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    Quote Originally Posted by queenelayliah View Post
    Holy shit! Wooow. If you dont mind me asking do you drive your own traffic to niteflirt?
    I do use my Twitter shoutouts and keep them toggled on for the most part, but I bid A LOT when I'm available overnight and that gets me most of my traffic IMO.
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    I have a bunch of listings for niche fetishes - say feet, or lingerie, or whatever - and they don't get many calls. Most of the people who want to talk about that particular fetish just call through my main femdom line.

    My question is, should I keep those lines open for the odd call, or is it better to only have listings that are popular for the algos?

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    I have the SAME question, I basically only get called on two lines. ^

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    Quote Originally Posted by Victoria_Gray View Post
    I have a bunch of listings for niche fetishes - say feet, or lingerie, or whatever - and they don't get many calls. Most of the people who want to talk about that particular fetish just call through my main femdom line.

    My question is, should I keep those lines open for the odd call, or is it better to only have listings that are popular for the algos?
    I would keep them open, thats how they found you. If i need more feedback and stars on my main Listing, i lower the main listing price for pence and keep the odd listings higher. Thats when they call your main listing for the fetish they want.
    Except you have a fetish listing that requires a way higher price. Just have a look at other flirt profiles, the most feedback is always on the main Listing, even when they had all the listing done at the same time.

    Thats my opinion.

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    They tend to call whichever listing is the least expensive. That's something I keep in mind when I choose price points. If I want to go the inexpensive route I then keep that lower price range in the same account. All under $1.99 a min. With one listing set at $5.99 a minute. That higher rate will get a few calls a month and it's worth it to have. I set my more expensive rates all on a different account and keep the prices about the same. And I also have one listing priced much higher than the others.

    I use to max out the number of listings for each account but too many of them sat without calls. NF has once said that the most successful accounts don't have that many listings. For me I've found that to be true and started to strategize more based on that. I begin creating unique listings that told a story. I try to avoid the copy paste routine. This way I get more sales on multiple listings.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post

    I use to max out the number of listings for each account but too many of them sat without calls. NF has once said that the most successful accounts don't have that many listings. For me I've found that to be true and started to strategize more based on that. I begin creating unique listings that told a story. I try to avoid the copy paste routine. This way I get more sales on multiple listings.
    I have had guys who call more expensive listings because they want to prove their loyalty, but, this isn't that common.

    Where do we go to get data directly from niteflirt like that the most successful flirts have the least listings? I am so out of the loop over here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Victoria_Gray View Post
    I have had guys who call more expensive listings because they want to prove their loyalty, but, this isn't that common.

    Where do we go to get data directly from niteflirt like that the most successful flirts have the least listings? I am so out of the loop over here.
    Very occasionally they will post a comment or thread it on the NF message boards. It was more common years ago, but they will still occasionally chime in with a couple of sentences here and there.

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    Hi lovely ladies! This is my first post on this amazing site, after some months of lurking. This forum is a goldmine, I love how you all help each other to take that money out off of men's pockets^^ and I'm so grateful I found it!!


    So, I'm kind of new to the sex work industry, and I plan to create a niteflirt account, I read this entire thread and I'm in the process of reading it a second time. I have some questions and hope not to be redundant.


    Some of my questions are mostly for foreign/non-english native niteflirt pso, as I am myself a West Euro (non-uk) girl:


    I would like to know how do you take calls, if it is on a landline, a mobile phone, and/or via wifi with an app (as I understood Textnow is available in Europe? Not sure if it is possible to get a US number with it though?). And what are your experiences with these devices, is the sound fine, do you prefer/dislike any, do you use some speakers/micro?


    As for having multiple characters, I'd like to know how do you manage to not be recognized, especially if you have a specific foreign accent and there is no/very few other girls from your country? Do you keep them in strictly separate categories (and how specific? Like fendom/submissive/GFE and/or by features (race/BBW/tight,etc)?Or is it really an issue?


    One of my greatest fear is not to be able to understand people, there are certain accents, like British ones (for what I know so far), that I struggle to understand, I guess for a domme character it is less of a problem and it can be part of the domination fantasy to tell guys to talk slower and articulate more lol. I fear to not be understandable myself as well. Did some of you have this kind of issues? How has it gone?
    On the other hand I know my accent can sound sexy and I could market it (maybe just for one character though?), but I also understood that guys like to know that you live nearby them.. I've read one of you market her British accent, I don't recall her name though, but if you read me, would you like to tell me how do you think this particularity is beneficial to your business? And I also would like to hear the experiences of the other foreign ladies as well. Do some of you tell that you live in the US as an expat and broad a whole story around that?


    I have some more general questions too:


    It's been some weeks now since I've researched about all this and oddly I became more clueless of how is a vanilla call run! I guess of course it's different every time, but maybe is there one or more general pattern? Do you fake blowjob and fuck sounds? If so, would you mind sharing how?

    I plan my main character, with my real photos, to be a domme but that's not my personnality and I really struggle figuring out which type would suit me the best (bratty princess or sensual domme). Can some of you share their experiences about this? Maybe some of you mix the two types in one persona?

    And finally I would be grateful if one of you would send me some links of where to buy some license free photo sets

    I hope my questions don't bother you/ are not too intrusive, this is not my intention, and I look forward to hear from you ladies!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aina View Post
    I would like to know how do you take calls, if it is on a landline, a mobile phone, and/or via wifi with an app (as I understood Textnow is available in Europe? Not sure if it is possible to get a US number with it though?). And what are your experiences with these devices, is the sound fine, do you prefer/dislike any, do you use some speakers/micro?
    I'm in Canada and take my calls on a cell phone. When I needed an additional phone number, I got a Skype number and selected a US number. That worked fairly well.

    As for having multiple characters, I'd like to know how do you manage to not be recognized, especially if you have a specific foreign accent and there is no/very few other girls from your country? Do you keep them in strictly separate categories (and how specific? Like fendom/submissive/GFE and/or by features (race/BBW/tight,etc)?Or is it really an issue?
    If you choose photos that look quite different and project a different type of personality, you won't get a ton of overlapping callers. Sometimes, if I have a very loyal regular who calls one of my more expensive accounts, I'll block him on the cheaper ones. Only a super regular guy would recognize my voice and I don't want him to realize he can be calling me for cheaper somewhere else.

    Other guys, I don't bother to block. I have had many guys call more than one of my accounts. Sometimes they'll call me repeatedly for a few months on one account and then a year later do the same thing on a second account. They never seem to notice.

    One of my greatest fear is not to be able to understand people, there are certain accents, like British ones (for what I know so far), that I struggle to understand, I guess for a domme character it is less of a problem and it can be part of the domination fantasy to tell guys to talk slower and articulate more lol. I fear to not be understandable myself as well. Did some of you have this kind of issues? How has it gone?
    The vast majority of guys on NiteFlirt are American, so you won't have to deal with British accents very often. You do get a variety of American accents, though, including Southern ones. I don't have problems with accents, but I still get guys I can't understand all the time. It's usually because of noise on the line, low volume or their insistence on whispering or talking in a breathy "sissy" voice. You do your best to figure out what they said, you ask them to repeat themselves. Sometimes, asking them repeatedly will make them hang up, but there's not too much you can do about it besides try your best. Have a good headset, be in a quiet environment and use your brain to try to fill in the blanks when you miss some words.

    On the other hand I know my accent can sound sexy and I could market it (maybe just for one character though?), but I also understood that guys like to know that you live nearby them.. I've read one of you market her British accent, I don't recall her name though, but if you read me, would you like to tell me how do you think this particularity is beneficial to your business? And I also would like to hear the experiences of the other foreign ladies as well. Do some of you tell that you live in the US as an expat and broad a whole story around that?
    Guys who are obsessed with finding flirts who live nearby them are not good customers, so don't worry about that. Some guys will not want someone with a "foreign" accent and might hang up on you anyway. We all experience that. They make a call, your voice or your accent isn't what they want and they hang up quickly. Just something you need to accept. You can try marketing your accent or not and then see which seems to work better for you.

    The US and Canada are both full of people from all over the world, so you can certainly say that you live in North America even if you don't. However, keep in mind that it's easy to be caught in that lie and that might make some guys feel tricked. It's probably not worth it as I don't think most guys really care where you live. It's more about what you sound like and what you can deliver on a call.


    It's been some weeks now since I've researched about all this and oddly I became more clueless of how is a vanilla call run! I guess of course it's different every time, but maybe is there one or more general pattern? Do you fake blowjob and fuck sounds? If so, would you mind sharing how?
    Every call is different. Every guy wants something different. A big part of being good at his job is learning how to figure out what a guy wants. A "vanilla" call is just like any other call. The guy doesn't just say "I would like a vanilla call" and then sits back while you do all the talking. You ask questions, you flirt, you make suggestions and you see where the call goes. Some guys want to describe doing things to you, some guys want you to describe doing things to them. Some want to roleplay having sex together in the moment, some guys want to talk about sexy things while engaging in mutual masturbation.

    Guys who want to hear sounds will usually say something to make it clear. I keep a small dildo on hand for making blowjob sounds. For slapping sounds I usually clap my hands or slap my thigh. I always have a glass of water for gulping or wet sounds. When I used to do a lot of submissive calls, I had various implements on hand to make sounds. These days, though, if I can't make a matching sound, I just tell them I've upgraded to a headset with active noise cancellation and explain that maybe that's why they can't hear my vibrator or my wet pussy or whatever.

    I plan my main character, with my real photos, to be a domme but that's not my personnality and I really struggle figuring out which type would suit me the best (bratty princess or sensual domme). Can some of you share their experiences about this? Maybe some of you mix the two types in one persona?
    Any type of character is possible, but I'd suggest not making your main character be something that isn't at all like you and that you don't know much about. A lot of callers want to feel like you are authentically into what you are offering and really understand the fetish. Specialize in something you really understand.

    And finally I would be grateful if one of you would send me some links of where to buy some license free photo sets
    These places come and go quickly. The two sites I used in the past are both gone. Try searching for adult content providers on both Google and Bing.

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    Thank you Spemily, it helps me a lot! I really have to remember not taking things personally, of course I can't please to everybody, and to not overthink things, just follow the vibe and be flirty. Actually I think I'm gonna note that on a paper and paste it at the wall lol.

    And yes I might not be as good as I want as a domme. I think I just will try out different types of characters before deciding which one will be my main.

    Great tips about the headset with noise cancellation, thanks!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paradoxx View Post
    I do use my Twitter shoutouts and keep them toggled on for the most part, but I bid A LOT when I'm available overnight and that gets me most of my traffic IMO.

    Thanks for responding. I was really hoping you blogged for i could get some pointers lol. Sadly i don't do social media for my characters.
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    Very occasionally they will post a comment or thread it on the NF message boards. It was more common years ago, but they will still occasionally chime in with a couple of sentences here and there.
    Ooh, good to know.

    I have been getting the emails from their message boards for ages and hardly ever open them. Yesterday I had a good read though and was like, 'this is a good spot, what have you been doing Victoria!?'

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    Hey I know I'm filing late but I'm filing taxes in Canada and I can't find any info (in this thread, on niteflirt, online in general) about how to file properly from here. Honestly I'm fatally chaotic with papers and I can't remember whether or not I received any kind of tax related document from nf a few months ago. Like, is there something I should be searching my apartment for? The only info I found was for Americans. I'm sorry for being a mess, thanks in advance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yesmisslibby View Post
    Hey I know I'm filing late but I'm filing taxes in Canada and I can't find any info (in this thread, on niteflirt, online in general) about how to file properly from here. Honestly I'm fatally chaotic with papers and I can't remember whether or not I received any kind of tax related document from nf a few months ago. Like, is there something I should be searching my apartment for? The only info I found was for Americans. I'm sorry for being a mess, thanks in advance.
    NF is an American company and does not send tax documents to anyone but American flirts, so you won't have received anything from them.

    You'll be filing in Canada as self-employed. If you're using software like TurboTax, it will walk you through filing as self-employed. You'll need to know exactly how much money NF sent you over 2019, you'll need to convert it into Canadian dollars.

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    Any Niteflirt chicks know if guys can see attachments on PTV mail before they pay? Or do they just see that an attachment is available if they pay? I’m setting up a game but it’s saying to attach the media to the message that gets sent out.

    I’m so confused.
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    Any Niteflirt chicks know if guys can see attachments on PTV mail before they pay? Or do they just see that an attachment is available if they pay? I’m setting up a game but it’s saying to attach the media to the message that gets sent out.

    I’m so confused.
    PTV stands for Pay To View, meaning they have to pay in order to view the body of the message and any attachments. If you want them to be able to see the attachment before paying, use a Payment Request.

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    PTV stands for Pay To View, meaning they have to pay in order to view the body of the message and any attachments. If you want them to be able to see the attachment before paying, use a Payment Request.
    Thank you for your response. I was trying to use the Payment Request form my bad. So I attach the media and guys will only see the description and price when clicking the button on my profile, is that correct? Then they can choose to pay and begin the game.
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    Thank you for your response. I was trying to use the Payment Request form my bad. So I attach the media and guys will only see the description and price when clicking the button on my profile, is that correct? Then they can choose to pay and begin the game.
    That's right. Only the subject line, the price and the description will be visible to the customer before he pays. Anything you put in the body of the email and any attachments will only be visible after he pays.

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    Can I change my name on Niteflirt or do I have to open a new account? If not, can I delete the current account and use the same credit card for the new account?

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    Can I change my name on Niteflirt or do I have to open a new account? If not, can I delete the current account and use the same credit card for the new account?
    Yes, you can change your name.

    You can have up to three accounts that use the same phone number, but that includes deleted or closed accounts as well, so never close an account. Just change the name and start over.

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    Yes, you can change your name.

    You can have up to three accounts that use the same phone number, but that includes deleted or closed accounts as well, so never close an account. Just change the name and start over.
    Thanks for the info. I sent a message to support. I couldn't find how to change the name so I assume they have to do it.

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    Thanks for the info. I sent a message to support. I couldn't find how to change the name so I assume they have to do it.
    No, you can do it yourself.

    On your account page, click on Edit Account Info (it's near the top, next to where it says "Welcome back username!") then enter your password when prompted. The top field on the page is Member Name. Simply change it there and then click Save at the bottom.

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    Feels good to block people on NF when they just have no common sense. Asking me if I'm available on Skype (I dont know what does it say on NF?) and then the whole well I cant find you, send me a link. I'm not sending you a link. You can find me under your history/account when you log in. I'm also signed on and on page one of NF cams... so I mean.... I'm not going to do the foot work for you for free.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spemily View Post
    No, you can do it yourself.

    On your account page, click on Edit Account Info (it's near the top, next to where it says "Welcome back username!") then enter your password when prompted. The top field on the page is Member Name. Simply change it there and then click Save at the bottom.

    Thank you! I never noticed that, I thought I had looked everywhere!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spemily View Post
    No, you can do it yourself.

    On your account page, click on Edit Account Info (it's near the top, next to where it says "Welcome back username!") then enter your password when prompted. The top field on the page is Member Name. Simply change it there and then click Save at the bottom.
    I feel so stupid now. I actually have so many accounts on there and never in the world it has cross my mind to just CHANGE my name on it. I know from other sites that it is not possible and thought that might be for all of them. You honestly had to see my face when I was reading your comment .... immediately tried it and screamed a very loud FFS!

    Thank you thank you thank you

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