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    I work in a club where 75% of the customers are latino. I love latinos OTC.

    But the ones that come into the club are cheap, grabby, rude and gross!! 99% of the approached ask for half-priced dances. I understand if bargaining is part of the culture where they are from, but no means no! When I say I will not lower my price for them and that's not the way things work here, they still try to bargain with me. They also tend to get very VERY handsy, expect more for 20 bucks than is in any way reasonable and like to try and lick/ bite my nipples or my ass when I'm dancing for them. I had a guy try to touch my pussy and when I removed his hand, he loudly proclaimed, "This is bullshit!" and got up and left. He payed me, of course, but really? You automatically think you can touch my pussy for 20 bucks?

    WTF is this about? Why are they so damn grabby and licky and why do they expect so much for so little?

    Anyone have similar experiences like this with the same or different demographic?

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    Default Re: Disrespectful Hispanic Customers and Lots of Grabby Grabby!!

    I don't mean to sound like a racist bitch, but if the guy is latino and sounds like he can barely speak English, I don't even bother. I'm sure there are exceptions and some girl made a million dollars off a spanish speaking latinio bla bla bla, but its not worth my time. Their steriotype is exactly what you explained: lickers, biters, hagglers and very grabby.

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    I get this a lot in my club too. I have one decent Hispanic customer, but I pretty much only put up with him because he comes in when it's slow and generally goes for $100 or so. I was told I only gave "half a dance's worth" last night with someone else because I didn't let him put my nipples in his mouth, so I should therefore give a second dance for free. I feel like a bitch, but I admit I rarely approach the Hispanic men in my club, and if I do, it's because it's slow and/or they asked me to dance for them while I was on stage. Even then, when I go over, many of them start off with, "So, are you a fun stripper?" winkwink. "Sure, I'm loads of fun! Let's go have a dance." "No, I mean, y'know... do you get fun in the back?" And at that point I just cut my losses and suddenly have something to do on the other side of the club.

    The only group I'm more racist against than the Hispanic men in my club are the Indian men. Shitty, I know, but I've never had a single good experience with them and always regret trying to be politically correct and dancing for one.

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    Latinos tend to be my 'last resort' to approach, & I watch them like hawks if they approach me first & want dances, for these same reasons. I don't have the patience, energy or desensitivity(?) for their bullshit. I wouldn't say I'm racist b/c I don't tolerate those behaviours from anyone regardless of race; in this case I'm just going on what I've learnt from experience.

    I've seen it said here that stripclubs in Mexico are outright brothels. I'm singling out Mexicans since I'm in Tx & they are the majority of the Latinos I find at work. Idk if this is true across the board but it certainly makes sense. If they are getting fs in Mexico, of course they will demand it here.

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    most of my clientele was Hispanic when I danced in LA, and I always ran into numerous problems with them. They were in fact grabby, tried to lick & when they smacked my ass I usually turned around & smacked them across their face LOL and they didn't like it & then I told them they had to tip me an extra $100 or I'd have them arrested LOL, some fell for it others ran out of the club. I am the type of girl that they are drawn to white ,tall, somewhat curvy w/tattoos & a booty. And they always seemed to ask for sex when I tried hustling them for a private dance, sometimes I'd fake an accent & pretend I didn't understand them & they'd get a dance. Indian men are nasty too!!! They're about as bad as the Hispanic guys. However not every single one I've encountered have been bad though as far as the Hispanic/indian race.
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    omg, they are nothing compared to east indian men though..gahhh..my flesh is creeping just thinking about them!unfortunately they always ask me for dances, so i've had way too much of them lately..the most disrespectful men i've ever encountered in my life * wow i sound so racist right now*
    i actually have a very sweet mexican customer, but most of them are kind of like you described. i'm no expert in latino culture, but im sure it has everything to do with what country they come from..spanish men are pretty polite compared to mexican/puerto rican/ecuadorian. those from brazil are polite as well, but there is soo much diversity there

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    Latino custies in OKC always tried to stick their noses in my ass.

    Every. Single. Time.

    True story.

    OTC, I'm married to a wonderful and extremely handsome Latino.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aniela View Post
    I've seen it said here that stripclubs in Mexico are outright brothels. I'm singling out Mexicans since I'm in Tx & they are the majority of the Latinos I find at work. Idk if this is true across the board but it certainly makes sense. If they are getting fs in Mexico, of course they will demand it here.
    I currently live in Mexico, and yes, what you have heard is true. From what I know and understand of it, it is "expected" of the girls. Just part of how it works down here - the strippers are not dancers, that is merely a cover name for them being prostitutes. Sure, they can get up on stage and shake their ass, but the real shows get down n dirty with one on one time.

    I had joked with my husband a while ago about becoming a stripper here, and he gave me a o.O wtf sort of look. That is when I found out that stripping is a very different thing down here. Yeah, sure, there are some not so classy hoes up in the US, but down here, all strippers are just flinging it away, left and right, for what amounts to a few bucks.

    Heard a story once that my hub relayed to me: He had overheard some construction workers bitching about some of their experiences in strip clubs, and one lovely gentleman went on to exclaim that the stripper (ie whore) that he had fucked up the ass last night, had eaten jalapeños, and that he had gotten one of the seeds on his dick and it had burned his dick hole. Apparently, some of the strippers/prostitutes do not bother using condoms either. :o/

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    Quote Originally Posted by FuriousAngel View Post
    Heard a story once that my hub relayed to me: He had overheard some construction workers bitching about some of their experiences in strip clubs, and one lovely gentleman went on to exclaim that the stripper (ie whore) that he had fucked up the ass last night, had eaten jalapeños, and that he had gotten one of the seeds on his dick and it had burned his dick hole. Apparently, some of the strippers/prostitutes do not bother using condoms either. :o/
    OMFG that's hilarious!! Good to know this, though, it sure explains a lot.

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    I've had the same experience here. I can also single them out as Mexican day laborers. The ones here expect you to sit on their lap for ages for free. They are super grabby too. Haven't seen much cheapness though, our dances are already $10
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    Honestly, Hispanic guys and Indian guys are a last resort. Even then I expect the worst with them and I sit a distance away so I can stop their hands if they try to grab at me. I have had a couple Indian guys surprise me and be quite gentlemanly but never a Hispanic one.

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    There are mexican guys that somehow make it into my high-end club during the day usually and just sit there nursing their $12 beer until night shift shows up and then they try to be extremely touchy if they even get a dance AT All.
    Here's my experience in Mexico. My gf and I went to Cabo for vacation and we were drunk and trickled into a strip club that was DEAD. The owner came up to us and asked us if we wanted a job. We said well how does it work. He says you can come in whenever you want, you can start tomorrow. We're like "ok" like ya never gonna happen obviously and then he asks "oh btw how much do u charge for a HJ". I said WHAT!!! He said cause the girls here charge 200 pesos !!
    Also, theres only like 3 bars and we befriended some prostitutes that worked at the club down the street and once they got off work, they were at the bars trying to turn tricks outside the strip club, too. So, that's Mexico's culture.
    There are differences in countries, though. I'm assuming most of you are talking about Mexicans.

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    Rarely I made money with Hispanics customers. First I'm not their type, I'm tall and skinny, and secondly I learned early on how grabby they were, always sticking their tongues out in the hopes of licking something. Ugh! When there's no other option I'll ask for a dance, ask for the money first and start with an air dance, if the guy was behaves I'll do my regular set, otherwise, air dance for you.

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    omg ^^ funny shit!!! I do the exact same thing out of fear LOL air dance then regular dance (if they don't get pissed off from the 1st dance)
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    In Australia my experience of Indian men is in line with yours, at least 80% of them. It has made me wary of Indian men outside the club. I wonder if thats what they are really like behind their public facade. They judge me and therefore they themselves are judged.

    One older Indian gentleman paid $600 for company out on the floor (100% no dirty touch- might have put a gentle hand on my back or arm) and was far away in 8yrs dancing my best indian customer. He was aducated, reserved and articulate, if a little possessive but I would spend time with a man like him again in a shot.
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    I have had a few great mexican and indian customers but its easy to spot them because they dress much differently. designer glasses, high quality coat and shirt, possibly a nice sweater, high quality but low key watch. aside from those guys ive probably had one or two younger mexican guys that spent a few hundred and didnt try to touch but I blame that on them being so drunk they were half asleep lol.

    there have been a lot of mexicans and latinos from la trickling in the last few weeks ive noticed and its really irritating me. they keep grabbing me from behind and shit trying to get me to hang out with them for free.

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    Ahhhhhh all of this !!! I'm in Texas and am Hispanic as well, and even I notice it. I literally was giving a dance last week when the dude (Mexican, barely speaking English) was like "sexo?" Um no. Bit it's definitely what they expect in those Mexico strip clubs. Girls at my club avoid them for obvious reasons and I talk to them and am actually kind of mean while I deal with them. Friday there was a group of four and one was visiting from Mexico and was the drunkest most handsy asshole ever. He would tip me on stage and try to shove his nose in my asshole and be like "come on show me pussy!". Bitch give me your money and sit the fuck down.

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    I'm half Mexican and I don't bother with them. ONCE in a blue moon you will get a nice respectful one but overall they are grabby as hell. They loooove being slapped around, surprisingly. They are obsessed with assholes for some reason. I can almost predict when the "strike" will come and intercept it appropriately.

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    I'm Hispanic myself and I avoid them like the plague! If you can even get them to dance you will find that the money isn't even worth it for the amount of Grief they give u during dances.

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    I have worked in mexico city on and off for 2 1/2 years and whilst it is true that most dancers there do extras not all do(including myself). Most men dont actually go to the club looking for sex and i dont find i get asked for extras anymore tan in the US or any other countries.
    However of course im talking about upscale clubs in mexico city where on the whole the clientale is wealthy ,educated,speaking english and usually respectful.

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    We had a young slightly intoxicated Mexican come in one time who got dances from my friend Sierra. The first thing out of his mouth was "Sexo?" "No sexo, sweetie," she replied. "Otro dance? Sexo?" he slurred. "No sexo, sweetie." This went on for about 7 songs before he figured out he wasn't going to get "el sexo".

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    ^ bahahah!!! el sexo...wow...

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