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Me: Is this your first time at this club?
Young drunk Indian boy: No, this is my second. Last time was my first time. I was kicked out by a manager.
Me: Why? What happened?
Boy: They kicked me out for eating a cupcake.
Me: A cupcake???
Boy: Yes.
Me: You didn't buy it from in here? You know we have a menu, right?
Boy: No, I brought in my own cupcake. It was from outside. I went upstairs to use the ATM and some guy sold me a cupcake so I came back with it and i was sitting and eating it over there. I was kinda drunk. So maybe i was dropping the crumbs everywhere, and the people got so angry at me. The manager told me to get out, and never come back! But here I am. They don't remember anymore.
Me: WOW! He told you to "never come back"?? That's pretty harsh! For a cupcake!
Boy: It was a pretty big cupcake.
Me: …Was it good? It must have been really good. You would rather leave with it than just throw it away?
Boy: Yes, it had the cashews, and the almond bits…
Me: I think you must be the first and only person in history to get kicked out of a stripclub for eating a cupcake.
Boy: That's what the bouncer told me on my way out, too.
Me: Ha ha ha
Boy: I told my friends it was because I touched a dancer, because I didn't want to say the truth.
Me: I'm going to write about this in my journal tonight.
Boy: Please don't include my name in it, if you do!
Me: OK.
Last edited by domina; 03-23-2015 at 02:40 AM. Reason: grammar



Uhg, last night was a fucking loony bin in there! I had 5 customers ask me if I would fuck them in the VIP, one of whom was extremely persistent and kept trying to catch me all night even after I told him I'm a clean dancer. Like WTF, I'm not a prostitute. You want me to spell this out for you AGAIN? I'm not a goddamn hooker!! xD Has someone told you I do extras? I don't! Apparently all the girls had this experience though, and they were all talking about it in the back.
Only guy who spent any decent money on me last night kept trying to rub my clit. I confess I just went with it eventually because it's not exactly going to bother anyone. :/ Sometimes I think the only reason I can make money in this club is because I'm a genuine nympho and can get some sexual gratification from almost any damn motion down there.





^ Just a thought. If you were letting a guy rub your clit perhaps he was telling other guys, " hey she'll do extras"???



I'm one of the only girls in my club who doesn't do extras, and all the regulars know it. This was at the end of the night. I'm sorry if the things I have to do to stay off the street offend you, but this is the reality of my location and current situation. I envy you for never having to do this if that's the case.





^ Lol. I never said that. Or that I was offended I guess you are though. I mean if you're letting a dude rub your clit that is an extra and if dudes are asking maybe it got arround. It was just a thought. You took what was said and took it wayyyy out of context...




Extras are pretty variable, depending on the club and location. My extras free club would be downright filthy in some areas. Just saying...
Last night was pretty standard. Made money early, sat around, made money at the end of my shift. There was a group of extremely drunk people and, when I was onstage, one of the drunkest approached the tip rail. I did my usual boob jiggle and he walked away without tipping. I was shocked but hus friends quickly correcred him and he ended up throwing $10 or so on stage. I did notice a customer staring at me pretty intently and... I knew him from somewhere. I did and the fact that I danced for him is a huge bit of scheudenfreude.
I worked the early shift today and, for how slow it was, I did really well. I got a 30 minute VIP and some random dances here and there. I did get one of the DJ's to take a short video of me on stage. I've come a long way!
The stress of the past few months has left my looking and feeling like utter crap, so I'm working on my diet and have started tanning. It's working! I spray and UV ranned before my shift Saturday and got a ton more attention than I usually do.
I had a fight this past weekend. These two bitches were in the bathroom and one got an attitude with me so I responded to her with an attitude, when I did that her friend grabbed me by my hair from behind and started to punch me in the face so I turned around punching her back, throw her on the floor get on top of her and just start beating her ass. security came right in tho so we didn't have much time, too bad.lol. I don't ever start fights but hey since she grabbed me I had no choice. After the bouncer was acting like I started it and like it was my fault, come to find out management has known the girl who grabbed me since she was a kid, no wonder they stood up for her, nobody got fired, nothing happened. I went right from being pulled off this girl in the bathroom to give dances to a customer.lol, didn't have to brush my hair, change or nothing. This girls hits felt like taps, how stupid does she look and now I wonder y the hell she's always starting shit with other girls if she cannot even fight..? Oh well I proceeded to have a wonderful $$ night



Honestly, it's hard to say what is or isn't an extra in my club. ._. I know they do fire people for having sex or giving blowjobs in the club, but they also encourage the customers to lick our tits and touch pretty much anywhere. And we're allowed to touch the guys as long as their pants don't come off. Some of the girls who work with me are just filthy; I've seen a couple of them literally shove their tongue down a customer's throat while going around for tips.








Last edited by domina; 03-24-2015 at 09:30 PM.




In my old club, nothing was really a firable offense, as long as it was kept reasonably quiet. Not keeping it quiet only resulted in being sent home for the day, most of the time.
In my current club, as long as the custys pants stay zipped and the dancers bottoms cover her, it's ok. Anything else is at the dancers discretion.
In other areas, a nip slip is grounds for being fired.
We can always start another thread on what counts as extras in individual clubs. But let's get back to the shift updates here.![]()





Last night I had the same foreigner approach my customers twice while I was busy talking to them. The second time I pushed her off the customer. She wants to be an aggressive cockblock, I'll get physically aggressive. I warned her to cut the shit off, & told management that if it happens again she's gonna a get surprised punch in the face. Apparently, this cunt is doing it to a bunch of girls. Hopefully, she gets fired.
I'm not a violent person, just don't try to fuck with my money.



Huge convention.
Every girl went upstairs for about 2 hours except me, who was struggling to make anything even on the floor.
Manager pulled me aside and asked what was wrong tonight. I was working and hardly left the floor. All the convention guys were conservative Texans who aren't super into pale girls with lots of tattoos I guess.
Got a half hour in cash at the end of the night, so that was the stripper gods shining on me. Other than that...ugh.


At one point last night I had 3 guys lined up for a dance. When I finished the first one, a guy said "before you get dressed, want to come over here and dance for me?" I was sitting next to him waiting for the next song when some bitch who just got off stage walks up and "want another dance?" stealing a good $60-80 sale. I didn't care though, because I snatched another customer who didn't even touch/feel me up.




Wednesday was a complete bust. There were no customers and not much to work with. I made my fees back, but that was about it.
Tonight was really hard. Few customers and not a whole lot of money but I kept at it and scored a decent VIP at the end.
A customer who spent bank on me last week totally ignored me tonight. It was just... weird.
I did get one of 4 feature performer spots for the grand opening next week. I'm doing a dominatrix act, which should be a lot of fun!



quit and left in the negative on a friday night because even though the manager on duty said to waive my cancellation fee, the housemom said the gm overrides the manager on duty and if I dont pay it she pays it. Usual bullshit housemoms say to guilt you into not fighting with her. Dont shoot the messenger right?
Yea yea ok fuck that. It wasnt just me. Over half yhr girls were leaving in the negative and paying high house fees, past cancellation fees. This club is in desperate need of girls and theyre charging fees. I actually asked the housemom why the gm is being such a dick if this club is desperate for girls.
U dont wanna drive away the few house girls u have.
"We're actually gonna bring girls from an agency in."
Oooohhh ok then guess youre not gonna need me then. Im not working a club that thinks theyre hot shit but I cant even make tipout and a cancellation fee back on a friday. And I had free house fee? and still left in negative. What?!
Bye felicia. Im done with new york im going to jersey.



Last night was good for me. Two guys walked in wearing jerseys, weren't in the VIP section or anything. A friend told me one of them wanted a dance for me but I was next on stage, so I went up and did my thing and then came down. In that time, my friend was giving his friend a dance. We managed to convince them to go upstairs.
My guy (who wasn't even paying for it!) was kind of a pig, kept on acting very entitled and trying to touch me, trying to "get 500 dollars worth." It was pretty awful. But we managed to make them stay another hour (thanks, alcohol!) Anyway, the waitress had ran someone elses card for the bottle of champagne that they had ordered. And she came back in asking for their card, at which point, the asshole guy had stolen the guy who was paying's card and ID and walked out! So we were basically trapped in the champagne room until someone paid for the bottle. Which bothered me a little since this was time we could be making more money and it kinda wasn't our fault that the waitress charged the wrong card and had to reverse the charge.
Eventually, they paid, and my friend stayed up there trying to convince her guy to stay another hour. I realized it was going nowhere...at this point all their cards had holds on them and the one guy was trying to leave. So I got up, told the VIP host that I didn't want to waste my time and think I can make money elsewhere and left.
And I did! Last half hour of the night, I spontaneously got a half hour (I swear this keeps happening!) So I did pretty well, made back my house fee on the floor too plus some pretty nice stage tips from these two weird guys who kept trying to negotiate prices with me...




I fucking crashed my car about a mile after leaving work. I'm so pissed. I haven't even gotten it out of the tow yard yet so I don't know what's wrong with it. I'm so stressed. I would love to work tonight to make the costs of what it will be to fix it, but I can't even go because my face looks so ugly. My upper lip is so swollen it looks like botched botox. I didn't even know the accident was so bad after the first seconds after it happened (I was in shock) until I saw the bloody airbag. Ughhh SO not what I needed.
"Rather have my feet hurting than my pockets."




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