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    Hey ladies!

    Do any of you have issues with your boyfriends friends girlfriends (lol sorry) when they find out you're a dancer?

    I have one girl who is constantly making condescending remarks about strip clubs and strippers in front me knowing that I work in one...I have a feeling she's secretly jealous but I don't comment back just to keep the peace since I'm in one of our others friends wedding!

    wanted everyone to share their experiences

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    besides my parents at first not being too crazy about the idea, no. i've been very lucky. now, im sure some of them like to make snotty remarks behind my back, but so far none of my face. if they did, they'd be gone..not a true friend.
    now with what you are going through, that's ridiculous! i wouldn't be able to keep my cool if some jealous bitch was making ignorant remarks like that. you should not have to deal with that. maybe have you friend whose getting married have a talk with her? or maybe you? you shouldn't have to feel uncomfortable and like you cannot defend yourself. that's awful

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    Trust me its soooooo hard for me to keep my cool but im only friends with the bride and im trying not to start drama for her sake bc thats all her wedding stuff has been about....this chick is definately not my friend and once this wedding is over believe me shes ginna hate what I have to say if she makes another remark!

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    This is why I choose to lie about what I do, people just dont get it who havnt done it, they think we live on the edge and like we do all these crazy things. Most girls are jealous, the few I told always ended up talking shit when they were mad and they would throw it in my face like they looked down on me for stripping or would act like they are better than me. But the few I am thinking about have messed up bodies, too fat, or some reason they cannot dance and I think they are just mad they have to work like slaves to make the $$ we make. So to avoid all these judgements, I lie and say I am in sales or something, ha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kittycat724 View Post
    Trust me its soooooo hard for me to keep my cool but im only friends with the bride and im trying not to start drama for her sake bc thats all her wedding stuff has been about....this chick is definately not my friend and once this wedding is over believe me shes ginna hate what I have to say if she makes another remark!
    I would just play dumb/super polite. "I'm sure you've forgotten, but I actually work as a dancer, and your remarks are kind of making it seem like you don't like me or something!" *super concerned face*

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    I've lost a lot of potential 'friends' through being a dancer. I see it as a filter to be honest, if somebody is so judgemental then they're no friend of mine in the first place.TuesdayMarie's response is good. I probably would find it hard to be so polite but it's the best way!
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