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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    i feel like this has already been talked about, and i'm just not finding it, but anyways..
    you guys ever have your stripper friends give you unwanted advice on your look?
    i've tried all sorts of stripper looks, and "trashy hot" is what makes me the most. the guys like it. they also like my bleach blond hair but the girls at work are forever giving me a hard time about it. "omg, it just doesn't go with your eye color!" or " i think you should add some low-lights, maybe a soft champagne blond"..well, the guys aren't complaining and i earn more blond, i don't think they give a shit about how it goes with my eye color!! one girl got kind of insulting, saying " you look like trailer trash, it looks horrible and ugly". she later apologized for phrasing it wrong but still. the guys are the ones who feed me and pay my rent, their opinions matter, not peoples who aren't paying me! i LIKE looking "trashy" if that's what you wanna call it, that's the look that makes me money. men compliment me every night on my super light hair. i swear, men and women have such different views on what makes a female attractive! most of the girls were nice and just trying to help but yeah..
    maybe the posh, polished, neat look works well for you, good! let me do what i want..i'm not stupid and i'm not in need of beauty advice. i do this on purpose, thank you.
    anybody else get frustrated with this??
    Customers like your "trashy hot" look because it's different from the safe, conservative looks they see around them all day long. You look like you might be up to no good. The bank teller, with the light brown hair? Not so much. Forget the nay-sayers. They're just mad about your money. But , you knew that.

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    Default Re: unwanted advice from co-workers.

    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    the things is, i can't tell whether its damage or just my hair
    ^This happened to me after going blonde too lol. I mean, it was obviously more damaged, but, it was always dry, frizzy and I had split ends/breakage (from heat treating my hair) before I died it anyway.
    Just baby it and try to keep it as healthy as possible if you keep it blonde . If you like it blonde and can maintain the quality of your hair, I wouldn't go red. Don't let the girls opinions get to you or prompt you to change something that's working for you.
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    Default Re: unwanted advice from co-workers.

    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    the things is, i can't tell whether its damage or just my hair. my hair is crazzzzyyy, its huge and poofy and curly around my face kinda like juno temple/helena bonham-carter hair and very coarse. i think some of the girls just assumed it was super damaged when its just never going to be straight and shiny. i'm going to try that stuff out..do they have it at sallys??
    My hair is also course and curly and I've had problems with breakage in the past with my natural hair color. There was definitely a difference in damage when I got it bleached from my natural color. They might have it, I've been seeing that stuff everywhere. I've seen it in CVS and most beauty supply stores in my area.
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    Default Re: unwanted advice from co-workers.

    I don't have bleached hair, I have dark hair and that's what suits my features most... However, I've always been into the trashy stripper look aswell.

    I love skimpy outfits, itty bitty bikinis ... I've never had the chance to wear them before I started dancing so now that I have the occasion to wear them... that's how I usually dress while working at the club. I like dressing up for work, putting on make-up and I, also, found that the look that makes me the most money is when I look a bit more ''trashy hot'' and not the girl next door's look.

    I rarely wear a bra & panty set but I once did and a new girl told me : ''ohhh what you are wearing today is a bit classier than what you usually wear ''. LOL I'm not sure if she was trying to insult me but I just said thanks.

    I have plenty of ''classier'' outfits but I'd rather leave them for my every day life. I don't make more money when I'm wearing my Agent Provocateur lingerie anyway, in fact I make less. So i'd rather keep my luxury underwear for outside of work.

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    Default Re: unwanted advice from co-workers.

    I'd like to try it one night for kicks, I'm def. classy stripper (even when I'm being raunchier than usual).
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    Default Re: unwanted advice from co-workers.

    ^^^Same here

    I think the trashy hot look is the most appealing look for the vast majority of customers. I've never been able to pull it off.
    CARMEN IS HOTT 4 A BLACK CHICK!!!!!!!!

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    why does Janet Jackson have a headset on her head?!

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    Default Re: unwanted advice from co-workers.

    ^^^Same here

    I think the trashy hot look is the most appealing look for the vast majority of customers. I've never been able to pull it off.
    CARMEN IS HOTT 4 A BLACK CHICK!!!!!!!!

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    Why does he have a headset on his head, like Janet Jackson or some shit?
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    why does Janet Jackson have a headset on her head?!

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