Hey guys. I went back and searched from older threads and read everything I can. I just started doing nude FBSM (no FS). I danced forever in a very high contact city, so the transition has been fine. I know alot of you guys say independent is the way to go, but for now I am working at a place and it's been ok so far. So, I just have a few questions for anyone that does this. Do you actually try and give the guy a decent 'massage'? Meaning, similar to what you would get from a legit massage place. Or, do you do more a light sensual teasing touch? I seem to have an issue with starting out fine and then the guy wanting to get off the table and get too frisky. I've been trying to really work on giving a decent massage, but I don't know if that is what most other girls do. The tough thing about this as opposed to dancing is that at least as a new dancer you can really watch and study other girls technique to figure out what to do haha. I also am having some trouble with guys that are too touchy for what I am comfy with. I know we can just say no, but how do you handle that? I don't want to get pissy customers and bad reviews, but I also want to draw the line in a way where they still leave happy and I don't compromise what I am comfy with. How do you keep him for the whole session under YOUR control? I seem to have an issue with starting out fine and then the guy wanting to get off the table and get too frisky. I wish I could scream just shut up, lay down on your stomach and roll over when I say! At the place I work, the ending is obviously expected. But, some of the girls offer more (although it was made clear to me that is not required or expected). I am fine with light touching, but not cool when some dude wants to put his fingers where they don't belong. Everyone has their limits ya know? So any advice? Maybe I just need to grow some balls and be bitchier![]()



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