so no matter what I do I can't make more than barely house fee and gas. I can't remember the last time I made over 400. I haven't gained weight etc. I need to get out of this, phase. what is happening to me!!???



so no matter what I do I can't make more than barely house fee and gas. I can't remember the last time I made over 400. I haven't gained weight etc. I need to get out of this, phase. what is happening to me!!???
I'll tell you what's happening to you: SUMMER!!
Give it a few more weeks and things will probably be back on the up swing. In the meantime, maybe read through all your hustle hut notes - sometimes we need a little refresher! Also check out the Law of Attraction thread.
^Seconded! If you can, take a break for a week or two. If you can't, go in with the attitude that you'll make what you make and you're just there to have fun! That's what I have to do to get my ass in my club lately since there's always twice as many girls as guys. I think I've only walked out with more than $400 twice in the last 3 months, and both times I was the lucky girl in the club with the big spender. Hang in there, Fall's coming.
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I feel you, sugar plum. The club I'm at is AWFUL right now. I'm going to have to hustle my ass off in October!
If you are feeling irritated from the shit-storm of summer, take some time off and do something nice for yourself. You'd be surprised what a few days of R&R can do for a person!
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regulars are the only way i've gotten through this horrible month! hate late summer, so at least you are not alone!! try switching up shifts, switching clubs ( some areas actually get busier in the summer), and developing regs for when it gets slow! i took a long break during august where i only did walk-ins when i wanted, take some vaca time!






I'm having a "I want to quit" funk myself. Sending you positive, greenback vibes and hugs!
Can't wait til after the first Jewish holiday then it's BANK time!
I had to take to take the summer off cause I couldnt afford to come to work and not make money!! I live in NC but commute to VA weekly but it got so slow and I lost my pay out several nites in a row I had to stop for a minute before all my savings was gone Now the only problem is I cant go back to my old club without paying a 400.00 reinstatement plus house fee so I am struggling to wait til fall and move on to a new spot maybe in SC anyone hear any good tips for clubs in myrtle beach, charleston etc?
myrtle beach @ any of the clubs you will not be able to work without your social security card in addition to ID. $400 reinstatement is bullshit. Have you looked into greensboro, raleigh, wilmington or Charlotte?
Yes, just give it till sept and you should start making money again. When you do, save it cause this happens every summer.
I have "government" ID that's not a problem for me the reinstatement fee is in VA that's why I can't go back it takes me just as much time to drive to SC vs VA 3 hrs either way NC is a sex starved state I'm originally from Philly and to me NC is the poster child for Bible Belt Junction there's a place of worship on damn near every intersection! Where I come from every corner is either a bar, beauty salon, barber, grocery store or day care You can count on one hand the clubs here and there are no black gurl friendly ones either the Men's club, Capitol cabaret and foxy lady are it and the foxy lady is too close to my hood most of the clubs are in Fayetteville which is over hour half drive and not worth the gas you got about 2 more in Durham so I'm thinking myrtle beach or charleston might be good come fall for golf season
you're missing Pure Gold and Teaser's-- both way better than those three you listed. They don't tend to run a lot of black chicks but they do have them and they have been HIGH earners, so go there. the only thing is that the area is cyclical-- it'll be great at one club, then crap but great at another club, then crap. You kind of have to rotate once a month or once every two months.
and I'm pretty sure Myrtle Beach still requires the actual physical social security card, so just a heads up. They're very strict about that for some reason.





Summer, it does suck.
Stick it out a couple more, and go full LOA - as much as you can t try and change that mindset and get your mojo back.
You may also want to consider that if you can't make more than $400...that't still a lot more than you would make if you quit and worked and entry level vanilla job...
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Thks for da heads up are they taking taxes? Why a SS card? No matter I have it and I'm not illegal etc, but OMG. almost forgot!! A new club well not new a regular house club just converted last week to have dancers in downtown Raleigh the place is Club Bodi it is a sister club to Capitol Cabarat and it is Afro centric friendly I started to audition last week when I realized this is going to be a hip hop younger twerkin urban club and I suck on the pole booty banging so I froze and left and I'm not old , I'm just OLDER so this was not my forte' if anyone is interested in the young drug dealer type custys this is the place they opened another side for the dancers called Bodi Blow and the place is gorgeous large and classy but again too close to my house its only 8 min away warning you need to have acrobatic skills to make the audition and be able to make it rain with ur booty
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