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    Angry Newbie...Kinda

    I recently set up a solo account. I use to do couple shows with my bf and it was fine. Guys would come in and and people paid to watch us. As a solo performer I cannot get guys to go private. I just get the freeloaders who think I am new and want to take advantage of that fact. One guy told me take off my shirt, get in doggy position and touch myself then we could go private. I don't know what I am doing wrong. ....I get it you think I am cute now pay me so I can buy pretty things. Any advice would be helpful.

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    Default Re: Newbie...Kinda

    I don't think you're doing anything wrong, unless you're being light-handed with your ban button? If it was me, I'd just ban them. If you don't like to do that right away, only allow them so much of your time. Acknowledge, be friendly, however you want to run your chat.

    But, as soon as they start wasting time, tell them politely to go private and move on to talking to the next customer. I've also heard of people using a sort of 'strike' system mentally, for instance banning if they make a stupid request like the above a certain number of times. Remember, it's your room and you get to be queen of the banhammer

    Some threads that may be relevant (about freeloaders and how to deal with them):
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...at-freeloaders
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...s-in-Free-Chat
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...private-on-MFC
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...eloaders/page2
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ir-damn-orders!
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...e-in-Your-Room
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...-Private-Shows
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...the-paid-chats




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    Default Re: Newbie...Kinda

    Doesn't matter if you are new or not. I still get those requests after 4 and a half years of camming. Like maryjane said, only allow them so much time. I don't ever have conversations in free chat. I'll respond 4 maybe 5 times. After that they should have made a decision to go private or not.


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    Default Re: Newbie...Kinda

    Thanks ladies. Its just weird. NO privates or exclusives. Maybe I will just go back to doing couple shows.

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    Default Re: Newbie...Kinda

    Quote Originally Posted by Lolitakitty View Post
    Thanks ladies. Its just weird. NO privates or exclusives. Maybe I will just go back to doing couple shows.
    None? Are you sure your Internet/lighting/sound is fine?
    Are your prices to low? Are your prices to high? Both can hinder getting shows.
    Are you being chatty? When I'm to chatty guys hang out and don't go pvt.
    Don't be light on your ban button especially on a site like SM where there is as much traffic as there is...I know girls with TONS of guys blocked an they never have a lack of guys in theyre room.

    Like princesslavendar I only give them a few responses of individual attention before I start ignoring them, by then they either go private or are just going to suck uP time.. Sure they might go private but the time you spend talking to them you could have lured someone else private and been back in free chat repeating he cycle = lost money.
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    Default Re: Newbie...Kinda

    I noticed that I when I cam with my boyfriend its a lot of really good no nonsense, decent timed private chats. No beggars or freeloaders. But by myself, I'll be lucky to get a few quick privates over a long period of time.

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    Default Re: Newbie...Kinda

    I have noticed the same. I think not banning in my problem. A few guys keep coming in just to talk and never leave I just kick them out. My prices are fine. This weekend was better. the guys that did go pvt or exclusive stayed a while.

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