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    Since entering the business, I've noticed a few of the escorts in my area, escort out of their homes. I think it's a great way to save money and help avoid LE but is this recommended in this business? Do Amy escorts here do it?

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    Not sure how it would help avoid LE?


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    Less suspicion than using hotels. Not saying it will completely avoid LE. There aren't a whole lot
    Of hotels in my area. There are a lot that are off limits because they work closely with LE.

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    ^If youre in a residential area it may actually attract LE. Nosy neighbors are the scourge of the earth, truly. It depends on how much volume you anticipate, if youre in an urban / suburban / rural area, and how hard you can screen or advise the guys ahead of tme. A friend of mine got busted specifically this way because neighbors kept complaining about cars on their street. When she went to her hearing she found out there were 10+ complaints about traffic, cars, random men in the area, guys parking where they shouldnt etc. She had no idea up until that point anyone even noticed. So definitely, you know, use your discretion.

    Example, I live in a sleepy neighborhood full of retirees - we're easily the youngest people in the area for a few blocks. And it is shocking how much my neighbors know and/or remember about my comings and goings. Even the dumbest minutiae, seriously. So definitely... you know, use your discretion depending on where you live, and alerts for your region, etc.

    People work out of their homes all of the time - but she didnt take the demographics and busy-ness of her area into account. If you live in a dense, busy, young neighborhood - people probably will be less likely to notice. If you live more in the quiet dreary American Beauty type of suburbs: be super precautious? Im assuming you live somewhere where escorting out of your home isnt legal in this comment





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    +Isobel +1Roast. Personally, I wouldn't do it. I think working out of home is more, not less, risky. Neighbors do notice things. A larger hotel provides some measure of anonymity especially if you aren't using the same one all the time. Not to mention the security issue. You never know when a good client might turn bad and stalk, or, out you. If he knows your home address then you're SOL. You might save on hotel and travel fees but is that worth the cost of your privacy and safety? I'd also think that if you were busted, god forbid, then getting busted at home would be much worse then getting busted at a hotel. Because I'm cautious, I do travel a ways to do incall.


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    Since entering the business, I've noticed a few of the escorts in my area, escort out of their homes. I think it's a great way to save money and help avoid LE but is this recommended in this business? Do any escorts here do it?

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    Are you sure they're working out of their homes and not just a residence they rent for the sole purpose of escorting? All the benefits of working from home (cheaper than a hotel, you're familiar with the lay of the land) without the risks (clients knowing where you live, snoopy neighbours putting two and two together).

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    I just entered the world of escorting recently and the thought of them coming to my home scares the crap out of me. I entertained the idea briefly but erased that thought from my mind. Number one he may not be a full on psycho, but he get clingy and try to use his knowledge against you at some point. Number 2 Nosey neighbors. I already stick out. I don't need that shit! And Number 3, I feel its important to have some distance between this work and my real life. My home is my retreat away from the world. My sanctuary. I don't want "remnants" all over my castle.

    Within the next month or so, I may look into renting a space for incalls. Not sure yet. Location is whats most important and even then neighbors can be an issue. I have been conversing with other ladies who do this and many say they rented temporary vacation homes when the money started to roll in. I think this would be the way to go.

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    Several of my Friends who are Dancers does Escorting too.Mostly they begin with doing Outcall at first (At some Hotels or the residence of their clients).Once they get to know about their Customers well enough, then they never mind inviting them over to their House (Incall).

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    A short-term rental, as long as it's separate from home, is a good idea and cheaper than renting hotels depending on your volume.

    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    Are you sure they're working out of their homes and not just a residence they rent for the sole purpose of escorting? All the benefits of working from home (cheaper than a hotel, you're familiar with the lay of the land) without the risks (clients knowing where you live, snoopy neighbours putting two and two together).

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    I mostly cam and have started doing a little bit of pro-sub work lately. Particularly w/cam clients, I wouldn't want ANY of these guys knowing where I live, so that was my chief objection. If (for an in-person thing) the guy is giving me a clingy or potentially stalker-y vibe, I park a few blocks away (so he doesn't see my license plate) and don't even bring my ID inside.

    RE neighbors, I second Roast (who is always brilliant, go stalk her post history). Depending on where you live, there could be a problem and you may never know until it's too late. I lived in an urban situation (huge apartment building) and therefore I always said that nobody cares what you do. I was always doing borderline odd stuff like bringing home golf clubs and crutches for custom videos. People seemed only peripherally curious and never went out of their ways to ask or say anything. Now I live in a rural area that's been mysteriously passed by by developers, even though it's only 20 minutes from the city and on the end of the commuter line. My neighbors didn't say anything about noticing my camming (been here since October)*. They did, however, say something within a month when I had an assistant here during the day. They noticed immediately and asked about her the next time they saw me. She'd come in two days a week and work on videos and stuff with me. So that's just a normal-looking girl coming in two days a week and it got their attention. I imagine that any more traffic might have prompted a call to the tip-line.

    *Turns out that their 20 year old son DID notice. We share one wall, my camming room and his bedroom. We've recently struck up a chatty relationship and pretty much the first time we hung out he said, "Can I ask a personal question? What do you DO all night?" I told him and asked how much he could hear and if it was bothering him. He said, "Sometimes I hear dialogue, and I hear...um...when you get loud." He then blushed and said, "Doesn't bother me. Just wondered how it was going on all night!" So yeah. I think that if the occupant of the shared-wall room hadn't been a young male I probably would have gotten a call earlier on that, too.


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    it actually doesn't help avoid LE., it just a matter of your comfort level and also budget.

    if are you working out of your home you have keep spaces strictly dedicated for business.
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    I don't see how there can be any benefit in using your home. Like Roast said, you'd be very surprised at what your neighors notice. I used to think that..oh, it will totally cut down on hotel costs! Maybe I will do that someday! But I realize now, there are always the clients that get emotionally attached, or get all uptight about something. They aren't dumb, and will know it is your house. It's not really safe. I would seriously just use hotels. I used to get scared of hotels too, but it doesn't really phase me anymore. Just show up at the hotels in sweatpants and complain about being tired from driving forever. Hotel hop. The bigger, busier hotels turn a blind eye to it, honestly....steal towels from the housekeeping cart, blend in with the crowd. I think you will be fine using hotels...

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    I think the reasons against this have already been stated - not safe against potential clingy/stalkerish clients, work/life separation, nosy neighbors, and yeah, I don't see how it would really deter LE at all. Do outcalls, get a hotel a couple times a month, hotel hop around town and the close surrounding areas. If you're really paranoid about hotel attention, schedule clients for either early morning or later afternoon so you avoid them walking the halls during prime housecleaning hours (usually anytime between 9am-3pm). Ask for a room on the higher floors so the front desk doesn't constantly see men wandering to and from your room right down the hall. If you plan to allow houskeeping into your room at any point, keep your trash in a plastic bag that you throw away outside somewhere so they don't see all the condoms/wrappers/white envelopes in your trash can. Dress casually around the hotel.

    It's really not that difficult to stay relatively UTR at bigger hotels if you're smart about it and just blend in as though you were a normal traveler. I think it'd actually be much easier to stay off the radar of busy hotel staff who don't know you for a couple days than it would be to have a constant stream of traffic in your single place of residence around all the same neighbors every day.
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    It really depends on how well you screen or if you have a good screener helping you. Right now hotel costs are ridiculous but you can also probaby share a place with another girl and slit the rent which would be cheaper than constantly paying hotels.

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    I agree with not working where you live. If you do get a separate incall just make sure nothing is in your name to avoid stalkers and other crazies. Like me I sublease an apartment so that's not in my name and I have prepaid utilities under a fake name as well as internet under a fake name. I don't leave anything personal in the place and I never park by the apartment I work out of. That said, some of them will still try (I caught one weirdo in the parking lot over an hour after the appointment ended) but I guess that could happen at a hotel too. Hotels are probably the best but I got an apartment after awhile because if you don't tour very much you eventually have to use the same places over and over and I'm pretty sure they were getting a little suspicious lol.

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    Also consider zoning and deed restriction violations might be involved operating a business from your home.

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    Ok, a little quick background since I don't post often. I've bounced and DJ'ed in strip-clubs. Did a turn in management of same (mostly while in college) and when I retired from a 25 year gig started throwing some of the most awesome private parties in the NYC area.

    Now where I can help here is that 25 year gig was as a police detective NYPD.

    I strongly suggest that providers (ugh, that word) do not work out of their homes. Besides the vast security issues the biggie is forfeiture. If prostitution is a crime (meaning an indictable offense) in your jurisdiction the law enforcement agency may seize your property as either fruit/profit of the illegal activity or a tool used for that activity. This means you may be putting your home and its contents at risk.

    Unless you are an extraordinarily low volume escort, working solely by word of mouth (totally under the radar), its not a good idea.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Another issue I can think of is for providers that have kids and work out of their homes - even if the kids aren't home during the appointments, it puts them at a much higher risk than usual from CPS etc. It's one thing if the cops find out an escort has kids, but if a variety of clients know the address of a place where children live, it would be a much bigger problem.


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    I know an escort locally who works out of her home and OMG! I could never do that. She thinks I'm not "being safe" because I go to their homes and hotel rooms, I think she's nuts because *they know where she lives*. And she lives in a pretty surburban area where the houses are all close together.

    I always figured, if anything happened, it was easier to get myself out of their space than to kick them out of mine.
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    I need help!

    So I am not an escort but I do provide bodyrubs. Several of the top girls in Los Angeles work out of their homes and apartments for bodyrubs. I know these girls use their personal homes and apartments because I've read them in reviews where guys say they felt more comfortable with the girl. I was thinking I could provide bodyrubs in my apartment as well, but now I am getting paranoid with comments and don't know what to do. I mean los angeles is a dense city, and I live in a dense neighborhood with apartments everywhere. Am I being stupid?

    Cash is really low for me right now because I am trying to save up and pay bills as a student. I don't have a car, so I wouldn't be able to go from hotel to hotel or home as outcall. I was thinking eventually in the future I would just rent a studio with the money I saved up.

    I do consider my self low volume as in 2-3 clients max per day. I used to have up to 7 in one night at a hotel, but I stopped. I also don't have clients late at night or super early in the morning. I obviously screen, but do you think these efforts would make any difference at all?

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    I need help!

    So I am not an escort but I do provide bodyrubs. Several of the top girls in Los Angeles work out of their homes and apartments for bodyrubs. I know these girls use their personal homes and apartments because I've read them in reviews where guys say they felt more comfortable with the girl. I was thinking I could provide bodyrubs in my apartment as well, but now I am getting paranoid with comments and don't know what to do. I mean los angeles is a dense city, and I live in a dense neighborhood with apartments everywhere. Am I being stupid?

    Cash is really low for me right now because I am trying to save up and pay bills as a student. I don't have a car, so I wouldn't be able to go from hotel to hotel or home as outcall. I was thinking eventually in the future I would just rent a studio with the money I saved up.

    I do consider my self low volume as in 2-3 clients max per day. I used to have up to 7 in one night at a hotel, but I stopped. I also don't have clients late at night or super early in the morning. I obviously screen, but do you think these efforts would make any difference at all?

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