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    i didn't know where to post this...and i was gonna just keep it to myself butt idk why, still bothers me kind of...k so i danced at so and so club, and soon as i get on the floor, i did a vip. i did NOT know the new "rule" where if there is somebody already in the vip, then i cannot go there i have to wait... (which is kind of stupid bcuz they have 2 1/2 vip sections w several open booths anyways)..back to my shit story. So i start my vip w custie, and suddenly the strung out dj comes over and fkn starts yelling at me sayin stuff like "what the fuck you cannot be in heree when theres another dancer here what the fuck what r u doin; im telling the manager..."

    WOW ok, first of all, don't fkn speak to me like that (i know the managers or any of the bouncers would never talk to me or anyone else like that); 2nd, nobody told me bout this new rule and 3rd, fuck you! of course he dam ruined the mood for both me and my custy to finish our vip... and soon after, him and his friend left; idk who the hell that jackass dj is i never worked w him before but nevertheless, don't need to yell and talk to me in that manner esp in front of customers and other ppl; idk if i wanna ever come back to that club; such a disrespectful piece of shit
    and no, i never did anything in the past to this dj; like said, i never worked w him before, don't know who he is n vice versa;~
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    that's why i quit my last club of 2 years. the staff was absolutely disrespectful to me, for no reason. they barked at all the dancers and treated us like we were just a bunch of filthy whores they could scream at, and take out all their anger against women on. that's ridiculous, they should have explained the rules to you from the get-go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    that's why i quit my last club of 2 years. the staff was absolutely disrespectful to me, for no reason. they barked at all the dancers and treated us like we were just a bunch of filthy whores they could scream at, and take out all their anger against women on. that's ridiculous, they should have explained the rules to you from the get-go.
    ya...it only takes one bad, rude piece of shit employee to make me not want to ever work at a club again; even if everyone else (all managers, GM, dancers, waitresses, bouncers) is very kind and respectful; worst of all, that jerkface works thurs-sat which are the nights i want(ed) to work!!! i really don't understand what his problem is...the manager told me he never had any problems or whatever w/ anyone; but i noticed he a asshole in general cuz when the mgr called him into the office to talk, instead of admitting to going off on me and apologizing and talk it out, he just started goin off on me again for no reason!!! and i didn't even say a word (just kept crying); and then he walks out! even the mgr was shocked... i don't usually just cry for stupid shit but for some reason i did idk why; prolly cuz i never got disrespected like that for no reason or in general. there's no call for that and it's sad that club would "choose" to have a punk dj rather than a good quiet dancer who makes $

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    Is every strip club DJ a piece of shit???

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    Is every strip club DJ a piece of shit???
    um ok when did i say every stripclub dj is a piece of shit?? i am talking about this one specifically that is the topic; actually every dj etc i got along with and they were very kind and not rude and yelling disrespectful for no apparent reason

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    Quote Originally Posted by JuicYJocelyN View Post
    um ok when did i say every stripclub dj is a piece of shit?? i am talking about this one specifically that is the topic; actually every dj etc i got along with and they were very kind and not rude and yelling disrespectful for no apparent reason

    ....I never said you said that....Nevermind...

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    they seem to be!! i think that's what jojo was saying, i've always noticed djs seem to be the bitchiest in clubs, or they just sexually harass all the girls

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    wait so i'm still thinking about this bs and contemplating what should i do???? hell no i don't want to and am not gonna apologize for sh*t first, what for?? i do not understand why manager hasn't done etc anything about it ; he (was) a very kind mgr.... and i don't feel like dancing at another/new club etc ugh why is there always some drama everyday everywhere everyway w everyoneeeeeeeeeeeeee

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    Wow, what a little b**ch! sucks you have to work with him now too and management shouldve done something about this cause first of all he ruined $$ for you and the club so wtf. Ive never had a dj this bad, Ive had managers who were huge dicks tho but never infront of a custy

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    Quote Originally Posted by ava$ View Post
    Wow, what a little b**ch! sucks you have to work with him now too and management shouldve done something about this cause first of all he ruined $$ for you and the club so wtf. Ive never had a dj this bad, Ive had managers who were huge dicks tho but never infront of a custy

    i know; there are 2 mgrs, and the shit one who was there that night knows exactly what happened n said he will talk to him...but of course nothing; of course i don't want to go back til they/the dj admits he fucked up etc which i don't see happening...however i also don't feel like starting/going to a new club ugh whatevers bleh!!!!!!!!!

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    You may just have to take the high road here if you want to keep working at this club. As many monkey balls as it sucks, the dj seems to have a horrendous diva complex. Worked w/ one of these types in a vanilla job yrs ago, the type who is all like whatshername from the Bad Girls Club 'I RUN L.A. BITCHES' hell will freeze over twice before you hear an apology out of them. Go in to work, do your thing, now knowing of the new rule, avoid him for anything but what's necessary. No I am not taking sides here, just trying to be practical.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aniela View Post
    You may just have to take the high road here if you want to keep working at this club. As many monkey balls as it sucks, the dj seems to have a horrendous diva complex. Worked w/ one of these types in a vanilla job yrs ago, the type who is all like whatshername from the Bad Girls Club 'I RUN L.A. BITCHES' hell will freeze over twice before you hear an apology out of them. Go in to work, do your thing, now knowing of the new rule, avoid him for anything but what's necessary. No I am not taking sides here, just trying to be practical.
    u are so funny and kind!!! ur advice made me smile for first time today...idk why i'm so like still hung up/upset about this stupid bs...and i just cannot believe mgrs don't make him or tell him to apologize to me; even the customer who i was doing vip w when he interrupted n yelled like that was shocked and mad;

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aniela View Post
    You may just have to take the high road here if you want to keep working at this club. As many monkey balls as it sucks, the dj seems to have a horrendous diva complex. Worked w/ one of these types in a vanilla job yrs ago, the type who is all like whatshername from the Bad Girls Club 'I RUN L.A. BITCHES' hell will freeze over twice before you hear an apology out of them. Go in to work, do your thing, now knowing of the new rule, avoid him for anything but what's necessary. No I am not taking sides here, just trying to be practical.
    That was natalie!lol, loved her!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aniela View Post
    You may just have to take the high road here if you want to keep working at this club. As many monkey balls as it sucks, the dj seems to have a horrendous diva complex. Worked w/ one of these types in a vanilla job yrs ago, the type who is all like whatshername from the Bad Girls Club 'I RUN L.A. BITCHES' hell will freeze over twice before you hear an apology out of them. Go in to work, do your thing, now knowing of the new rule, avoid him for anything but what's necessary. No I am not taking sides here, just trying to be practical.
    That was natalie!lol, loved her!

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    GOD, ava$ is that u in the avatar? if so, ur soooo fkn fiiiiiine!!!!!!!!~

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    Nope, its not me in the avi, its just a girl. Shes hot tho, Iknowright!

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    wait um so ladiesssssssss please help what should i do?? go back to this club? certainly not gonna apologize first hell now; but by this point i don't think dj etc gonna say sorry or even feel/look bad/sorry.... should i just forget bout what happened and IF it dares happens again then all hell break loooose!~

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    Quote Originally Posted by ava$ View Post
    That was natalie!lol, loved her!
    Yes I remember now. My housemates used to watch that show for one reason, & one reason only (& when I learnt what it was couldn't agree more): as one of them put it, We like the rush of our IQs skyrocketing back to normal once we turn that rubbish off!

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    Quote Originally Posted by JuicYJocelyN View Post
    wait um so ladiesssssssss please help what should i do?? go back to this club? certainly not gonna apologize first hell now; but by this point i don't think dj etc gonna say sorry or even feel/look bad/sorry.... should i just forget bout what happened and IF it dares happens again then all hell break loooose!~
    Give the club one more shot. It sounds like you're happy there for the most part, w/ the exception of the obvious. Let it go, don't go in demanding an apology. He's a p.o.s. You know it, he knows it, & you're probably not the only ones. Be professional, don't talk to him unless you need smtg, & def don't go poking the hornet's nest by continuing to raise a stink over this. 'If it dares happen again'? Worry abt that when/if it happens.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aniela View Post
    Give the club one more shot. It sounds like you're happy there for the most part, w/ the exception of the obvious. Let it go, don't go in demanding an apology. He's a p.o.s. You know it, he knows it, & you're probably not the only ones. Be professional, don't talk to him unless you need smtg, & def don't go poking the hornet's nest by continuing to raise a stink over this. 'If it dares happen again'? Worry abt that when/if it happens.
    what is p.o.s.?
    thing is, since he is the dj (3 or so nights a week), can't he like screw up my stage songs and stuff? and/or mess w me somehow (because sometimes he also counts dances)..i just sayin, i do not want any confrontation drama bs shady stuff...and i just don't get why mgrs can't/don't make him simply say sorry i mean omg; so if a dancer were to do that to dj/other employees, it be ok too?? i confused

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    P.O.S. = piece of shit.

    Don't make a bigger mess of this than it has to be. Have you been back in & worked w/ him since this happened? Yeah he may fuck w/ you, but he may have been so blitzed that he might not even remember it, or has otherwise let it go. I think if you go in expecting him to fuck w/ you, & behave accordingly - like, giving him an attitude, demanding apology, or otherwise getting up in his kool aid - you will have a self-fulfilling prophecy on your hands. See my above advice.

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