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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarletKitten View Post
    I'm brand new to dancing- I've only danced 2 nights so far.

    Well, on my second night, I had about 1 1/2 hours till closing, so I walked up to a customer sitting by himself that looked at me and had the "come over here" look. So I walk over and sit in his lap and start talking/flirting with him. He starts insulting me by pointing at my stockings and calling me lazy because there was a hole in them (the snag on my stockings only just happened that night!) I laughed it off by telling him that I was not at all lazy, that I was the opposite and worked hard doing all kinds of things, etc. I just wanted his fucking money. So I managed to take his pathetic ass to one of the lap dance rooms (no VIP, just $20/dance room, no other fees). I hustled my ass off just to get him to do that. He kept asking what he would get for $20/song which he did not want to pay. I said I could give him a sexy dance along with a massage and a good time for only $20/song. He said that was too much and he would only pay me $40 for a 30-minute massage. I was desperate to make money b/c the club was so fucking dead (even though it was Friday night!) - so I reluctantly agreed. I undersold myself WAY too much, which I will never do again, but I was so desperate. So I massaged him and danced for him for a good hour, after which I said "ok, that will be $80".

    THEN, he had the fucking nerve to say "oh, don't I get a blowjob as part of the deal?" I said "no fucking way" but he refused to give me any money unless I pleasured him somehow. WHAT A FUCKING SLEAZEBAG! I tell him "I'm sorry I can't do that in here, there are people watching, if you want a more intimate experience, we have to go in the VIP room", but that was too much fucking money for him. so he said "let's go in the bathroom" to which I agreed to give him a handjob just to take his lousy $80 and get the hell out of there. well, management starts knocking on the bathroom door, to which I panicked. I grabbed his lousy $80 out of his hand (he wanted all his money back b/c I didn't make him cum, but I grabbed his money anyway) and shoved it in my stocking, turned off the bathroom light, and exited, leaving him with his dick in his hand, in the dark. LOL

    I got chewed out by management when they found out he and I were in the bathroom together, but the best part was that I didn't make him cum, and I took his money anyway, AND he got humiliated by one of the managers finding him in there after I left.

    Karma is a bitch. I will never do that shit EVER again though! God this job is seriously making me HATE men.

    Anyone care to give advice or rant about your own cheap-asshole-customer experience?
    Double whammy - a cheap asshole customer experience and a foolishly naïve, newbie stripper experience in one - probably the worst combination of people to encounter one another in the club.

    This guy showed you from the start that he was a cheap asshole, and you chose to deal with him anyway. You should've walked away when he wouldn't even agree to a $20 dance and instead proposed that ridiculous massage deal - but, no, it didn't end there.

    Instead, you gave him an hour worth of dances and...massage. For $80. He wanted a blowjob on top of it all, and when you suggested going to VIP to perform your extras, he declined so you settled for committing prostitution in the men's bathroom instead. *sigh*

    This makes me sad. The worst part of it all is that you seem to think that you're the victor in all of this... because, according to you, the "BEST PART" is that you didn't make him cum and took his money anyway.... all $80 of it!! "He was humiliated"? "Karma is a bitch"? No, baby, HE WON. He got an hour worth of lap dances plus a handjob in the bathroom from a stripper for $80. He f**king won.

    I know you're only two nights into your dancing career, but based on this account, you're off to a lousy start. You have a lot of learning and growing to do. My advice: ESTABLISH FIRM BOUNDARIES. VALUE yourself, your time, and your services. Do NOT undersell yourself. Don't do extras. Don't put up with bullshit (you don't have to!!) Read, read, read this forum!

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    ^Hear fucking hear. I get being desperate to make money on a quiet night, but it's a slippery slope from underselling your time by doing a half hour of dances for a mere $40 to scampering around the bathroom giving a handjob and almost losing your job. Learn to value yourself enough to walk away from this kind of situation or it will happen again. With this industry, some nights will inevitably be better than others, but if you let those bad nights bring you down like that, you'll just fast track yourself to a bad news bears situation. You've gotta look out for #1 because no one else will do it for you!

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    Default Re: Cheap asshole customer!

    Let this be a lesson learned. But seriously a whole hour of dances and massages for 80 bucks even after he insulted you? It doesn't matter how bad of a night it is; the moment a customer insults you and calls you names ie. lazy, just know its time to tell him to go fuck himself and walk away. That 80 bucks is not worth your self respect, dignity,hour of your time and not to mention the grief he put you though.

    With experience you will learn not to put up with shit from these customers. Just do not allow anything like this to happen again no matter how dead the club is.

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    Default Re: Cheap asshole customer!

    You shouldn't even have tried to defend yourself against the lazy comments - he was picking a fight and belittling you and you played right in. Next time just laugh and say "mm whatever you say" - infuriates these kind of guys.

    And I agree with everyone else, how do you go from $40 for dances to a fucking handjob? He definitely won. You just succeeded in making a reputation for yourself as an extras girl.
    "People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."

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    jesus christ..im speechless. i second what everyone else said. this job is making you hate men after 2 days? im sorry but you gave him an hour of your time, a massage, dances, and a cock rub for 80 bucks! plus almost getting fired? you should hate yourself for that one, you let him get away with murder, you undersold yourself and your time, you LET HIM DO IT. i have no pity im sorry. people will get away with what you let them get away with.
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    Default Re: Cheap asshole customer!

    Omg.

    Seriously.

    Did this really happen? Did you really go into the bathroom with him? Did you touch his junk?


    Ewewewewewew!

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