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    Default Am I paranoid? Abusive cam 'customers' gone wild!

    And I use the word 'customer' loosely. It seems like when I work there is always an abusive cam customer. Fine, we all get them I know. However, for the last few days I get you're ugly, kill yourself. You're old, kill yourself. You're fat- yadda yadda yadda. I feel that this is a tad overboard and I ban them. The same old insults different username. Can it be the same person under a different name? Am I going nutters? I'm interested in reading what experiences other ladies have had.

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    I get it every time I log in. Some people are just giant douches. I just ignore them and don't even bother banning or silencing them most of the time because that is just giving them attention.

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    Default Re: Am I paranoid? Abusive cam 'customers' gone wild!

    Yes, its the same pathetic ass guy coming in to your room with the hopes of getting a quick nut off to his humiliation fetish. If you can just silence him, that way no reads his shit but he doesn't know know so he'll stop creating new profiles but if you don't mind it that is, just tell you only cater to humiliation request in exclusive or blocked,etc then click ban. It seems you are the main focus of his shit filled life so ever time he creates a new profile, just keep reminding him only it private and click ban. Dont feed any negativity into his comments, don't try to verbally bash him because he enjoy it, whether its to laugh, give himself an ego boost or cum don't give him a free service.
    I would not advise to ignore and just do nothing, if some one is fixated on you enough to take the time to create new profiles when you ban them, they will sit there for how much of time bashing u to get a reaction. Dont feed in to the one he wants.

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    Default Re: Am I paranoid? Abusive cam 'customers' gone wild!

    Say nothing & block every time he does this. More than likely it is one guy who is fascinated with you.

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    Default Re: Am I paranoid? Abusive cam 'customers' gone wild!

    Actually, sounds like a troll to me, them trolls say kill yourself all the time, it's like their signature saying. Yea ban and say nothing.

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    foxxy, I don't see how your "porn" experience being different from someone else's has anything to do with anyone but YOU. It has no impact on the respect (or lack of respect) your customers show you on cam. I've watched some porn stars on SM, some famous ones, and those customers sometimes treat them like crap. They beg for freebies, they say stupid stuff. No one is immune.

    You probably do have one customer who has fun trying to make you upset. Anyone can attract trolls. Even on SM, customers can have multiple accounts. I had one guy a long time ago who I had to ban five times because he kept opening one account after another to troll my free chat. He probably gave up when he ran out of new credit cards to open accounts with. I never said a single word to this guy. Just banned every time I saw a new account with the same name (he was stupid enough to use the same name, so the last three times he didn't even get the chance to say anything to me). I had learned my lesson from other customers. Ex: I had a customer who had a message pre-typed and for over an hour he popped in and out of my free chat pasting in the same digusting, hateful, stupid message over and over. I finally banned him & never heard from him again. But I bet he had fun watching me struggle to ban him & getting pissed about it. Once I realized that was his goal, I stopped reacting to the trolls.

    So what people are saying is, just ban them & don't worry about it. You're going to get people like that all the time. They mean NOTHING to you. They're not going to spend; they're only there to suck you of energy and emotion. If you don't let them, then you win... regardless of how many times they come back. Accept the trolls as a part of this job & it won't bother you anymore.

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    If they aren't spending and being abusive, they're just ghost to me... I just continue to smile and act happy while I silently ban them without them knowing I'm coming for em...don't give these assholes any power





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    I see no reason to allow this in my free chat room. If they are paying my high per minute rate that's a different story. If they annoy a little too much though I even ban them from paid chat.

    I vote for the silent ban. Quick, easy, done!


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    HAHAHA you should spend some time in my room doll...LOL.. I am heavily trolled all the time for over a year!..LOL.. but yea.. saying nothing is the best they even get bored with ME!...

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    I've never really hung out in someone's chat long enough to witness trolling, but I do follow some porn stars on tumblr. They get the worst trolls there on a regular basis. I've been kind of shocked at how hateful these people can be to someone they have never met. Crazy people are crazy. I say let your haters be your motivators. The best revenge is living well. All that jazz. Why get mad or upset over some loser on the internet, who has nothing better to do than try to piss off strangers? He/she is probably a really weak person, who's trying to feel strong for a moment.

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    First of all?? it's not about YOU, it's about THEM... Something is wrong with them to come to your room and attack an innocent person for NO reason.

    Quote Originally Posted by foxxyredd33 View Post
    You're exactly right and I deleted the post, thank you for pointing this out. I guess what I can't wrap my head around is why someone would go out of their way to abuse someone who is trying to support themselves and family. I feel so frustrated.

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