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    Default Re: Sugar Daddy sites...how do you know the men really are wealthy?

    Quote Originally Posted by NoRegrets View Post
    You may not be able to tell if a guy is a multimillionaire but you can tell if he at least has disposable income. You need to pretend to have an interest in cars or watches. Many wealthy guys will have a daily driver that just a regular Lexus, Mercedes, BMW but often they have "fun" cars as well. Guys in general love to talk about cars. Get him talking and ask him to bring one of his favorites to your first date. If he shows up with an exotic you at least know he has money to spend. If he's not into cars watches are a great one as well. Tell him that your uncle owns a jewelry store and he got you interested in watches. The same thing, ask him to show off one of his better ones for you. He either shows up with a high-end Rolex, Petek, Hublot (if he's young) etc. and you'll know. This can work for yachts or jets. Just get him talking about what he likes to do and he'll most likely mention that he loves taking his boat out.
    That is not at all the case. Sorry. I am a well to do fellow who has truly rich friends. My paper millionaire tastes run richer than most of the people I know who could buy and sell me hundreds of times over. Trust fund baby and nouveau riche may play that but real money doesn't. When dressing to succeed a $1500+ suit will show signs of being handmade and very well tailored but you need to know what to look for to pick that off. How it drapes will tell you more than what you think the material costs. Shoes will be classic and high end, but not necessarily anything but off the shelf. Watches, if one is worn [fewer and fewer these days] will be expensive, but understated. These aren't rappers. Jewelry will be understated as well. They WON'T talk about their money or what they have purchased with it, and if you try to bring up the subject they will question your motives.

    Money is money... so if what the Lass wants is a baller, the approach you mention. Lots of that money out there. Lots of headaches and drama comes with it, but their money is just as green as anyone else's. If one is looking to operate in the truly rarified air than a different approach than the one you suggest is called for.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Default Re: Sugar Daddy sites...how do you know the men really are wealthy?

    Quote Originally Posted by EastCoastDancer01 View Post
    Stay away from all Sugar Daddy websites, they are the biggest scams! Real sugar daddies dont call themselves sugar daddies! and they dont meet girls online, only losers do that (sorry, its the truth!). Honestly, the best place to meet them is at strip clubs. The best sugar daddy I ever had was a regular of mine at the club I worked at, and he eventually became my SD for almost 2 years. You can also meet them in upscale places, I was friends with a girl who met hers while shopping at a Christian Louboutin store lol.
    When I did that, that is how I did it. I "dated" dancers. "Dated" being defined as longer term, mutually beneficial, relationship that always included sex but that doesn't mean sex was the only part of it and that it happened every time we met. It had to include, for her, money that wasn't paid directly as a certain amount of cash for a certain amount of time... that's hooking, after all. it wasn't a set allowance because that would, again, be purchasing her [though it might have been cheaper for me if it had been]. it was seeing each other a few times a month. Shopping. Cash for 'stuff" [she'd ask and if it seemed reasonable I gave, anything as long as it didn't feel "user-ish"]. Dinners, theater, etc and so forth. It would probably average two grand or a bit more a month. "Can I have help paying off my tuition?" Sure. She also had a "boyfriend" that didn't have any jealousies or issues with her dancing, camming, etc.

    For me they needed to include a friendly, personable, demeanor. Good company. Sex that wasn't superficial but felt like "boyfriend" sex.

    They eventually end. Lives move on. Jobs get found, they fall in love and feel the need for exclusivity with their new life mate [rightfully so]. Yadda-yadda. All were fairly long term though.

    It provides for the illusion that she is not selling sex, and I am not purchasing it. While I can't speak for anyone else I will forthrightly state that while the illusion was nice I knew which end was up and never pretended, to myself, it was anything else. Though it did allow for actual friendships to take place [I am still friends with some of the women I "dated". We talk fairly regularly and I would be there for them, as a friend would, if they needed it but I don't "pay" them anymore. No friend you have to pay is actually a friend.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Default Re: Sugar Daddy sites...how do you know the men really are wealthy?

    Quote Originally Posted by Golden_Rule View Post
    That is not at all the case. Sorry. I am a well to do fellow who has truly rich friends. My paper millionaire tastes run richer than most of the people I know who could buy and sell me hundreds of times over. Trust fund baby and nouveau riche may play that but real money doesn't. When dressing to succeed a $1500+ suit will show signs of being handmade and very well tailored but you need to know what to look for to pick that off. How it drapes will tell you more than what you think the material costs. Shoes will be classic and high end, but not necessarily anything but off the shelf. Watches, if one is worn [fewer and fewer these days] will be expensive, but understated. These aren't rappers. Jewelry will be understated as well. They WON'T talk about their money or what they have purchased with it, and if you try to bring up the subject they will question your motives.

    Money is money... so if what the Lass wants is a baller, the approach you mention. Lots of that money out there. Lots of headaches and drama comes with it, but their money is just as green as anyone else's. If one is looking to operate in the truly rarified air than a different approach than the one you suggest is called for.
    What exactly are you disagreeing with? We both say watches, expensive but understated. Isn't that a Rolex or Hublot? I never mentioned gold chains or crazy diamond encrusted watches. Trying to explain how to spot well made mens suits would be a great separate topic but takes a bit of experience. I agree talking directly about money is a dead giveaway but that was my exact point. You need to talk about hobbies and interests that indirectly indicate it. My point was to be very discrete. What is your suggestion?

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    Default Re: Sugar Daddy sites...how do you know the men really are wealthy?

    Quote Originally Posted by NoRegrets View Post
    What exactly are you disagreeing with? We both say watches, expensive but understated. Isn't that a Rolex or Hublot? I never mentioned gold chains or crazy diamond encrusted watches. Trying to explain how to spot well made mens suits would be a great separate topic but takes a bit of experience. I agree talking directly about money is a dead giveaway but that was my exact point. You need to talk about hobbies and interests that indirectly indicate it. My point was to be very discrete. What is your suggestion?
    Ah, ok... maybe I misread. If so, all apologies.
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Watches (but some men also use fake ones), cufflinks, shoes and HIS CAR(this one you can't fake). I know you can lease a car but usually you need a good deposit for a Bentley or Jaguar. Most wealthy guys drive a Bentley, Jaguar, some Mercedes (latest Model).
    The area he lives in.
    Usually a rich guy isn't desperate for sex, he knows he can buy it and that is why he will not push for it from the beginning.

    There are also some very wealthy guys who keep it low maintenance because they know how greedy people can be if they realize you are rich.
    That is again when you need to look at the car, area he lives in and of course his profession.

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    Default Re: Sugar Daddy sites...how do you know the men really are wealthy?

    Bottom line is that you cannot judge a book by its cover on SD sites. As one poster above stated, a multi-millionaire might have become wealthy by not trying to keep up with the Joneses and living a frugal lifestyle, which is probably not enticing to a "sugar babe." Conversely, a person purporting to be wealthy might be driving a fancy car and live in a huge house, but be buried under debt that his income level simply cannot support, much less a "sugar babe."

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    My experience is that wealthy guys who don't like to show off a little bit, won't spend lots of money on you.
    And yes, we also have the show-offs with lots of depth who don't spend money on you. Happened to me once. But because they love to show off, they will get you to the best places and you will have great experiences with them (this one I actually loved, so I accepted it for a little while). However, a man who doesn't take me shopping and isn't ready to invest in my business etc, can't be my man.
    But then I had a girlfriend who was dating a middle class guy and he spent a fortune on her.
    The main thing is, find a guy you have a serious connection with. Make him fall in love and you will get everything you want. Don't be with anyone you feel disgust for or you don't really like. He will most probably feel it and it creates a bad self image after a while. If you have conscience. I know some girls haven't. Lucky them.

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    Default Re: Sugar Daddy sites...how do you know the men really are wealthy?

    Quote Originally Posted by Guineverevanpierre View Post
    Watches (but some men also use fake ones), cufflinks, shoes and HIS CAR(this one you can't fake). I know you can lease a car but usually you need a good deposit for a Bentley or Jaguar. Most wealthy guys drive a Bentley, Jaguar, some Mercedes (latest Model).
    The area he lives in.
    Usually a rich guy isn't desperate for sex, he knows he can buy it and that is why he will not push for it from the beginning.

    There are also some very wealthy guys who keep it low maintenance because they know how greedy people can be if they realize you are rich.
    That is again when you need to look at the car, area he lives in and of course his profession.
    Most of the wealthy guys I know wouldn't hang at an average strip-club on bet. Rich guys and well to do guys, sure. That's different than wealthy, which I categorize as having reached a point where one doesn't work for their money anymore, their money works for them. That doesn't mean they don't clock some serious hours managing projects they are doing with that money.

    As for what they drive, most of them don't drive. They have high end town cars and the occasional stretch conversion, though many have switched to luxury SUV cross overs for day-to-day. Outside it looks like any other crossover but t's customized inside and there is a driver. I'm a retired police detective and lots of my retired buddies make some real good coin driving these guys around. They like their drivers armed and having a retired cop on the payroll. They don't need it, it's a status thing. Though I prefer to work for myself and haven't gone this route, I've had offers. I have had them as P.I. clients though. I've done some dust busting. Cleaning up after some of these guys is no picnic. {LOL}
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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Default Re: Sugar Daddy sites...how do you know the men really are wealthy?

    Quote Originally Posted by Golden_Rule View Post
    As for what they drive, most of them don't drive. They have high end town cars and the occasional stretch conversion, though many have switched to luxury SUV cross overs for day-to-day. Outside it looks like any other crossover but t's customized inside and there is a driver. I'm a retired police detective and lots of my retired buddies make some real good coin driving these guys around. They like their drivers armed and having a retired cop on the payroll. They don't need it, it's a status thing. Though I prefer to work for myself and haven't gone this route, I've had offers. I have had them as P.I. clients though. I've done some dust busting. Cleaning up after some of these guys is no picnic. {LOL}
    The great advantage of being very wealthy is that you do what you enjoy. Most of the wealthy people I know drive their own cars. Some have drivers, especially in large cities like NYC. Bill Gates likes his Porche collection if I remember. So if you like cars, you can have a collection. If you hate driving you have a driver. I know a guy that hates his 40 minute commute so he built a helipad on his property. His neighbors are very unhappy because his helicopter wakes them up every morning.

    I'm not sure about having security being a status thing. It's necessary sometimes depending on who you are. There was a period a while ago when everyone was buying private islands. That was driven by status. There are still people that try to build mega-yachts and outdo each other.

    Golden_Rule, I have a friend that also runs a company that does private security. He's doing really well. If you like working for yourself and you have experience, it would be something to think about.

    To get back to the thread topic. I think that finding someone truly wealthy on a website may be tough. I don't think they would last long on a website. What I've started seeing is women building some type of fame on Instagram or other social media sites and using that to get the attention of wealthy men.

    I still think it's best to find someone offline. One great place to meet wealthy people is at private airports. For example, if you can get part-time work at an FBO, you'd be meeting very wealthy people all day. And you could get paid to do it.

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    Default Re: Sugar Daddy sites...how do you know the men really are wealthy?

    A past sugar daddy I met via the erotic section on CL worked out very well. So I decided to make another go of it via SA. I stand out a bit because I'm 40+, and so far I've had some good responses which has resulted in one meeting, a dinner date. We'll give it a go at least once, and at 2k a meeting, even if once a month, I'm hoping it goes well, but who knows. I may pursue more in case this first one doesn't work out. I've heard some sugar daddies say they've met previous ones not always through SA, but the country club, (one was a stewardess) gym, social circle. But I still think the virtual way is best especially depending on where you live, and as it is in my case, I work from home, so I don't have the opportunity to hob nob with jet setters.
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