^ OMG, congrats !!





^ OMG, congrats !!





I was incredibly gassy during tonight's shift, and I think one of the customers got blamed for my farts. I had lunch at Panda Express with a coworker from the vanilla job, and it did some very unkind things to me.
Written on the walls at the house of sorrow
You can find the names of those who burned
Greater yet, the pain in little drawings
I could not remain in that room





Bunch of winners last nightI was not the only girl who got embroiled in disputes with customers over small amounts of money to the point that managers & security had to intervene.
Mine was a drunk dude who just walked off after. I told his sober friend, who apologized & tried to get the guy to pay but it was taking for-ev-er so I flagged down a bouncer. Dumbass then started lying saying he didn't get a dance. When has that claim ever worked? Sheesh.
"People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."
"You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave."





Not bad at all.![]()
I had missed dancing , over two weeks since I've been able to break away and go to my main dancing town.
I decided to try a Wed. ( i've mentioned before disliking weekends here before and wanted to change it up ).
Fairly happy. It was HARD to break away this week and I was scrappy ( literally just threw my dancer bag in and the clothes on my back ).
It started out nice with a traveler who spent $100 in dances very soon ( maybe 45 min. in ) - I always consider this a good luck sign as it eases my mind of getting stuck for travel costs. Then I sold a couple more. I had a done a little pre-marketing before I got to town and someone came in to find me and I did a couple for him.
The " yes " stuff was happening EARLY which is awesome.
Then I caught a very enthusiastic young guy ( he quickly bought a couple ). He obviously wanted " more " to the experience so I was trying to transition him to the Champagne room. We get IN there ( he knew how much ) and he only had $39 in his pocket. The pro - he gave it to me ........ the con .......... his card wouldn't let him pull the rest of the CR money out of the ATM ( or so he said ) . I kept that little tip for the time killing . Somewhere along the line he rustled $40 more out of his buddy and found me for a couple more.
When i get early sales it really pushes me to GO .... I kept circling. One black guy tipped me a $20 in my thong at the bar ( just chatting and trying to sell him a dance and told me I would be an incredible sales person haha ). The money leaned out later in the eve. which is different but i left happy. It was a really energetic night ( good mix of customer to girl ratio and enough elbow room to not get anxiety ).
$397 minus $30 for my gas and $31 tipping out ( more than the minimums but I wanted to be nice since I caught luck early ) . It's not huge by any means but I was there 6.5 hours flat and feel fine about it since it was a fun night.
I do plan to try more Wed. / Thurs. nights and see how I like them .
Last edited by carmen_b; 05-09-2019 at 06:00 PM.





It was sort of therapeutic. My mind’s been all over the fucking place with everything that’s done and has to be done still, so I had the DJ put on some Judas Priest for me, and it was just rage on the stage. Expended some pent up aggression, did a bunch of pole tricks they’d never seen me do before… and it actually made for a nice payday. Apparently coming into a shift pissed off and stressed out pays? Although some of the other dancers I think are kinda annoyed because maybe they think I was showing off… I’ve got over a decade of pole dance experience under my belt. No, I was just unwinding. I really needed to.
Written on the walls at the house of sorrow
You can find the names of those who burned
Greater yet, the pain in little drawings
I could not remain in that room



Ok lol last night I do not understand. Literally the top earner of the night just makes no sense. And she is never really top earner normally for so many reasons.She is the dumbest human I ever met. Dumber than a bag of rocks doesnt even begin to describe her. Everytime she opens her mouth she sounds like a whiney little bitch, literally. She is also very ugly in the face and body. She is skinny fat with a very large stomach, proportionally speaking...
Also some chick that was claiming she was "raped" Wednesday because supposedly some guy she danced for spread her pussy lips open ( which idk how in a topless club even)...now she is on stage letting everyone who tips her $1 feel on her ass and if they tip another maybe $2 she places their hand on her boob on stage.
These fucking retard low class trash customers now expect the same from everyone. Like no offense, but I would rather fall into a volcano.
Like I just cant with this club right now. Probably time to travel now!
Also miss retarded bitch keeps trying to talk to me and her voice is as annoying as a crinkly bag of chips and she is even more annoying once you add in whatever retard shit you are blocking out by being busy. I had a bad night cuz unusually trashy clientele and everyone sees who does what on the dance sheets. Dumb hoe comes up to me while I am actively counting out $200 in 1s to trade in for 20s cuz nobody worth hustling so I might as well. She asks me about dances. Firstly, you can see I ain't done shit on the sheets which they don't hide at all. No need to rub it in especially when normally I have 2-6 times as many as you, stupid hoe. I never rub it in and I normally far outsell these girls at this specific club. So the one time I do bad you gotta be a dumbass cunt miss Crinkley whiney biatch. Secondly I am fucking busy,hoe, cant u see I am counting my money. Thirdly I dont know you or like you quit trying to fucking talk to me, you're ugly and the dumbest person I ever met in my life that isnt clinically retarded. Fourth get the fuck away from my money, I dont know you or like you. Might not be a lot of $$$ but shit respect my space miss crinkley whiney bitch.



LOL!!



Omg my last shift was awful and my club's fees have been driving me crazy. Sorry in advance for a negative post/rant but I need to get this out lol.
First off my club straight up ROBS the dancers. This club is pretty slow even on weekends and there is not a massive earning potential for the most part. The club has a $100 house fee (I had to pay $130 upfront to work with the no stage fee) and in addition takes 1/3 of our dance money, plus tip out. There is NO money to be made on stage at all, so the $30 extra to stay off tends to be worth it. If I wasn't a good hustler I would never, ever dance in my town and soon will be traveling to dance and not working at clubs that rob girls ever again. Anyways, my last shift I paid $130 upfront and didn't sell anything until after midnight. I was feeling bad like maybe my hustle wasn't on point but even once I got upstairs to do the VIP I saw that every single dance and VIP booth was open - absolutely no one was doing dances even with 40 girls or so working.
The vip only made me $100 for 15 minutes so at this point I'm still $30 in the negatives for coming to work. I finally find someone who wants to do another 15 minute VIP and in the middle of talking to him a bouncer comes up and says he needs to to steal me for just a minute. At this point I'm thinking "this guy better have a huge sale lined up for me or fuck off" and he brings me over to two young ass dudes who want to buy one single dance. I turn around and see mr.vip has walked off annoyed at this point. UGH. Someone please tell me WHY do bouncers do this?? I already know how to sell VIPs on my own thank you very much. Unless you have a big spender coming in I do NOT want your help! (I probably should've just told him I was busy and not let him interrupt me at all, but I was hoping he had a 30 min or hour sale for me).
Honestly, how could the bouncer possibly think he was helping in this instance?? The guy I was talking to was a lot older and you can tell by looking at him he was a bigger spender than the other two dudes. If he thought I was going to give him a bigger tip for the sale referral he was dead wrong.
At the very end of the night I find a guy who wants to do half an hour but both ATMs aren't working so he had to get funny money which means an additional 10% was taken out. I left with about $450 which doesn't sound terrible but considering I paid $130 to work I really only left with $320 profit which is very low for a Saturday. I can't wait to travel around here shortly.
There's no way this many fees on independent contractors can be legal.





^ OMG , those fee's sound SO high.
I hope your travel dancing goes well ! If nothing else, it sounds like you need a break from that place.



I actually just took a huge break from dancing, about 3 months, and once I came back the management at my old club had changed a bunch of rules and fees. It used to cost $45 to work at my club. Still a lot when combined with the 1/3 of dances but the $100 makes me so mad. I keep hearing about girls suing clubs on the east coast and I won't feel sorry in the least if this one gets hit too.





^ $45 is completely reasonable. Sorry to hear they changed it. It's crazy. They will lose good girls.





$100 plus a 1/3 of dances is way too much. The club's are getting out of hand.
xoxo





The end of the night culminated in one of the dancers prattling off with a bunch of conspiracy theories that sounded like they had come straight from Infowars. I’m no longer considered “the weird one”, apparently
Otherwise, a decent - but fairly unremarkable - shift.
Written on the walls at the house of sorrow
You can find the names of those who burned
Greater yet, the pain in little drawings
I could not remain in that room
My last shift (at a new club since I got fired from my home club) was last Friday. I've been doing dayshifts there averaging about $500 after tip out without too much craziness. So I got a late start due to my anxiety but sat down next to a gentleman at the bar who was traveling back to Ireland on Sunday. We ended up chatting for quite a while and then he bought an hour room. He gave me $450 after the club cut and a small tip. I was very happy with that seeing as he was the only custie I had all day. We exchange emails so he can let me know when he's back stateside. That being said earlier in the day one of the girls tried some weird power move thing on me where she came up to a guy I was chatting with and positioned herself right between us. Lol, the guy apologized and gave me a tip. No idea if that was her dealer, her man or her custy. I just laughed and strolled off. Stuff like that never ceases to amuse me. The insecurity of some girls is wild. Today the main bartender at my old club hit me up saying that if I wanted to come back I could and work any shift. She insisted to the manager who fired me that he needed to bring me back because I helped her out a lot. Made me feel pretty great. Especially since I got fired for a truly bullshit reason. A dancer got her money stolen and I suggested that she have management look at the cameras. The manager flipped a lid over that. I'm guessing because the girl I suspected of being the thief is his buddy and also shares her coke/percs with him. He started getting loud with me asking me why the hell I wanted the camera looked at so bad if I wasn't the person whose money was stolen. Yea, I know, makes zero sense, but then again, people don't make sense when they're addicted to drugs. I do miss my girls and the bartenders there plus all the custies I know so I'm gonna go work a few shifts a month. It's gonna be satisfying as fuck when I stroll in with a pimp walk so the toxic bitch who thinks she runs the place (the suspected thief narcissist terror) can be pissed af and so the other girls can know they don't have to be afraid of her.
Adapt and Overcome.


My last shift (and technically my 1st in almost a year and a half). I was nervous and I felt awkward . Not because of the nudity or anything,I've been doing this too long to be nervous of that...but I almost feel like I lost my hustle. I dont know how to force my hustle to come back but I need it tonight. So anyways ..I was nervous and it was dead ontop of my lack of hustle lol. Plus sign in is a bit much and they also take 5$ off of every dance and expect everyone gets tipped ...like I hope with all that I'll still make money for myself lol.
i talked to the managers about possibly transitioning to watiressing, because lately there are too many nights i haven't been making enough to justify dancing when this club is so popular and the waitresses make just as much. the problem is that i don't want to quit dancing, just do it less. of course right after i had that talk with them i sold a vip cabana and now i'm even more on the fence.
i think what i'm going to do is try and waitress at another club (not as nice, sorta known for extras, but it's decent) to get a feel for how it works, then i'll decide what to do.. since i have only ever been a waitress at a nude club and a shitty one at that.
i love dancing and think i'd feel super jealous and regretful having to serve and watch all the strippers dancing, having fun, drinking and getting all the attention. i wish there were more clubs of the same caliber around here but this is really the only one i work at so.. if i give up my position as entertainer, i'm stuck dancing at shitty clubs or not at all. i can still travel but not very often these days.
I feel like waitresses get a lot of attention!! Men love that they aren't as accessible/available as the dancers, and they love how the waitress outfits leave something to the imagination. I feel like sexy strip club waitresses can bank if they know how to work customers and also provide good service. Just saying that based on what i've observed!



It was great made 700 in 3 hours by mostly talking and then went home.


Last night: auditioned at ricks in nyc, got rejected. Got re-hired at sapphire 39, 7 blocks away. Still ambivalent about sapphire 60. I always felt really out of place there.
I made about ~$300 between 7 and 2 am last night at 39th street, $100 of which was from stage and single dance tips. 2 am is a little too late for my for my boring 27 yr old morning person-ass, but I'd be happy with $300 on a day shift there. I'm imagining 2 15-minute rooms and a handful of dances? 3-4x a week would be clutch, especially if it opens the door to a wealthy otc benefactor. a girl can fuckin dream





^ Worth trying ! The goal and the possibility of some OTC adventures seem possible there !





Day 1 of a dancer trip tends to always be the most miserable. ;/
Packing and driving in addition to being there ..... damn.
The shift itself was ok. Mid week with breathing room. A trucker took a liking to me and most of the $ was from him.
Not huge earnings ( and damn , from it $30 gas and $60 hotel , $25 to club till I make a dime ). Profit is " middle of the road " currently. I started earning quite quickly though and the trip was out of the " hole " in an hour I think after getting to the club. The " hole " feeling is always a panic point / issue for me until I'm out.
I have been reminding myself that I have four days here ( if I can stand being in town this long ) and this trip is a marathon not a sprint. My schedule allows four days. I just don't know if my body will.
Also .... weird guilt feelings coming up ( no one knows where I am just because then it's a can of worms to explain what I'm doing ).
I'm not entering the club doors totally sharp . My day job has been horrifically stressful. I usually don't drink at work. Two whiskeys later ( I think one guy made it a double ) and I was " that girl " . I lost my keys then my make up bag . It took an HOUR and an ego bruise to find both. ;/
So I'll be drinking juice only tomorrow and just keep movin ' foward.
Last edited by carmen_b; 05-23-2019 at 12:14 PM.
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