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    Hi everyone. Any casual customer ladies here ever try an amatuer night, or guys been able to get their spouse to try it. My wife has never actually been to a strip club, ever. She is beautiful with a sexy playboy type hourglass body. She`s not too shy about her body and I would absolutely love to see her do an amatuer strip contest some time, far away from home on vacation, just once. She`s done some bikini modeling before, but I would love it to see her under stage lights, in heels, dancing and stripping down in front of a cheering crowd or males and females. Any advice?
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    Have you talked to her about it?
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    Default Re: Convincing Wife to try an amatuer night

    Why would you have too "Convince" your wife of anything? If she wants too try it,great!If she does not,great! Here is some advice,Ask her! I will not be shocked if she says no.

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    Default Re: Convincing Wife to try an amatuer night

    Ask her if she'd ever want to visit an sc w/you, & see what she says about that?


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    I don't think "convincing" her is really appropriate. Maybe just talking to her about it? Understandably, she probably wouldn't want to do it at any local clubs. Tell her it's a fantasy of yours, do some research on clubs in destinations she wants to vacation to, and take her on a nice romantic weekend getaway - where ONE of those nights is occupied by a little playing at the SC. Go on Amateur contest night and if she wants to do it, great, and if not then maybe the two of you can get some private VIP time with a dancer or two. Either way you'll go home ready to play! Don't pressure her into it, though. If I harbored a long, secret desire to perform in an amateur night, and my theoretical hubby tried to pressure me into it, I'd say no. Maybe that's just 'cause I'm indignant, but I assume most women are.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DSM View Post
    Hi everyone. Any casual customer ladies here ever try an amatuer night, or guys been able to get their spouse to try it. My wife has never actually been to a strip club, ever. She is beautiful with a sexy playboy type hourglass body. She`s not too shy about her body and I would absolutely love to see her do an amatuer strip contest some time, far away from home on vacation, just once. She`s done some bikini modeling before, but I would love it to see her under stage lights, in heels, dancing and stripping down in front of a cheering crowd or males and females. Any advice?
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    Be careful what you wish for, once you let the genie out of the bottle you may not be able to put it back in.
    ^My thoughts exactly !
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    Your probably right. It would be interesting to just take her to a club sometime and see what she thinks. She's expressed an interest to go and just see what it's all about a few times. Maybe she'll hate it all together.... Maybe they might be running a wet T contest and she can think about trying it. I don't want to push, or be a jerk about it. Maybe she has a deep down fantasy to do a strip club show. Or maybe that's beyond her comfort zone and that's okay. I've seen her participate in a few little bikini contests in some skimpy suits, she had some fun doing them and I enjoyed watching her do them.
    Regardless I will always fantisize about it because of that awesome cheezy skinimax "Stripper Wives" movie

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    Are you prepared for her to start stripping if she gets a massive buzz/thrill/pleasure/ton of tips etc out of it and decides to start stripping as a result? If not, don't even go there. It would be hypocritical of you to encourage her to try it then deny her the job if she wants it.

    If this is the case, fulfill your stripper wife fantasy at home with some music, stripper heels and a few bottles of champagne. Hell, if you're that keen on other guys watching, invite a few mates around and get her up on the coffee table...
    I joke, but you will need to be open to the possibility she will want to. Or that she wont even want to try the amateur night, in which case, there should be no "convincing" involved. Remember its your fantasy, but her body you are talking about.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlotte_ai View Post
    Are you prepared for her to start stripping if she gets a massive buzz/thrill/pleasure/ton of tips etc out of it and decides to start stripping as a result? If not, don't even go there. It would be hypocritical of you to encourage her to try it then deny her the job if she wants it.

    If this is the case, fulfill your stripper wife fantasy at home with some music, stripper heels and a few bottles of champagne. Hell, if you're that keen on other guys watching, invite a few mates around and get her up on the coffee table...
    I joke, but you will need to be open to the possibility she will want to. Or that she wont even want to try the amateur night, in which case, there should be no "convincing" involved. Remember its your fantasy, but her body you are talking about.
    I really appreciate the great feedback. I will go with this advice. Now that I think more about it I will see if I can find a kickass hotel room with a stripper pole, maybe something in Vegas, and we can play some stripper and customer there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DSM View Post
    I really appreciate the great feedback. I will go with this advice. Now that I think more about it I will see if I can find a kickass hotel room with a stripper pole, maybe something in Vegas, and we can play some stripper and customer there.
    Maybe purchase your own stripper pole? You can probably find one on amazon for cheeps. You can get the ones you can disassemble so your guests won't feel awkward.





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    Its your wife. How do you not know what her fantasies are? and how is it that she doesnt know yours?

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Have you talked to her about it?
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    Its your wife. How do you not know what her fantasies are? and how is it that she doesnt know yours?
    Hey, hey, dont bring logic or forethought or direct open communication into this - this is Customer Conversation damnit: You assume in your favor, you act in your favor, you ruminate happily in favor, and then in a moment of clarity you start to use logic and ask questions. But when you get the answers you want is only when you care. Only then! Not before ok? Marriage and lifelong commitment have nothing to do with communication, ok? Know where you are fellas, logic and a rational choice is the last thing this guy needs, ok?

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    jk jk jk, sorry mods, Ill take the spank.
    Well, OK, but that would turn this into a whole different sort of fantasy thread!
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    Quote Originally Posted by DSM View Post
    ...She`s done some bikini modeling before, but I would love it to see her under stage lights, in heels, dancing and stripping down in front of a cheering crowd or males and females.
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    ...I will always fantisize about it because of that awesome cheezy skinimax "Stripper Wives" movie
    You seem to have romanticized views about what dancing and stripping on stage are like. If it was that easy to do, then more girls would probably do it. IME even the so-called "amateurs" who show up at amateur nights are, more often than not, strippers who work at other clubs or took a break from dancing and are looking to come back. Amateur nights aren't as popular as they used to be (though I'm sure they still exist in places), but even back when they were a more common ploy to fill seats on slow nights, I was always amazed at how polished the stage performances of those "amateurs" were.

    If she actually performed in one of those gimmicky amateur events somewhere, she'd run the real risk of embarrassing herself in front of a lot of people, especially compared to the other "amateur" performances. And what are you going to do if some guy at the tip rail gets obnoxious or takes liberties when he's giving her money, for example?

    Idk, but I really think that you might want to give this a second thought.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    You seem to have romanticized views about what dancing and stripping on stage are like. If it was that easy to do, then more girls would probably do it. IME even the so-called "amateurs" who show up at amateur nights are, more often than not, strippers who work at other clubs or took a break from dancing and are looking to come back. Amateur nights aren't as popular as they used to be (though I'm sure they still exist in places), but even back when they were a more common ploy to fill seats on slow nights, I was always amazed at how polished the stage performances of those "amateurs" were.

    If she actually performed in one of those gimmicky amateur events somewhere, she'd run the real risk of embarrassing herself in front of a lot of people, especially compared to the other "amateur" performances. And what are you going to do if some guy at the tip rail gets obnoxious or takes liberties when he's giving her money, for example?

    Idk, but I really think that you might want to give this a second thought.
    Yep, one of the secrets about amateur night is it's often a working stripper and some times it's a stripper asked to perform just to being in people. Also, the OP I think is confused about what could happen and he's not looking at the bigger picture. Personally I would be upset if I was married and my husband asked me to do an amateur night because it reeks of pimping, not being sexual play between a couple.

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    There was a suggestion up above abt getting a pole installed in their house, & inviting friends over for a show if she's down w/ it. This really sounds like the best compromise: no risk of embarrassment from competing w/ actual professional dancers, her privacy & person are protected, hubby gets his stripper fantasy & wife can keep the pole if she wants for a great workout & for whenever they want to revisit said stripper fantasy. Everybody wins.

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    Buy your wife an X-Pole... it's the gift that keeps on giving. Fitness, sexiness, and convenience. What's not to love? http://xpoleus.com/

    Seriously though, I can envision some sassy sexxxay fun that ya'll can have in the privacy of your own home.

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    While I personally love the idea of a lady friend on a stripper pole in my living room I somehow don't think that the wife-on-a-pole fantasy is as strong as the wife-naked-in-front-of-strangers fantasy with this guy. I could be wrong of course....
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    ^^^^ then let him invite sm friends of his friends? They still have control of the environment & the 'strangers' have (hopefully) been vouched for by their mutual friends. Encourage their lady friends to come as well to get the feel of a real amateur nite w/ actual amateurs

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    While I personally love the idea of a lady friend on a stripper pole in my living room I somehow don't think that the wife-on-a-pole fantasy is as strong as the wife-naked-in-front-of-strangers fantasy with this guy. I could be wrong of course....
    Your correct. Wifey on a pole doing a private show is hot, but not as much part of the fantasy as stripping for a room full of strangers, which I realize is no longer possible. It's certainly not anything like pimping. It's not about money, I would never let anyone touch her, ever. She has been fully nude on a clothing optional beach and didn't have any issues with it at all and I liked seeing her get checked out there. I realize it's a little strange.

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    Can you find a place that has male strippers and an amateur night? Take her there and dance. If she likes seeing you do it, then suggest she try.

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    Quote Originally Posted by slowpoke View Post
    Can you find a place that has male strippers and an amateur night? Take her there and dance. If she likes seeing you do it, then suggest she try.


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    Quote Originally Posted by DSM View Post
    Your correct. Wifey on a pole doing a private show is hot, but not as much part of the fantasy as stripping for a room full of strangers, which I realize is no longer possible. It's certainly not anything like pimping. It's not about money, I would never let anyone touch her, ever. She has been fully nude on a clothing optional beach and didn't have any issues with it at all and I liked seeing her get checked out there. I realize it's a little strange.
    It isn't that weird. My empire of perversion is built on cuckold fantasies and this is a good start.

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    Quote Originally Posted by slowpoke View Post
    Can you find a place that has male strippers and an amateur night? Take her there and dance. If she likes seeing you do it, then suggest she try.
    That would be fair, I would love to do that sometime as long as it was only for women.

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