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    Default Datecheck help please?

    So, I have a new client who wants to verify using Datecheck. Great, but I'm not on Datecheck. If someone would PM me and get his info and just check him for me, I would be so, so grateful.

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    Default Re: Datecheck help please?

    Just tell him you aren't on DateCheck. He needs to email you his screening information and references.

    Clients don't dictate how they are verified or what information you require. YOU do.

    FYI, "verification" sites like P411 & DateCheck don't necessarily verify ANY of the guy's info. Guys can use a fake name & info. There have also been cases of guys sharing verification site IDs. It is up to you to verify that he really is who he says he is, and that he is actually the owner of the verification site ID/handle he gives you.

    Verification sites are not a substitute for screening IMO. You are responsible for your own safety.

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    Definitely be wary of DateCheck - it's a great tool but it has it's unreliable side. Last night I was out with a client and he was saying how he emailed another lady to set up an appointment (a well-reviewed NYC lady) and she responded she thought she'd met him before and he was very rude and aggressive. He explained she had to be mixing him up with someone else, and she emailed him back and said she'd "give him another chance" but only if he requested a DateCheck ok from her first, so she could recommend him and extend her membership.

    She's actively asking to be able to "ok" him - yet not only have they never met, she thinks they HAVE met and that he was rude and aggressive. Shaking my head!


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    Default Re: Datecheck help please?

    Definitely be wary of DateCheck - it's a great tool but it has it's unreliable side. Last night I was out with a client and he was saying how he emailed another lady to set up an appointment (a well-reviewed NYC lady) and she responded she thought she'd met him before and he was very rude and aggressive. He explained she had to be mixing him up with someone else, and she emailed him back and said she'd "give him another chance" but only if he requested a DateCheck ok from her first, so she could recommend him and extend her membership.

    She's actively asking to be able to "ok" him - yet not only have they never met, she thinks they HAVE met and that he was rude and aggressive. Shaking my head!


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    Default Re: Datecheck help please?

    Date-Check is free to join for providers. If your "trial period" ever runs out, email them to ask for an extension. In my experience they are pretty nice people and would rather charge clients than providers, and will probably work with you on extending your free membership if needed.

    However, as Obenta and Miss_McKenna said, I also use Date-Check (and other screening services) as a *part* of my screening. For me it is basically a list of references to contact. I still get full name, phone number, email address, etc. in addition to their Date-Check ID.

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    Aloe, they won't let me join without a reference. And no one who uses Date Check knows me. (Yet.) But I agree that it's best to get the other information as well.

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    Default Re: Datecheck help please?

    same here, p411 too. they said i cant join without reviews from established reviewers or a reference from 1-2 from dc or p411..... i'm lost too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lacey.konjo View Post
    same here, p411 too. they said i cant join without reviews from established reviewers or a reference from 1-2 from dc or p411..... i'm lost too.
    Yes that's to verify you.

    Just letting in any person who "says" they are (supposedly) a working girl would be stupid as fuck, right? Duhhh

    Nice first post ever. Did you go searching the internet on how to get a P411 verification and find your way here? Are you a dude? Pissed off wife? A wanna-be provider?

    Most LEGIT providers (even newer ladies) don't have much trouble being verified by P411 & DateCheck. It's the rare newbie and those who aren't really providers who seem to have difficulty. LoL

    (mariegolden you seem legit. I'm sure you'll find a way to be verified soon enough)

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    Im trying to start fresh on date check and need a lovrly lady I can put as a referrer.I had an account before but I lost access to my email.

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    Im on P411 already so maybe I can just contact customer service

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    So, I'm having problems with 'verification sites' because I don't permit reviews - I'm hoping that I'll be able to get on P411 by cultivating friendships with other escorts and then relying on them to vouch for me, but it's slow going and the implicit endorsement of review sites is crass, IMO.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kylesetreats View Post
    If anyone needs help getting on date-check, I will be glad to vouch for you.
    ^^^ THIS is one of the problems with verification sites and just one reason why verification sites should NEVER be used as your only screening ^^^

    Ladies, Do Not vouch for people you have never met and who you know nothing about. Doing so is the exact opposite of what a vouch is supposed to mean.

    Vouch

    verb (used without object)
    2.
    to attest; guarantee; certify (usually followed by for):
    to vouch for someone in a business transaction.

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    Default Re: Datecheck help please?

    I was just trying to help. For some providers it is hard for them to get on verification sites because they don't have reviews.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kylesetreats View Post
    I was just trying to help. For some providers it is hard for them to get on verification sites because they don't have reviews.
    I understand the desire to help, but you are not helping the thousands of providers and clients who need verification site vouches to actually mean something. This isn't a game. You're playing with people's safety.

    Vouches are supposed to mean that you know the person and know that they are 100% legit. How would you know if a poster here is legit if you don't know them and they have no reviews? How do you know you're not vouching for a man's wife to access DateCheck? How do you know the person you are vouching for isn't a psycho? How do you know the person isn't a cop? How do you know the person you're vouching for isn't a man?

    You don't.

    It is hard for them to get on verification sites BECAUSE THEY AREN'T VERIFIED. It isn't supposed to be easy. You are supposed to be verifiable in order to gain access. Giving unverifiable people access is dangerous for everyone who uses the website.

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    Default Re: Datecheck help please?

    You're right. I didn't think about it like that.

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