I used to cam with a guy fairly regularly. I'd say a few times a week, and over the course of the months that we chatted, he spent, literally, thousands talking to me.
In June, end of June, I mentioned I was moving to Brighton and he said he would treat me to some vouchers for any online shop I wanted to buy things from for my new house. I told him he didn't need to but he insisted. A few weeks passed and we continued chatting but he never bought me the voucher. I brought it up with him and said that, again, he didn't need to and if he had changed his mind just say, but he said he was busy and he wouldn't forget. We haven't spoken much recently and I'm moving in a week so I text him a week ago and said if he didn't want to buy me the voucher just tell me; he said he would but he wanted a phone call first. I said when I get the voucher I'll call him. He said he would get it for me this week.
I'm a little pissed off. I never ask, but he offered. I told him multiple times that he didn't have to, that if he changed his mind just say, that I don't need the extra money but time and again he insisted and now he's just annoying me. Part of me wants to drop it and not deal with him again, but the other part of me is thinking "What an asshole. I'm gonna annoy and annoy him until he either makes good on his word, or at least says that he's changed his mind."
Am I expecting too much?
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closed mouths dont get fed and that whole platitude. Gift cards are a sale, you gotta close it firmly or itll just be a tease for extra attention. If you kept telling him you dont need or want his money... Im unclear why you kept bringing it up or expected it and are now pissed off? Boundaries for sales grooming are on us, being polite or prideful doesnt really get us far. Seriously - If a customer offers you money, just say yes.

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