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    Sad Camgirl wondering about strip club experiences.

    Not sure if this is appropriate here, I'm happy to delete if it's not!

    I'm a camgirl who loves going to strip clubs. I love watching sexy ladies work their magic and I love getting inspired by you awesome ladies and your amazing hustles! That said, I generally go to strip clubs with my husband, and for some reason it seems like the girls working at these places get super creeped out by us. My husband has said that when he used to go to clubs when he was single, he'd get tons of attention regardless of how much he was tipping. These days money isn't so tight for us so we are pretty generous tippers.

    Here's the problem: We almost completely get ignored. My husband ends up feeling put out—he feels like it's kind of wasted money. (To be clear, he's not looking for attention, but he would like me to get some.) Seems like the drunk frat boys who are practically falling asleep or puking in their laps get wayyyy more attention than we ever do. The best we've gotten in recent history is girls saying "thank you" while walking by after the set is over.

    Do you think these ladies think we're trying to get them to come home with us? (We're not!)

    It's making going to clubs not very fun, and I don't want to stop going! I need inspiration, dammit!

    For the record, I live in the city with ******. (I'm sure you ladies know where I'm talking about. ******, ammirite?)

    Thank you for any insights!
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    Default Re: Camgirl wondering about strip club experiences.

    Many women who go to strip clubs don't know how to behave, so many dancers, after encountering one or two such women, just don't bother approaching any others. Additionally, it sounds like you're going to the club when it's fairly busy. Couples don't often spend a lot of money, so with many other prospects to approach, most dancers would rather go for the solo customer or group that they can likely hustle more money out of.

    My recommendation is that you go on a quieter shift and/or tip the girls on stage that interest you, explicitly asking her to come over after her set because you'd like some dances, or ask a waitress to send a dancer to your table.

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    Default Re: Camgirl wondering about strip club experiences.

    Well IMHO, Strippers generally have bad experiences with female customers. Female Customers in my experience can be rude, territorial with their spouse, make it harder to hustle, dramatic, over critical towards the girls, cock blockers and just plain unpleasant to be around, therefore most strippers avoid them like the bomb mine . Don't take it personally, these kind of customers ruin it for good girls like you, me and every other good female custies out there.

    Try approaching them instead, they will be more than happy to entertain you; especially when they see you are nice.
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    Default Re: Camgirl wondering about strip club experiences.

    i will never approach a couple for dances ( although i will give the girl all the attention if they go onstage and actually tip), because most of the girls i see have been dragged in by their boyfriends and either look uncomfortable or vey miserable and worried about their man straying. you are going to have to flat out ask them to come over and tip well!! strippers are very leery of couples and female customers

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    Default Re: Camgirl wondering about strip club experiences.

    I have the same experience if our ATF isn't working. That being said, I would only go to female customers I knew. I went to give a guy in a group of about 8 people a dollar dance once. One of the girls got up, gave me the evil eye and stormed off. When I asked what her problem was, another girl said I was dancing on her BF. THAT is why we don't go up to groups with women. I would go to a couple if they came to my stage together to tip or would come over and ask me to their table. I remember my couples and would go up to them the next time they came in.

    Tip with a $5 instead of a $1. Or have a waitress get their favorite girl friendly dancer. If you keep having a bad time, switch clubs. While we don't mind a couple giving affectionate pecks ITC, it seems territorial if you're constantly sucking face. (Yes, I've seen that too.) Also, tip well. I hated it when a couple wanted me to come over to just sit and then get no money.

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    Default Re: Camgirl wondering about strip club experiences.

    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    i strippers are very leery of couples and female customers
    Yep! We definitely need encouragement to approach couples/groups with female(s)


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    Default Re: Camgirl wondering about strip club experiences.

    Like others said, tip extra well at the stage and ask the dancer to come over after her set. A lot of uncool female customers have ruined it for the good ones though. Once a couple tipped me well for stage, asked me to come over, wasted a bunch of my time before asking me to join them in bed. They were good looking and all but I passed.

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    Default Re: Camgirl wondering about strip club experiences.

    A few more things to note: We tip well, we're both clearly delighted to be there, and other ladies are getting attention. :-/ my husband by himself gets great attention and I by myself get good attention. We aren't necking while we're there at all. It is puzzling.

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    Default Re: Camgirl wondering about strip club experiences.

    I don't often approach couples anymore because they either ask me to to go home with them after informing me of their sexual proclivities, act like they're budget shopping and debate whether they can afford a lap dance with me ("we have bills this week!" then why are you in a club?!), or are looking for way more contact than I am willing to offer. For example, I watched one couple get dances last week, and the woman was sucking on the dancer's nipples and burying her face in her ass and vagina. The husband later asked me to dance for them, and I refused based on what I had seen.

    If you're not having any luck at all, I think you should either tell a girl who is on stage that you would like a dance/some dances from her (not a general "would you come see me after you're off rotation") and tip with a $5, or tell a waitress you are not getting any offers and ask her to bring you a dancer--and don't be shy about telling her what kind of girl you want or the fact that you only want dances.

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    Default Re: Camgirl wondering about strip club experiences.

    Quote Originally Posted by LittleLolaRose View Post
    We aren't necking while we're there at all.
    I apologize if I sounded like I was accusing you of doing this. I have seen this happen and then they would ask me why no one would come over. Which is the only reason I mentioned it.

    It does suck that couples have to be more proactive, spend better than an average person and be more specific about their intentions. The mainstreaming of the stripclub has done this. Many women now will treat it like any other bar in town. It has become a date place for many who are curious about other women, but don't want to spend the $ for our time. And as Tuesday pointed out, some women think the rules don't apply to them. In turn we are having to fight some women off who are more aggressive than men. Don't get me wrong, I would bend the rules for women, it can be beneficial when guys see some light girl on girl action. But at the end of the night I don't want hickeys on my nipples either... Even if it is from a woman. (I'm not saying you are doing this either)

    However, once you do get that girl to come over and she sees how you treat her, she will remember it. If you go in often she will come over and and probably invite a friend since there are 2 of you. Your nights out should get better.

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    Default Re: Camgirl wondering about strip club experiences.

    "Once bitten twice shy" is my motto for 99.9% of female customers. It's a damn shame that good ones like you get lumped together with the bad apples. Unfortunately most female customers are catty, drunk, stupid, rude, jealous, ignorant, grabby, and disrespectful in a way that is beyond our scope. Men we are used to dealing with. Women are a whole different ballgame and one that I just don't have the time or the patience for. I've said it before and I'll say it again: Approaching most civilian vagina ITC is like clipping coupons. Too much trouble and bullshit for a few extra dollars. Not worth it.

    The best you can do is to ask for a dance directly. I never approach or speak to female patrons unless they ask me for a dance.

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