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    Dizzy Escorts: kissing/DATY?

    Hi ladies,
    I'm wondering if you allow kissing or DATY with clients and if so, how do you go about it safely to prevent STD's? I know kissing is pretty basic - not much you can do to prevent STD's in that regard except abstaining from deep french etc but DATY has me stumped. 99% of clients want to do it and I'm getting increasingly paranoid about catching anything. I know dental dams are made for this - does anyone use them? Are clients weirded out? Or do you not allow them to go down on you at all (I would prefer this, esp since I'm not into oral with someone I don't actually like) ... do they expect to be able to do it? Thanks for any input!

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    It's your body - set your own boundaries and only provide what feels comfortable to you - you cant be everything for everybody and you will burn out quick trying to -

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    Default Re: Escorts: kissing/DATY?

    Nikki really kind of summed it up. Most guys who want the type of services you are asking about look for ladies who promote themselves as GFE, since those acros pretty much are industry standard for that. But its your body, you set the boundaries to do what your comfortable with. If youre stressing over the risks, then its better not to do it at all cause its going to affect your overall vibe with him which would be worse.
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    Default Re: Escorts: kissing/DATY?

    I'm not in escort industry but I do know that the risk of stds is lower - but still possible - when there are no active outbreaks, lesions, bumps, etc.

    I'm a little paranoid when I kiss a guy im dating and first look for cold sores or bumps around the mouth. If I see ANYTHING on or near the mouth, I'm steering clear and won't allow kissing on the mouth and definitely not on my p*ssy.

    This is why I don't kiss in the club. It's too damn dark to see whats on a customers mouth/lips so I say no to all requests for a kiss.

    I've been fortunate in allowing unprotected oral in my past relationships but now that Im more mature and know the risks I'd totally give dental dams a try. It's easier to relax and enjoy when you are confident you'll be free from sti afterwards.

    But like the others said its your body. Keep in mind your future and the risks and do what makes you comfortable.

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    Thanks ladies... going to mull it over.

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    Hello no! I personally do not allow kissing of any sort or DATY. I honestly feel like guys use the whole DATY thing to take even longer and stretch out their time so hell no. But as other have mentioned you do what you feel comfortable with however a word of the wise. I wouldn't trust any of these guys with either of these acts I mean think about it if he wants to do it with you imagine all the other escorts he has done this with.

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    Default Re: Escorts: kissing/DATY?

    Uncovered DATY has risks, just a bit too much for me. On the other hand, I have a friend who does DATY and anilingus in many of his paid sessions, and claims not to have ever caught anything; course, we'll see if he gets neck cancer in 20 years.

    From reading client boards, I'd say the vast majority of guys who want DATY will only do it uncovered, and are quite passionate about that point ("quite passionate" is an understatement here). Or, to amend myself, the kind of guys who post on messge boards feel that way -- but people who post on forums don't always represent the group as a whole. Having done covered DATY, I understand why -- you miss out on the texture, taste, and scent, and you also wonder whether she's feeling any sensation. The women claim they can feel and enjoy the sensation through the dental dam, but who knows, right? I enjoy covered DATY in the context of a bdsm/fbdsm session, where even if I miss out on the texture/taste, the important thing is the symbolic service. I save uncovered DATY for my personal life.

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    Astarisborn, I use dental dams. Yes, many clients prefer uncovered, but keep in mind even without visible sores there could be asymptomatic shedding. HSV 1 can be transferred from mouth to genitals and vice-versa with HSV 2. It's incurable. There's also throat gonorrhea, etc. One calculated risk I take is kissing, this is mitigated by safe everything else.

    You have to decide what's comfortable and safe for you and hold your ground. Many clients will try to push your boundaries. Dental dams take some fumbling to unfold so have a few ready to go in a sealed bag. Some clients will balk, some will do it with the dam. Just be careful of the ones that try and push it aside, hold it in place yourself.

    Radius, you're one of the rare few who understands the importance of safety. Wish there were more clients like you.
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