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    Default Why I Love & Value My Job In 25 Seconds...

    The video speaks for itself...



    An excerpt from the Intelligence Squared debate: 'Pornography Is Good For Us' - well worth watching.



    Your job makes a huge impact on some people's lives.

    We have the power to significantly improve people's lives for the better to such an extreme as this. And this, my fellow sex workers, is why I love being a "whore", and I love not having a "real job"... It's why I take on-board the baseless stigma, because I am so proud of what I do. We listen to the most concealed, honest facets of our fellow human beings.
    This career is the most real I've ever had.





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    inspirational but it makes me sad too that we can make such a difference in people's lives and still feel judged by others.

    i feel like i use my degree more in camming than i have in any other job. sad.

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    I am touched that my job makes a huge impact on some people's lives but in return the lives that I've touched also have touched mine in so many ways. I now have a newfound sense of confidence and self-esteem. Through this job that I've met so many wonderful fellow cam girls. They are the most open-minded people.
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    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



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    Never let the judgement of others define your reality or who you are!

    Quote Originally Posted by karaamsel View Post
    inspirational but it makes me sad too that we can make such a difference in people's lives and still feel judged by others.

    i feel like i use my degree more in camming than i have in any other job. sad.
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    This is what I focus on when I have a bad day, or deal with someone who is judgemental. I joke about it all the time on cam "I am just trying to make world peace happen - if everyone was happy and jacking off all the time, there would be no time for war!" and make a big joke about it...but I honestly believe that what we do IS important, that we DO make a difference.

    And when I think about it, I think that being there for some poor lonely guy (or girl!) and making someone feel valued and worthwhile - that is worth more than selling a car, or crunching numbers behind a desk, or serving a drink, or whatever.

    We may joke about the creepy guys, and the ones that are just so socially awkward - but for them, we are a lifesaver. We may be the only ones that they CAN talk to - that they can feel comfortable around. What about the guys in wheelchairs, or with visible disability that feel that they are judged by every girl who can see them - we give them self confidence, we make them feel happier in themselves. What about all the ones who just want to talk because they have no one else to talk to?

    Some people might think that we are just vaginas for hire, but we know that isn't true. I am proud to make people feel good, and I won't be made to think that that isn't important.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ManyRoses View Post
    This is what I focus on when I have a bad day, or deal with someone who is judgemental. I joke about it all the time on cam "I am just trying to make world peace happen - if everyone was happy and jacking off all the time, there would be no time for war!" and make a big joke about it...but I honestly believe that what we do IS important, that we DO make a difference.

    And when I think about it, I think that being there for some poor lonely guy (or girl!) and making someone feel valued and worthwhile - that is worth more than selling a car, or crunching numbers behind a desk, or serving a drink, or whatever.

    We may joke about the creepy guys, and the ones that are just so socially awkward - but for them, we are a lifesaver. We may be the only ones that they CAN talk to - that they can feel comfortable around. What about the guys in wheelchairs, or with visible disability that feel that they are judged by every girl who can see them - we give them self confidence, we make them feel happier in themselves. What about all the ones who just want to talk because they have no one else to talk to?

    Some people might think that we are just vaginas for hire, but we know that isn't true. I am proud to make people feel good, and I won't be made to think that that isn't important.
    this made me feel a lot better

    even to think about the men in marriages where they feel uncomfortable sharing their sexual needs with their partner... we are there - we don't judge (well, for the most part).

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    People always argue that this job is immoral because it pulls married couples apart. But really, its not our (sexworkers) faults or responsibilities the ensure that everyone is single. Its not even our business to ask about it, and if a man says he is married, how do you know he's not just pretending/fantasizing he is? And its not our fault if men (and women) cannot distinguish between fantasy (us) and reality (not us).

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    It is what it is. Guys with cancer of the face can come to us for their social sustenance and other guys can mortgage their lives racking up huge amounts of credit card debt.

    I love and value my job as a cam model because camming saved my life and prevented me from loosing my home and becoming a street person. I have always had to look out for myself, life is hard. Good luck to everyone else.

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    I haven't been camming for very long but in the short time that I have, I've learned that although many many guys can be down right cruel to camgirls, there are the ones that just want company and are sweet men. Also, I feel like the weird things you get on cam are just everyday people. It could be my neighbor you know? Just a normal person who has a weird twisted fetish or need that they can't talk to someone about in real life.
    It makes me feel good that I give someone a nonjudgmental outlet so they don't have to keep stuff bottled up inside. That's not good for anyone.
    Everyone needs love at someone point and if I can make someone feel like they matter for even thirty minutes, I feel good about myself.
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    Sometimes I swear I'm going to quit camming and do something else.... then I look up jobs I would qualify for and quickly say FUCK THAT! Ain't nobody got time for that!




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    A lot of the guys who come into my chat room want to take out all of their frustrations on a cam girl. That is why they want to see you hurt yourself, choking to death on a rubber dick or making your ass bleed. They could just be neighbors also or maybe an uncle or even a father O_o .

    Anyway.... whatever you focus on will become your sense of reality.

    If you focus on the bad you will see more bad and if you focus on the good you will see more good. I am going to focus on the money.

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    I focus on the money as well. Even though it's not the best-paid occupation I have had, still it easily pays my mortgage for a really nice apartment in a new building in the capital, allows me to buy things some people would consider as "luxury" (shoes, bags, dresses, jewellery, you name it), especially in the country I live in, where the monthly average salary is still below 500 euros.

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    Hey this was beautiful. You jerk, way to electroshock my jaded twisted heart. Melting the icy barrier it took years to cover it with in a short 25second clip, how dare you. Lol no really, this was awesome inspo, thanks for posting.

    Painfully(!) adorable signature gif btw.





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