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    Summer has been brutal & I've hardly been going in. I'm going to work tomorrow night & have been thinking...I'm a good conversationalist, but I need to find a better line that transitions conversation into dancing. I've been saying, "are you ready for me to dance for you?" But it seems smarter to say it as an assertion, "I'm ready to dance for you." Anyone seen a difference in altering lines from questions into assertions?

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    I give them the "menu" when we first start talking, almost like customer service to let them know what is available from me & how much it costs. Chatty-chat for a few minutes, then say something like, "Private dances happen over there" (gesture toward dark corner) "Let's go." And then take his hand and lead him over there. I have yet to see this not work... but, then again, I've only been back at work for 3 shifts so far .
    Also... to get him to buy multiple dances in a row, ramp up the sexy factor of the dance toward the end of the song and then say,"You don't want me to stop, do you?" (um, no, he doesn't)
    Stole that one from stripperweb... never ever fails. Good luck to you!

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    Get to Hustle Hut the thread called Best of Hustle Hut. There are many many many many many many threads on this topic in that forum. Also, try the search function. C'mon people, first thing I did as a Newbie was pour through hustle hut, take notes and print outs, read them at work. This spoonfeeding of the basics shouldn't be necessary if people are prepared to do some footwork.
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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    I try to never use the word 'dance'. Instead I say "Im ready to get naked for you now" or "im gonna get naked now" and they cant say no to that ..usually. Also, stole that from here. Get on the best of hustle hut thread ASAP.

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    I find that giving them hypoxia with my tits gets them to buy multiple dances.

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    Phrase it as a statement - "I bet you're ready for a dance now!" instead of "Are you ready for a dance?" It's harder to say no when something has already been stated for you.
    "People jack off with the left hand and point with the right."

    "You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Flickdreams View Post
    Get to Hustle Hut the thread called Best of Hustle Hut. There are many many many many many many threads on this topic in that forum. Also, try the search function. C'mon people, first thing I did as a Newbie was pour through hustle hut, take notes and print outs, read them at work. This spoonfeeding of the basics shouldn't be necessary if people are prepared to do some footwork.
    Very true... I'm pretty sure that's how I found the lil hustle I mentioned up there ^.

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    I ask people if they're ready for superfunnakedsexytime.

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    ^ haha
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kirakonstantin View Post
    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    i've been trying the assertive thing..maybe its cause im from a major east coast city where the guys are kind of mean, but i've had it backfire on me dreadfully..they feel pushed, hustled, and pressured, and automatically laugh and make some excuse..whereas if i ask, i get more results..so i'd be willing to try new things out or suggestions!

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    i'm struggling to get lap dances. i don't know what it is but when it comes to serious hustling i feel like an awful stripper. i am genuinely bubbly and happy and it doesn't seem to work. -__- i don't know, i'm just gonna keep trying eventually i'll get it (i hope ;/)

    maybe i'm just not talking to enough guys
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    ^Ideally, whether you approached enough guys should never be a question. Approach everyone! It's your job to rotate around and entertain. A stripper not approaching guys is like a waitress ignoring a table. It's your responsibility to see if they'd like to see a beautiful mostly naked girl, and if they decline, you smile and say, "Okay, have fun tonight," and move on to the next table.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tuesdaymarie View Post
    ^Ideally, whether you approached enough guys should never be a question. Approach everyone! It's your job to rotate around and entertain. A stripper not approaching guys is like a waitress ignoring a table. It's your responsibility to see if they'd like to see a beautiful mostly naked girl, and if they decline, you smile and say, "Okay, have fun tonight," and move on to the next table.
    I know, and part of it is (I hope) is cause I feel too much like myself and don't wanna approach guys. I'm getting a diff color wig and doing my makeup different so i don't feel like i'm *me* at a strip club. I'm gonna be working on getting over this. I used to work sales and used to approaching everyone but this feels way different.

    Arg, I've been dancing for about five months and it's still hard. I need a kick in the butt to make this happen cause I LOVE this lifestyle. Thanks for the advice I just hope one day I can be a baller stripper.
    xoxo rox$ie

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    I try to never use the word 'dance'. Instead I say "Im ready to get naked for you now" or "im gonna get naked now" and they cant say no to that ..usually. Also, stole that from here. Get on the best of hustle hut thread ASAP.
    Agreed. I never say "dance"!

    I say stuff like, "we should go to the vip so I can get naked and climb on top of you!" or simply "I want to take you upstairs!" I always do it with a smile and/or a sexy look on my face. The goal is to make them feel like they can't say no!
    "Rather have my feet hurting than my pockets."

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