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    Default You know you're not the new girl anymore when...

    Thought this would be a fun thread based on my club experiences!
    You know you are NOT the new girl anymore when...

    *~ In the more "clicky" clubs, you know your not the new girl when other dancers start finally acknowledging your presence with a smile or a hi after they've usually been ignoring you since you started.

    *~ when you start seeing repeat customers and remembering who spends/who are the time wasters.

    *~ you start gaining your own regulars.

    *~you start getting bored of the club already

    *~you start making friends with the girls and maybe hang otc

    *~you gain courage to ask to leave early bc too soon since starting kinda makes you look bad

    *~you are comfortable enough to order food (for me this is one bc I can be shy)

    any others? Just for fun

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    Default Re: You know you're not the new girl anymore when...

    - you feel okay asking the dj to skip you (without paying the skip fee) so you can continue giving lapdances

    - you bring a book and booklight to read when its slow

    - you sneak into the champagne room for naps

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    Default Re: You know you're not the new girl anymore when...

    - at the beginning of the night when it's quiet, all the bar staff are happy to give you drinks and let you pay for them later when you've made money.

    - you know which managers will let you get away with using your phone on the main floor

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    Default Re: You know you're not the new girl anymore when...

    You become privy to the super secret stage whisper time every other girl seems to need to participate in. Before, you always saw these girls crawling up to a meeting point on stage and whispering to one another like they had some national security secrets going on. Now, they crawl to you, and it turns out the secrets are usually more like "can you tell I am drunk?" or "is my tampon string showing?"

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    Default Re: You know you're not the new girl anymore when...

    ~The makeup artists know your schedule better than you d so They always reserve a spot for you on their list.
    ~You can leave pretty much whenever you want.
    ~You have one of the bigger lockers.
    ~Everyone knows who you are.
    ~You have everyone in the club on your IG or FB. They comment on your personal life. Some even let your real name slip here and there.
    ~You don't make an effort to make friends or be nice to the new girls anymore. LOL
    ~You find yourself exclaiming "Ive been here for __ amount of years ..." usually in a fit of rage.
    ~You say things like "I remember when..." or "remember the winter of 2010 ...damn that was great money compared to now" LOL
    ~Auditioning at a new club is much scarier now than it used to be since you haven't done it in SO long.
    ~You have real life OTC friendships and you do normal things together, have sleep overs, go to parties together, etc.
    ~You can't imagine leaving the club.

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    Default Re: You know you're not the new girl anymore when...

    After going on a break for a few weeks, girls (and customers, and the waitstaff at Denny's) walk up to you and say, "I thought you quit! It's good to see you back!"

    When something goes missing in the DR you know exactly who took it just by the way it went missing.

    The bartender knows exactly what you're going to order by the mood you're in.

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    Default Re: You know you're not the new girl anymore when...

    ... when everyone yells your name when you walk into the dressing room.

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    Default Re: You know you're not the new girl anymore when...

    *When the affable nigerian doorman gives you a hug as you walk in... and gets jealous looks from the custies that are walking out the door!
    *When you refuse to dance for certain people based on the fabric their pants are made out of. Lol.
    *When it takes you less than 90 seconds to apply fake eyelashes.
    *When your managers starts coming to your for stock ideas! haha

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    Default Re: You know you're not the new girl anymore when...

    when you go to work at other clubs, and when you come back you feel a sense of relief and comfort..like its home lol

    when you finally get your own damn locker

    when the DJ is so used to playing the stuff you've always liked, its impossible for them to remember you want something new

    when other girls feel ok about just picking up your hair straightener and using it without asking

    you feel comfortable enough to talk to the other girls about how much you made and compare earnings

    you know which girls will cover your shifts for you and which ones won't

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    Default Re: You know you're not the new girl anymore when...

    • when you take a vacation (or leave longer than a week) and girls and managers are like "where were you? glad to see you back"
    • veterans finally talk to you
    • bartender knows your drink preferences
    • you customized your locker
    • the new girls look up to you for hustle guidance
    • you work the stage like pro and not nervous anymore
    • customers request you
    • dj saves hottest new songs for you


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    Default Re: You know you're not the new girl anymore when...

    -You don't need to drink anymore

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    Default Re: You know you're not the new girl anymore when...

    By how high you pick up your feet on stage and when you walk.
    1. The pony- the way new girls walk, like trotting ponies or t-Rex's, lifting their feet and knees up high and stomping along.
    2. The regular walk- Girls (I've found at about 6-12 months) who pick their feet up reasonably normally, neither super high, nor shuffling. They're not yet into the swagger but they've stopped walking like retards.
    3. The swagger- girls who've found their "feet" (confidence) in the club and have that confident swagger, walking like they run the place.
    4. The Zombie- generally veterans who've been there quite a while. They drag their feet to swing their hips more, and avoid rogue ice on the floor, as such shuffling along a bit the way zombies do. They may be burned out, or not, but either way picking up their feet is way too much effort... (This is me)

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