Rant ahead....since a lot of people here IMO are non as judgmental in a lot of other places I was hoping ya'll would offer me an honest opinion?
I've been having a lot of problems with my boyfriends' kids and dealt with a lot, but recently felt I've reached a breaking point. Often times when he had them (every other week) he'd start ignoring me and blowing me off. He wouldn't text me, he wouldn't call me or spend time with me. I let a lot go but one day I needed a ride home from the hospital and he wouldn't take my phone calls even though I sent him texts stating it was important. I ended up sitting there for two hours waiting for a ride because he wouldn't take away 10 mins to answer my phone call.
We recently found out I am pregnant, but have decided to terminate it for personal reasons. The day we made an appointment to do so I was struggling a lot. I hurt physically, I'm sick all the time, and emotionally drained. I asked him just for that day to spend the day with me and he wouldn't because he didn't want to tell his kids they couldn't go swimming and hear them complain about coming to my house. He even yelled at me in the parking lot of a fast good place for asking him to come over. I'm sorry, but my kids have had to give up swimming over me being too sick to go, and we made this together, and he could have taken them swimming any other day of the week. Was I really asking too much?
I hope ya'll don't mind me asking here...I have pretty much no family and my friends are biased. I feel totally lost on this...



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Take care of yourself now, mentally & physically ok?



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