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    So there is this customer at my club who is a regular meaning he is there a lot not that he spends much money on me or anyone. He always tell me and other girls that he will have all this money in the near future obviously in hopes of finding some thirsty girl who will spend a lot of time with him with only the "hope" of him ever spending real money on them. I can see right through this and would rather not talk to him at all but when I see him in the club he always comes over and talks to me. I always ask if he wants a dance and he says no, next week or tomorrow and then has bought dances a couple times but only like 3. He gives me a real bad vibe like he is the stalker killer type, I think he could really become obsessed and I am worried he may be able to get my info from say a club worker or the owner even, or fallow me home ( I do watch for this but still someone very skilled/experienced could go unnoticed I guess)I just have a bad feeling about him and want him to forget me and move on to someone else but how do I do this without him freaking out even more? keep in mind he is a psycho, I can totally tell.

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    Either ignore him when he comes in, or make an excuse to leave if he approaches you i.e. "I have to check when I'm on stage next", "I have to freshen up" etc. If you get a bad vibe from him, it's best to just let his infatuation fade rather than "pissing him off" to make it fade faster. If all else fails then just act "unattractive"-talk about money constantly to make him feel uncomfortable etc and be no fun in general. He will soon get bored and move on. If you do go for a dance with him and feel uncomfortable or unsafe, alert a bouncer so that they can keep an eye on you just in case.
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    I have used the "I have to talk to the dj" or any other excuses to get away, then when I come back out on the floor, he is there, lurking and talking to me again. I am like WTF, how do I attract effing weirdos!? but maybe the money thing will work, like u mean I should ask him for a bunch of money? or tell him about money problems all the time?

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    Ignore Ignore Ignore, if he's as bad as you say, think safety / Not money.
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    I've had guys like this in the past. Its scary and it sucks!
    If I were you I would just watch my back at every moment. If you drink at work, make sure you don't drink too much and that you're always aware of your surroundings.
    Be looking everywhere for him when you leave to make sure he's not following you. I've been followed three times and I always turn around and went straight back to my club. Hopefully if that happened and you told a manager they would ban the guy from your club.
    I know sometimes guys like this prey on the sweet/nice girls. I'm normally not rude to customers, but sometimes you just have to be firm to get your point across that you aren't interested in this guy at ALL. Or act totally aloof and uninterested.
    Your intuition alerted you that this guy is creepy, and you have to do everything within your power to keep yourself safe.
    If I were you I would also but some pepper spray.

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    Since he never buy dances anyways, the second he approaches you; just say wanna dance? When he says no just say okay gonna go hustle bye! Most likely he's after you because you have given him conversations and are nice to him. Cut that out and he won't bother you as much.

    When its time to go home just make sure no car is driving behind you and you'll be fine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kassie View Post
    Since he never buy dances anyways, the second he approaches you; just say wanna dance? When he says no just say okay gonna go hustle bye! Most likely he's after you because you have given him conversations and are nice to him. Cut that out and he won't bother you as much.

    When its time to go home just make sure no car is driving behind you and you'll be fine.
    +1. You're probably being a little paranoid about him. He sounds like classic club furniture - always there, never spending money, but always finding girls (usually newer ones) to shoot the shit with for free. He's probably harmless, though it's always wise to be vigilant on your way home just in general.

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    You both could be right, I may be paranoid but hey, id rather be safe then sorry and he does shoot out this psycho vibe , like id not be surprised to hear he has girls captured in his basement.lbs. He didnt seem harmful tonight tho...I did watch all the way home tho to see if anyone was fallowing me.And yea he dont spent much anyways so screw him

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    I simply wouldn't talk to him. I'd flat out tell him "if you're not spending money on me, I'm not spending time on you." Since he doesn't spend money anyway, that should shoo him away. If he keeps bothering you just always make excuses as to why you cannot chat with him.

    One of my most lucrative regulars just found out my identity and told me he googled me and saw my twitter, which was very unsettling. If he's the dangerous stalker type, I'm screwed lol.
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    OMG, how did he find your identity!? that is what I am afraid of

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    Quote Originally Posted by ava$ View Post
    OMG, how did he find your identity!? that is what I am afraid of
    I'm in school and owed my university from last semester and didn't have the money to pay them back in time to register for Fall classes so I explained it to him and he wrote me a check for my balance and put it in my school's name so I wouldn't have to tell him my name. But when I went to give my school the check I put my name in the memo line so when he saw that his check went through, my school's name was on the transaction and so was my name! Then he googled away... ugh. I hate it but he is a good spender so I'm dealing with it.
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    OHHH hell no, what a sneaky little customer!

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