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    Has anyone actually read the amberly book? Is it still relevant today? Thoughts?
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    Quote Originally Posted by LaurenAus View Post
    Has anyone actually read the amberly book? Is it still relevant today? Thoughts?
    It was available on my Kindle Unlimited, so I read some of it, and skimmed through the rest.

    She states that she spends relatively little of her time on actual calls, and the book talks more about producing and selling content than it does phone sex.

    If you are into marketing content, she probably has some good advice to offer on the different clip sites.

    That's not my gig, so I wasn't interested.

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    Fucking 21 clicks today and all these fucking guys are doing is emailing me telling me about what their fetishes are. Just fucking call me! Fucking time-wasters. The emails are all fucking copy and pasted. I'm livid.


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    Quote Originally Posted by LaurenAus View Post
    Has anyone actually read the amberly book? Is it still relevant today? Thoughts?
    I found out about/read it at the end of April and I loved it, I still utilize a lot of her advice today. I haven't used everything she's suggested, but what I have started doing has absolutely improved my hustle and my earnings. Especially when it comes to PTV's, up-selling, and making the most of my profile presentation with advertisements + such.

    But as Staci said, it really didn't focus a ton on actual phone sex. She does have a few good call tips in there that have helped me (almost) eliminate minute men and maintain longer calls though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BadBitch View Post
    Fucking 21 clicks today and all these fucking guys are doing is emailing me telling me about what their fetishes are. Just fucking call me! Fucking time-wasters. The emails are all fucking copy and pasted. I'm livid.
    Have you tried PTV mail. Men will sometimes message first in order to see if you are what they want. When they do that to me, I read the message, process it, and then write my response. I have them pay for it at 4/5 times they pay in my experience. I have had back to back conversations with one man and charged $5 for my responses. He must have liked what he read because he did that about 6 times and finally called. Mainly I charge $1.00 it ends up being a little more profit that the chat volleys. They PTV has a description, which I like to call your "SALES PITCH" and then if they want to keep reading the other half they have to pay first. I hope this helps!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by LaurenAus View Post
    Has anyone actually read the amberly book? Is it still relevant today? Thoughts?
    I downloaded it on KINDLE and I am enjoying it. In my opinion it is a must read for all levels of PSO. It is an easy to read book.

    There is also another book I found:
    "PHONE SEX MANUAL: How To Get Started And Operate A Profitable Home Business. by Dr. Nick Shoveen

    I downloaded this on audible and have it playing while I am in between calls or at the gym. It shows you how to build your own business from home, it goes into legalities and how to protect your identity. There are more books on AUDIBLE that I will be reading soon from people who show you 'phone scripts'


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    Quote Originally Posted by LaurenAus View Post
    Has anyone actually read the amberly book? Is it still relevant today? Thoughts?
    I downloaded it last night and started reading it. Seems worth it so far and didn't cost much.

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    What is the Amberely book ?
    Is anyone else getting delayed payments? Each day it shows as paid out but I haven't received anything since the second.

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    Wrong thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunanegra View Post
    Wrong thread.
    Me? I meant NF payments & they're still not there so I'm messaging support

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    Quote Originally Posted by SuperPookie View Post
    What is the Amberely book ?
    Is anyone else getting delayed payments? Each day it shows as paid out but I haven't received anything since the second.
    The Amberely book is on Kindle about making money as a PSO. And I am sorry that you haven't been paid lately. My most recent direct deposit that I see in my bank account hit yesterday and is from 07/05 NF payout.

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    Quote Originally Posted by addytoi View Post
    And I am sorry that you haven't been paid lately. My most recent direct deposit that I see in my bank account hit yesterday and is from 07/05 NF payout.
    I received deposits yesterday for my 7/5 withdrawals as well.

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    Payments from July 4th haven't appeared yet. I'm sure they will come late tonight or tomorrow.. Although, I've already received July 5th payments

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    Quote Originally Posted by SuperPookie View Post
    What is the Amberely book ?
    Is anyone else getting delayed payments? Each day it shows as paid out but I haven't received anything since the second.
    It's called: How I Made 10000 A Month As a Phone Sex Operator and I thought it's revenue just from calls, tips, texts etc but it also involves serious clips producing.

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    Hellooooo every one! So I've been gone for.... 6-8 years now. Wow. Left the life, but it just keeps sucking me back in! lol. So I've picked up my pro-Domme whip once again and found my Niteflirt login info. Crickets for the first couple of days until my new/updated listings were up and running. Then I bid to rank and WOW! Spent $2 on bidding and I've made $350 so far this morning just in CHAT. Haven't taken a single call. Though $210 of it was in tributes a sub gave while we were chatting but STILL. (Also I'm trying really hard to not think of the $90 I lost to NF's cut, arrrg!).

    Why did I ever leave?? So happy to be back. God I missed SW.

    This thread has been invaluable for helping me figure out how to do NF this time around. (I ballsed it up last time and just didn't really work it). So thank you! I'm still super new to PSO work but I think I'm figuring it out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by minniesoporno View Post
    I am not interested in opening an account in the US when I can use the ACH Virtual account provided by Paxum.
    Sorry that I'm asking this a good four months later, but how did the ACH via Paxum work out for you? I'm a non-US, non-UK, non-Euro girl and it seems like this might be my last hope...

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    Quote Originally Posted by pinkpetal View Post
    Have you tried PTV mail. Men will sometimes message first in order to see if you are what they want. When they do that to me, I read the message, process it, and then write my response. I have them pay for it at 4/5 times they pay in my experience. I have had back to back conversations with one man and charged $5 for my responses. He must have liked what he read because he did that about 6 times and finally called. Mainly I charge $1.00 it ends up being a little more profit that the chat volleys. They PTV has a description, which I like to call your "SALES PITCH" and then if they want to keep reading the other half they have to pay first. I hope this helps!!!!
    Yes. Thank you. They don't open my response when I make it PVT


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    This is a really great idea. I'm about to do a PVT response to someone that sent me a long ass email that feels like they're getting off just by describing their fantasy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    This is a really great idea. I'm about to do a PVT response to someone that sent me a long ass email that feels like they're getting off just by describing their fantasy.
    I do it, but they wind up not reading it. Fucking time-wasters.


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    I'm having a lot of dropped calls today - as in, my phone rings and I answer it and the call drops instantly. Some days I'll have one or two but it's almost every one today. My calls haven't been as frequent because summer sucks and I need every call I can get and I've lost out on several customers! Luckily a couple called back because they're regulars but 3 did not. I'm pretty sure it's not my phone or my service because I've had friends & family call me and none of their calls dropped. So frustrating.

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    So, very, very new to niteflirt. I have a question, if you guys don't mind answering. Can we not bid for placement for texting?

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    Hey sarahlove did you get my pm? Pmed you for sites to buy content
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    The fantasy sold to women through out history that a man will come along & rescue us is a lie.

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    Hey sarahlove did you get my pm? Pmed you for sites to buy content
    I just sent you a pm with some as well. Hope it helps.
    Follow me!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Lunanegra View Post
    So, very, very new to niteflirt. I have a question, if you guys don't mind answering. Can we not bid for placement for texting?
    Currently there is no bidding for texting. Your placement is random.

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    Hello All,

    I haven't been here because in January 2017 after three years of adult work, I decided to take a mental health break from everything.

    Camming became an issue in 2015 when I moved across the hallway from a sadistic gay couple who made it their lifes work to troll me and shame me for my adult work. They'd listen in through the walls and door, and out of privacy and sheer horror I stopped.

    I then discovered Niteflirt and had a very good year on that. However, those who have done phone work full time probably understand something I didn't. Being on the same phone call 3-6 hours reciting the same words, talking about topics that you aren't into, maybe even repulsed by, becomes emotionally physically and spiritually taxing. I wish I could lie and say "I only take calls I like" but that's not true. If I waited for those calls, I'd probably be homeless somewhere. I developed a lot of mental issues like always feeling like a prisoner to the phone. I always had customers 24/7 telling me to "get back on" and it was hard to say no. I began working 6-7 days a week. And, I in one sense felt empowered by the $$$, but also extremely depressed and suicidal as my customers were also very depressed, suicidal, and often strung out on drugs and alcohol. I took my last call in mid January and haven't been back since. I haven't missed the work and missed the money.

    I used my savings to enjoy life and for the first time, not struggle. I've seen the sunset, the sunrise, and eaten three meals without checking my phone for the past six months for the first time. However, I need to get back into work. And, I'm at this crossroad of deciding if it's anything adult work oriented.

    So, my question to the girls doing NiteFlirt. How are you doing with *just* the chat function? I ask because, I'm considering not taking phone calls at all right now. Since NF rolled out chat, I noticed a chance in business anyways. I'm sure the long callers are still there, but can I make at least $200 a day doing chat and PTV?

    Biggest Question is...

    Any recommendations on sexting services???

    At this point my mental health can probably only do content and sexting. Being on long calls talking about cum swapping for 4-6 hours is extremely lucrative but unfortunately I feel like dying afterwards.

    Hope everyones been having a very good year so far...
    Just wanted to add that this just happened to me this year. I was on from sun up and to sun down doing calls that weren’t in my comfort zone just because of the money. I made SO MUCH but I fell into a deep depression and for months didn’t leave my house, didn’t eat, I just laid in bed. This work takes a lot out of you especially when your not working within your comfort zone. I had a guy call me everyday and keep me on the line for hours just to get drunk and yell at me, the call always ended with him slurring his words and passing out on the phone. I thought it was fine because I have a thick skin but realized quickly that didn’t matter. A person can only take so much verbal abuse. (Bc that’s what it is. They pay you to be abusive)
    “Get back on”
    “I know you need this money”
    “Who said you could log off whore?”
    That shit gets to you.and since I was playing a “submissive” I would obey. It got so bad I started going off on my customers that didn’t demean me or say anything harmful. That’s when I decided to focus on goody bags, fetish clips, and only get on calls to advertise my goodies bc I just...can’t. And I applaud flirts on there that work full time! I often wonder how the hell they do it, these customers were literally draining me of my life force.

    Just wanted to say for any flirts going through this, it’s totally okay to stop and take a break. No money is worth your sanity. Also, it’s maybe okay in the beginning to take any call to find your boundaries but once you do STICK TO THEM. Don’t let these mofos bully you into doing anything bc they will. They get off on knowing you don’t want too, they’re sick fucks. And you know what’s funny? I’m actually getting more business from my quality customers ever since I’ve told my boundaries. One guy said that he respects that I tell them bc many don’t and just hang up and block. There’s been men who try to bring up my boundaries but once I put my foot down they just talk about something else. So please don’t think you won’t make any money with boundaries. If anything it weeds out the mofos you don’t want to talk too. And that’s a blessing.

    And I want to also recommend Amberly’s book as well, it’s a godsend for someone wanting to make passive income vs. being on calls for the bulk of their money. And her Taxes chapter is bomb.

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