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    Oh. My. Goodness. I literally give you all kudos who can do this.. because I just had my first call and it was God awful, like I went completely brain dead. I had NO idea what to say and it didn't help that he sounded like he was doing a Batman impression and I was trying so hard not to laugh. I thought NF would be a good supplement for when I can't get on cam but I am literally the WORST phone sex person ever. I don't know whether to laugh or cry about it, so I will settle for feeling really stupid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lexxirain View Post
    Oh. My. Goodness. I literally give you all kudos who can do this.. because I just had my first call and it was God awful, like I went completely brain dead. I had NO idea what to say and it didn't help that he sounded like he was doing a Batman impression and I was trying so hard not to laugh. I thought NF would be a good supplement for when I can't get on cam but I am literally the WORST phone sex person ever. I don't know whether to laugh or cry about it, so I will settle for feeling really stupid.
    Aww, it just takes time and practice, like anything else! I felt really awkward at first, and I still feel like I've run out of material if they keep me talking for too long. I think the key is asking them questions, and making sure you know exactly what turns them on/why they called you in the first place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by seashell View Post
    Aww, it just takes time and practice, like anything else! I felt really awkward at first, and I still feel like I've run out of material if they keep me talking for too long. I think the key is asking them questions, and making sure you know exactly what turns them on/why they called you in the first place.

    Maybe I'll try again... I immediately took my avail off after wards lol . I wouldn't hate to get a bunch of bad ratings though while I al learning. I would love to make this work but the being put on the spot was awful! And I know in retrospect I should have asked questions ... I didn't even know his name. He was like "hey baby you have a sexy voice grab my cock" omg lol

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    I have post its on the side of my laptop with words I dont always use so I remember to drop them in now and again - just so it sounds a bit different

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    Quote Originally Posted by lexxirain View Post
    Maybe I'll try again... I immediately took my avail off after wards lol . I wouldn't hate to get a bunch of bad ratings though while I al learning. I would love to make this work but the being put on the spot was awful! And I know in retrospect I should have asked questions ... I didn't even know his name. He was like "hey baby you have a sexy voice grab my cock" omg lol
    The good thing is, you can always take down a listing if it receives a bad rating, and create a new one in its place. It sucks to start from scratch, but it’s better than sites with camscores and rating systems that you can never change.

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    How soon after a call starts can they leave feedback or a rating?

    On Adultwork, they used to be able to do it straight away and it really put me off phone chat. Some guys would use that to target a girl with repeated negative feedback, since you wouldn't know who was calling. That's been extended to 4 minutes now, thankfully.

    I had a guy asking for a massage once...I went totally brain dead, all I could think was that was impossible to do down the phone!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Classy_Katy View Post
    How soon after a call starts can they leave feedback or a rating?

    On Adultwork, they used to be able to do it straight away and it really put me off phone chat. Some guys would use that to target a girl with repeated negative feedback, since you wouldn't know who was calling. That's been extended to 4 minutes now, thankfully.

    I had a guy asking for a massage once...I went totally brain dead, all I could think was that was impossible to do down the phone!
    I heard it was 30 seconds into a phone call. Can't verify that though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Classy_Katy View Post
    How soon after a call starts can they leave feedback or a rating?

    On Adultwork, they used to be able to do it straight away and it really put me off phone chat. Some guys would use that to target a girl with repeated negative feedback, since you wouldn't know who was calling. That's been extended to 4 minutes now, thankfully.

    I had a guy asking for a massage once...I went totally brain dead, all I could think was that was impossible to do down the phone!
    On Niteflirt if a caller leaves several negative feedbacks, it's considered harassment. You can contact support and they'll remove all but the first one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lexxirain View Post
    Maybe I'll try again... I immediately took my avail off after wards lol . I wouldn't hate to get a bunch of bad ratings though while I al learning. I would love to make this work but the being put on the spot was awful! And I know in retrospect I should have asked questions ... I didn't even know his name. He was like "hey baby you have a sexy voice grab my cock" omg lol
    Don't feel bad. There's a learning curve for everyone. No matter how long you do it, you'll always get some calls that don't go well. Asking questions is good especially if you can match the questions to his mood. If his voice sounds like he's ready to blow any minute, it's best to keep the questions sexy and provocative. Some guys who call and start right away with "grab my cock" talk are only intending to do a short call and will hang up if you start asking things like where they live.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LolaLu View Post
    I have post its on the side of my laptop with words I dont always use so I remember to drop them in now and again - just so it sounds a bit different
    When I first started, I made 'call help' notes for different categories with words and phrases that I kept on my desktop that I could glance at during calls so that I wasn't constantly repeating myself. These weren't "scripts", but rather descriptive words/phrases. I found it to be extremely helpful to me.

    For instance, I would make one for small penis humiliation, and on it I would list a lot of different descriptive phrases to refer to his small penis (ie: vienna sausage dick, tater tots balls, little nubby, clitty cock, little squirter, teeny weenie) that I could throw in during a call to avoid constantly referring to it as a "small penis".

    I did the same for other niches as well (shemale, cuckold, humiliation, etc).

    Over time, I was able to use them without referring to a list - but it did assist me in the beginning until I had expanded my working vocabulary and it became second nature.

    PSO newbies might want to consider doing this if they are finding it hard to come up with new things to say, or new ways to say the same old thing! LOL


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    Quote Originally Posted by magicgembliss View Post
    I heard it was 30 seconds into a phone call. Can't verify that though.
    Thats correct.

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    Any advice on dealing with customers that try to be cheap and slick? I've got one guy that will spend bare minimum in chat with me, then he starts messaging me through my inbox instead. This is the second customer that has done this and the third time this particular customer has done this. It legit pisses me off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ravenskyy View Post
    Any advice on dealing with customers that try to be cheap and slick? I've got one guy that will spend bare minimum in chat with me, then he starts messaging me through my inbox instead. This is the second customer that has done this and the third time this particular customer has done this. It legit pisses me off.
    You can respond with a ptv if they leave chat and use email instead. I only use chat on one account and its working out pretty well. I only log into that account two days a week so when I do make myself available it stays busy. The ones who want to spend will pay for the PTV. The cheapos will go away once they realize you don't give away free attention. Each interaction on the site has the potential to make money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    You can respond with a ptv if they leave chat and use email instead. I only use chat on one account and its working out pretty well. I only log into that account two days a week so when I do make myself available it stays busy. The ones who want to spend will pay for the PTV. The cheapos will go away once they realize you don't give away free attention. Each interaction on the site has the potential to make money.
    Right after I posted this question I sent him a PTV lol it's just so blatantly disrespectful. Idk why men still surprise me with their rudeness. I have 2 characters on NF right now and I barely get chat messages. On one account, I haven't had chat customers since October. I'm having a tough time drawing in new customers. The only money I've been able to make on there has been through a few past customers. I've been adding lots of goodies, and had my first one sell yesterday, but still no new calls. I'd like to do chat more but I'm not sure how to advertise that.

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    Honestly I dont care too much for the chat feature on NF. Im on the market for a standalone service with a texting module that I can add to websites. Something I can customize myself in regards to pricing etc. Like the verifiedcall module but for texting. Until then I will not advertise texting on any platform. I use the chat feature to get them to spend money on other stuff.

    I try not to let them get to me or view their actions as being disrespectful. I just mirror their actions by hitting them up for money. I dont even respond to all of my chat responses. After two or so (depending on my mood) I send them a ptv with my response to the last chat. And then I ignore the rest. Some will pay. Some will make a phone call. Some will disappear.

    Once they hit your mailing list you can market to them however you like. I dont really follow a formula for that to be honest. I just prefer to not spend too much time on building up chat volleys. This is also why I make more money due to customer retention vs. new customers. I like new customers and most platforms want us to like new customers as well, but they arent my bread and butter.

    Again I only have the chat option on one account and I think it was just pure luck that its become popular among chat guys? It could be the way I treat them? Maybe the tagline? I really don't know. Its possible that if I added it on a second account (which I wont) I could get crickets.

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    So I'm very new to the whole NF idea, but I'm definitely intrigued. I'm sure this question has been answered somewhere, but with 139 pages of posts in this thread, I'm going to go ahead and re-ask it...

    I love the idea of texting/sexting, whatever you want to call it, but am not so big on talking on the phone, and definitely don't want to do video. Can I still sign up with NF, or is it mandatory to talk on the phone?

    There's an insane amount of information here, I'm uber glad I found this thread!

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    No, you don't have to take phone calls on Niteflirt. I have an account where I just sell content and recorded listings only.

    Quote Originally Posted by AmiAndrews View Post
    So I'm very new to the whole NF idea, but I'm definitely intrigued. I'm sure this question has been answered somewhere, but with 139 pages of posts in this thread, I'm going to go ahead and re-ask it...

    I love the idea of texting/sexting, whatever you want to call it, but am not so big on talking on the phone, and definitely don't want to do video. Can I still sign up with NF, or is it mandatory to talk on the phone?

    There's an insane amount of information here, I'm uber glad I found this thread!
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    Hey, PTV brigade, what's your view on sending out a new PTV as soon as you make it, vs waiting until the end of the week and sending a link to it in a cute newsletter type thing?


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    This is the worst question ever. It ... what is PTV????

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    Quote Originally Posted by lexxirain View Post
    This is the worst question ever. It ... what is PTV????
    "Pay-to-view", which is another name for a payment mail button, ie an email they have to pay to open.


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    Has it been slow for anyone else for the last 3 days? All three of my profiles have just been dead. I only made about $48 in 3 days from a few phone calls. It was like this for me in the first week of December as well. Sigh.
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    Sorry for the multiple posts but do anyone have any advice on this situation. So as i explained earlier for all three of my niteflirt profiles its been dead but im also getting clicked to death on all of my profiles. So i know customers are seeing my profiles but they just clicking and moving on. Some of them add me to their favorites but yeah clicked to death with only a few to no calls for DAYS. Any advice?
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    Quote Originally Posted by queenelayliah View Post
    Has it been slow for anyone else for the last 3 days? All three of my profiles have just been dead. I only made about $48 in 3 days from a few phone calls. It was like this for me in the first week of December as well. Sigh.
    I’ve been doing pretty well the past few days, and I’m a newbie with few reviews, so it seems like the traffic is there. Maybe bid a little higher, or offer some specials? I know it can be frustrating to have slow days.

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    I know this is a long thread but it really is beneficial if you take the time to read it through. So many helpful and generous post provided on how to use the site on how to: create ptv's, working your customer list, bidding, multiple accounts, price points and more. You just have to dig in and read. Even if you start midway you'll begin to notice that many of the same questions have been asked and answered every ten pages or so.

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    Do you ladies only post fresh mp3's for sale? I plan on recording mp3's but I was also thinking of converting all of my clips into mp3 so that I'd have more content available. I figured by having both files of the same content availble guys would have more options and that would also give the possibilty to make more money.

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