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    Default Help girls! My hustle is broken!

    I'm at work, will be here another 5 hours and my hustle is totally broken. A combination of rude customers and frustration are really dragging me down - any advice to help me get back on my game? Funny pictures? Anything? I've made $120 and been here 6 hours. Yikes.

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    Positive mantras.

    Also, transfer into an "I'm not going to give a fuck about money but I AM going to have a good time." Dance, play funny music, say off the wall shit to get a reaction out of guys, and if you have to, just hang out by yourself on the floor and use it as an opportunity to observe. Give yourself permission to not make money but to finish the shift in a good mood and accepting that the customers can't be controlled, but their ability to affect you can.

    The nice part is, if you don't make money-- you'll still be in a better mood, and if you're in a better mood then you have a better chance to make money or at least say WHAT you think to assholes and that can be pretty satisfying too.

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    Ugh you are my hero thank you. Fuck these broke assholes, I don't need to take their crap. I switched into my bitch dress, doing much better now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BANHammerGoddess View Post
    Positive mantras.

    Also, transfer into an "I'm not going to give a fuck about money but I AM going to have a good time." Dance, play funny music, say off the wall shit to get a reaction out of guys, and if you have to, just hang out by yourself on the floor and use it as an opportunity to observe. Give yourself permission to not make money but to finish the shift in a good mood and accepting that the customers can't be controlled, but their ability to affect you can.

    The nice part is, if you don't make money-- you'll still be in a better mood, and if you're in a better mood then you have a better chance to make money or at least say WHAT you think to assholes and that can be pretty satisfying too.
    Golden! Thankyou BHGoddess, that is beautifully put.
    Tiny tweaks----->BIG CHANGES

    Quote Originally Posted by Kirakonstantin View Post
    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Have you read Hustle Hut? Without specific info on what you're doing now that isn't working, it's hard to suggest anything else. Glad the positive mantras were helpful to get through the shift!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BANHammerGoddess View Post
    Positive mantras.

    Also, transfer into an "I'm not going to give a fuck about money but I AM going to have a good time." Dance, play funny music, say off the wall shit to get a reaction out of guys, and if you have to, just hang out by yourself on the floor and use it as an opportunity to observe. Give yourself permission to not make money but to finish the shift in a good mood and accepting that the customers can't be controlled, but their ability to affect you can.

    The nice part is, if you don't make money-- you'll still be in a better mood, and if you're in a better mood then you have a better chance to make money or at least say WHAT you think to assholes and that can be pretty satisfying too.
    ^This is the BEST advice for a slow night! When I leave in a bad mood, it's so hard for me to convince myself to go back for my next shift.
    “The irony of commitment is that it's deeply liberating -- in work, in play, in love. The act frees you from the tyranny of your internal critic, from the fear that likes to dress itself up and parade around like rational hesitation. To commit is to remove your head as the barrier to your life.”
    - Anne Morris

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    Shit like this kills me:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-wIEihDAcpU
    or this:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RP4abiHdQpc

    I don't have kids yet so maybe it won't work for everyone.

    I have this on my iPod:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4l95kS52fnc

    And if all else fails, put on your headphones and play whatever makes you feel sexy and want to dance. I dance in the dressing room while I'm regrouping myself, these are the songs I usually go to first:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j21l4LEtHbA
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2wetfrTs7to
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kahp_kmOFzQ
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U8D9xCBcfzw
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JFUCIPChqHI
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Sokz0oy7wo
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tA9me6zCpjU
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2RsfGJsax9E

    Hope it helps!

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    ^ looking forward to checking out your tunes x
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kirakonstantin View Post
    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Default Re: Help girls! My hustle is broken!

    im about to check these out to see if i can get a momentum going

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    Still haven't checked em out
    Tiny tweaks----->BIG CHANGES

    Quote Originally Posted by Kirakonstantin View Post
    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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