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    Default Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    My customer keeps telling me I need to get out of the industry and do something more w my life. Its irritating and why is he so concerned when he's in here supporting the business? I don't understand why guys do this and this is someone who used to spend good $ on me gave me only $20 and wasted my fucking time today.

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    Default Re: Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    white knight syndrome. they want to save the damsel in distress, and also have it cooked up in their heads that no woman would want to show her body for money, they all want to sit at home with their man and cook his meals and wash his socks..its just a male fantasy of being some kind of savior. ignore it, move on

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    Default Re: Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    OMG, I have some random guys say this to me every time I work. They are always like, you should be at home with your husband/bf(I dont have one at the moment) but then a regular started saying this to me as well. He was even like why dont you just be a bar tender or something or youd be great at finance..lol. Ok well #1 this is way better then either one in my opinion, but I just always tell a sob story about how I need $$ for school,etc. and those careers wont pay for it(they really won't, no lie!). Its so annoying tho!

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    Default Re: Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    Let them think you need to be saved. It makes them feel relevant in your life and as long as the $ keeps rolling in, you're doing your job.

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    Default Re: Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    I say play it for all it's worth. If it's a broke loser opening his mouth I usually will say " so umm if I leave wouldn't you be here anyways and what does that say about you being here? " That usually puts things in perspective. The whole "you're a nice girl you shouldn't do this" usually lets me say " so that means you're a bad guy for being here?" If it's a guy really trying to save you then he can do so by giving you more money and I would just keep pushing him to do just that.

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    ^ this is a good idea, i've always been so mad at them i forgot to play that card! next time im gonna be like, " well, you can help save me by getting more dances so i can save and get out of this big bad strip club!" ha

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    Default Re: Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    Because they are idiots.
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    Default Re: Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    Why not go with it? You could always say, "I'm waiting for the right guy to save me" and just laugh a little. That's how Sugar Daddy's are born

    They will usually follow up with, "whats the perfect life you see for yourself". Then you can continue to paint a pretty picture of a wealthy guy that help get you through school or whatever and you're not a gold digger but it turns you on when a man will take you shopping for clothes or to get your hair done. They love that stuff. A Sugar Daddy will love to be someones savior, it makes them feel powerful. Like.. Hey look at me, I can own whatever I want and still pay for my girlfriends hair extensions\boob job

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    Default Re: Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    Because they are insecure, and want to feel like there is someone who isnt quiet as good as they are, that they are in the position to be able to save.

    Now I dont at all mind the, youre awesome and I want to do awesome things for you and give you stuff dynamic LoL but I have no interest at al in the, your life would be so much better with me, you shouldnt be doing whta you do, let me save you from this horrible situation you put yourself in dynamic. Makes my skin crawl..blah.
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    Default Re: Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    My customer keeps telling me I need to get out of the industry and do something more w my life.
    Like work two part-time jobs at minimum wage.

    What a genius.




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    Default Re: Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    I say play it for all it's worth. If it's a broke loser opening his mouth I usually will say " so umm if I leave wouldn't you be here anyways and what does that say about you being here? " That usually puts things in perspective. The whole "you're a nice girl you shouldn't do this" usually lets me say " so that means you're a bad guy for being here?" If it's a guy really trying to save you then he can do so by giving you more money and I would just keep pushing him to do just that.
    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    ^ this is a good idea, i've always been so mad at them i forgot to play that card! next time im gonna be like, " well, you can help save me by getting more dances so i can save and get out of this big bad strip club!" ha
    Thank you both for the lovely ideas! I have the hardest time bringing the conversation back to dances in a way that's not awkward with these types, and they frustrate me so I usually just get up and leave. No more!
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    So annoying. Thing is he isn't even trying to save you. He's just giving a lecture which is less than useless. I try to steer conversations away from things that are intrusive and towards fun and playful. It's better for my mental state at work and income. "You're right maybe I should look into being a naked astronaut or start a naked catering company. I'm gonna need start up money..."

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    Default Re: Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    If theyre not buying dances, keep it moving.

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    Oh, Captain Save-a-ho. I hate. I hate so much that I wrote a blog about it. I won't re-print it here, but the link is in my siggy should you wish to check it out!
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    Default Re: Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    Watch him disappear as soon as you tell him: "ok, now save me!"
    Its all empty words.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rusdancer View Post
    Watch him disappear as soon as you tell him: "ok, now save me!"
    Its all empty words.
    LoL indeed...I do wonder if I were to say, I need $xxxx to cover my monthly bills and expenses...weekly payments would be best for me.
    He would be hightailing it out of there to save himself LoL
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    Default Re: Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    "I don't think I'd like the uniforms!" Squeeze boobs together.

    If you think he will spend money and don't wanna give him a sharp tongued answer just tell him that you know you only have so long to do this and while you can always go back to school/career, you won't always be able to go back to dancing. You're just having fun and making the most of your sexy looks. Preferably say this spiel after directing his attention to your boobs.

    If I get a pick up artist vibe or non spender vibe I just fiend vapid-ness and wander off.

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    Duh Re: Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    Because they want to be somebody's hero and saviour. Yeah... so cute when we see it in a movie but in reality they just want to control us.

    I always say, dude... I make more than you imagine, I probably make more than you. I always get the feeling that they think we make like 50 bucks or something like that. Yeah multiply that by 100.

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    Duh Re: Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    LoL indeed...I do wonder if I were to say, I need $xxxx to cover my monthly bills and expenses...weekly payments would be best for me.
    He would be hightailing it out of there to save himself LoL
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    LoL indeed...I do wonder if I were to say, I need $xxxx to cover my monthly bills and expenses...weekly payments would be best for me.
    He would be hightailing it out of there to save himself LoL

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    Ps. From personal experience, the real reason guys do this is because they want to HUSTLE the dancer to go home with him, hopefully for free. Just another technique they use. He thinks: "she will think I'm such a nice guy, and don't think of her as a dancer. She'll think I'm really concerned about her future". That's why they run when she says ok, show me the money! Some cheap men think that if they convince the dancer that he is a nice guy, he won't have to spend money. I have yet to meet a real white night who is true to his words. However, who knows, maybe they do exists somewhere in the world!

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    Default Re: Why do some customers want to save women from the industry?

    White knights are douchefucks and I hate them.

    When they give me that fucking idiotic "Your life could be so much better than this" I throw my hand across my forehead and say, "Yes, SAVE me! Save me from this TRAGIC existence I lead!"

    Then the douchefuck, who was expecting me to hang my head and murmur some halfhearted arguments about how it's not so bad, becomes confused at the fact that his douchefuckery was met with sarcasm and ridicule instead of free sex after my shift ends.

    You can see the wheels turning in their heads like, "But... women who do sex work are victims and should be grateful to finally have me, the nice man they've always needed, in their life... but... why- why doesn't she seem traumatized and helpless?" Presumptuous, patronizing fucks. Go home and rethink your level of respect for females in the sex industry, and then if you still really want to help, buy a goddamn VIP.

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