is there a way to tell before you walk over to a guy that he's totally interested in a dance from you?
is there a way to tell before you walk over to a guy that he's totally interested in a dance from you?
I'm the stripper you can be in love with



Well, if you catch a guy looking your way a lot or trying to make eye contact then he definitely is trying to get your attention. It might be because here wants a dance or he might just want to meet you, you have to direct the conversation to find out. Sometimes when guys go over the top trying to get attention they are the biggest time wasters.
You can totally tell right away if a guy wants you there when you go over though. His face will light up and his body position will open to you. It pains me to see an inexperienced dancer fruitlessly trying to talk up a guy who won't even turn her way or puts up barriers because he's uncomfortable with her there.
I've found some guys are more obvious than others. For example, some do the whole stare/smile/body language thing; however, I've ended up getting dances from other guys who won't really make eye contact/smile/stare etc. They tend do be really shy types or business men who keep their game face on.
I approach both types. The worst that'll happen is they say "no." Good luck!
I'd grab my trumpet and I'd do a stripper sound, like the old Louis Armstrong, real raspy. And the people would go nuts! Then I knew that the sexual, sensual, guttural sound, that throbbing sound, is where it's at.





your stripper spidey senses will kick in once you've gotten a little more experience under your belt, you'll even be able to ascertain what guys will probably say yes or have more money, just with a quick 2 second glance around the room. go with eye contact at first though, but even if they don't, Approach EVERYBODY!
No. Some dudes look super interested but they end up being time wasters and just want to hang out on the floor for free. There is never a guarantee you will make money from someone, so all you can do is approach everyone, do your little hustle, and offer them a dance.
^It's good to stick to this pattern because 1) it weeds out time wasters because you don't invest a lot of your time before moving on to more profitable waters and 2) Most guys in most clubs know if they want a dance from a girl from talking to her for a couple songs. Obviously exceptions exist, but this = >75% of customers.
Following this strategy maximizes your earning potential: when I was new I wasted way too much time talking up guys period. The ones who said yes would still have said yes if I asked them 5 minutes earlier. Same as the ones who said no. I call it the pleasantly ripping off the band-aid hustle. They're in there to get some boobies just go ask them if they want yours and be cute about it!
"We can't expect you to just know all the secrets of our top-secret-titty-club!" --Jenna Marbles
^It's good to stick to this pattern because 1) it weeds out time wasters because you don't invest a lot of your time before moving on to more profitable waters and 2) Most guys in most clubs know if they want a dance from a girl from talking to her for a couple songs. Obviously exceptions exist, but this = >75% of customers.
Following this strategy maximizes your earning potential: when I was new I wasted way too much time talking up guys period. The ones who said yes would still have said yes if I asked them 5 minutes earlier. Same as the ones who said no. I call it the pleasantly ripping off the band-aid hustle. They're in there to get some boobies just go ask them if they want yours and be cute about it!
"We can't expect you to just know all the secrets of our top-secret-titty-club!" --Jenna Marbles
this thread was super helpful, ty from a lurker.
This is great, thanks experienced ladies for sharing!
I've been having some problems reading men in the new city I'm working in. I was in a city where customers were mostly blue collar guys who'd moved up the ladder and made some money. They were always super open, unafraid to make eye contact and smile you over. Now, I'm in a big west coast city where so many of the well-off men are trying to play it cool. I'll catch someone eyeing me up, but as soon as I make eye contact, they look away! When I approach them then its about 50/50 they want a dance or don't even want me to sit there. They're so much harder to read.... Any tips on how to separate the ones who aren't interested from the ones who just want to seem cool?





If he's talking to my tits he's interested![]()
"Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
Tempest
seduce him, thats the technique.
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