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    Default Long Time Regulars Who Want To 'Know' You

    For those of you who have had long time regulars, do you ever let them get to know you or do you keep your guard up no matter how long they have been coming in? I don't mean giving them your address/ phone number, but do you start leaking little bits and pieces out to them once you feel that you can trust them? When I danced, I never did this and a couple of my regulars got really pissed and eventually couldn't deal because they didn't understand why I couldn't trust them to tell me who I 'really was' if that makes sense.

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    I haven't had really long-term regulars because I find them really taxing (mostly because of what you mention.) But I think the best way to deal with these types is to just have an elaborate back story. One guy keeps coming in and obsesses about me "needing" to tell him one fact about myself every time he pays me. He goes through letters trying to guess my name and calendar days trying to guess my birthday. I'm like, "Uh, my favorite color is grey!" but apparently that's not social security number level good enough for him. I really resent it, and it makes me hate him and guys like him.

    Otherwise, most customers who get really into me stop seeing me pretty quickly because they are "too in love" with me to only see me in a strip club setting, so I guess I am doing something wrong there. Regulars can be so awful.

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    Default Re: Long Time Regulars Who Want To 'Know' You

    I really think this is one of tHose jobs where you need to 'let a lie based on fact be the truth.' Honestly I've nvr had much problem w/ this b/c once sm1 starts w/ the 'What's your REAL name?!' bullcrap, I deadpan 'Alphanumeric Calculator.' That tends to quickly weed out those pesky too-interested types.

    If they hound you, my polite recommendation would be a cutesy 'Oh come on now, you know I could just tell you any [insert relevant info], you wouldn't believe me anyway!' My less-polite recommendation would be a firm 'If you had any business knowing that, you wouldn't be asking, b/c I would have told you already.'

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