... the all mighty freeloader... I am on MFC and have a TON of them... i basically look at it like someone to keep me company well i wait for paying customers... I NEVER put the non-payers ahead of the paying customers but i will admit its sometimes nice to have someone to talk to, it can get very boring talking to myself all day LOL... PLUS you never know one day when this person has money he may just take you to prvt... its happened to me many times. But you can always remind him that you are there to work and cannot give him all of your time and that maybe one day he should take to you prvt

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    Default Re: Quick question on Streamate about a freeloader...

    What works for me is after I get the impression that someone isn't going to buy a show, ill push for it once more 'so you've been in here a while, are you gonna let me show you what I can do in private or what?' Flirty smile, cam girl laugh. Usually it's enough to tell either way-they'll either:
    -Deflect- in which case no they don't intend to ever go private and you should give them the 'You know this is my job, coming into room without buying a show isn't very nice' and i they still so it YES block. Dont care how 'nice' someone is- doing that is STILL freeloading
    -They'll leave because they realize you caught on (which happens most of the time)

    Sometimes guys like this aren't so bad when it's slow and you're bored- as said above. But most of the time they are just a big pain in the ass. I've had guys straight out tell me 'oh I don't buy shows, just here to chat' nice as pie they are but they get blocked because I'm NOT here to chat for free.

    Also you may want to post things like this in some of the already started threads, there is a lot of good info I. There that will help. Try doing a search- I remember actually starting a thread like this a few wars ago when I first started and there is a ton of good info in there on how to deal with freeloaders.
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    Default Re: Quick question on Streamate about a freeloader...

    Quote Originally Posted by sexxilexxixxx View Post
    He's the nicest guy and just wants to chat. He seems very sweet, but never pays a dime; always wants to chat about how I'm doing, etc and it's been nice, but it's getting to the point where I take my focus away from other customers! Should I block him and if I do, will he know that I did?
    What he wants is attention, so there is no need for him to pay you since you are already giving him what he wants for free.

    No real point blocking him, just stop giving him any attention at all. Just pretend he is invisible when he is in your room. He isn't dumb. He knows the score. If wants you attention and ever intended on paying you money then he will give it to you to get your attention back.

    If he never intended on giving you money, then after you take your attention away from him then he will move on to an easier target.

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    Default Re: Quick question on Streamate about a freeloader...

    My philosophy is always that it isn't worth blocking them - you never know when that guy MIGHT drop a lot of money. It's rare, but I've had a few that have sat around for months, and then randomly done a 45min pvt out of the blue. If they aren't being rude, then you can use them to keep you company, give you something to talk about, etc etc. If you start talking to them outside the site, you may also find them useful for gifts/emergency money/etc. That's what I have done in the past.

    If you are worried about them taking money from paying customers, just talk to them! Next time that they are in the room alone (or when it's quiet) or via e-mail, tell them NICELY that you love talking to them, and since they are SUCH a good friend/fan/whatever word you use, you KNOW that they will understand that you have to give your attention to those other guys that are paying for shows - you have to make your money! Not only will they be totally fine with it (if they are actually nice) but you may find that they actively back off if they think someone else is interested, and encourage other tippers in gold shows.

    Or maybe my guys are just lovely. *shrug
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    Default Re: Quick question on Streamate about a freeloader...

    I have had guys chat with me for a few weeks, on and off for bits of time on MGF. Eventually, I just tell them straight up that I will no longer be speaking to them and our "friendship" is one sided. They are being selfish, and taking up my attention and my time away from WORKING and making MONEY, and are not giving me ANYTHING in return at all.

    I am a VERY patient with people in mgf's chat. I do not push my content on anyone. But I can tell if a guy is going to waste my time pretty easily.

    They can be the nicest man on the planet, but it's NOT nice to be on a PAY2PLAY website, and NOT PAYING.

    They want to feel special by me giving them attention. They DO feel special.

    Money makes me feel special. Tips and contributions make me feel special.

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