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Last edited by dancingdiva1; 08-12-2014 at 11:06 AM. Reason: Privacy





Well..you may not want to but..depending on how critical your $ sitch is, you may want to start back working @ the club, or do something cam, idk It does sound like you're not going to get him back anytime soon
Line up another SD?
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt





Yeah well, so's he, most likely. The thing is, it sounds like you can't/shouldn't really depend on him though so..up to you.
MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP
-Eartha Kitt





Idk, but all good things come to an end and he may be under the microscope for a long time. IMHO you should assume that the money could dry up at any time and plan accordingly.
While you are waiting to see how this shakes out, why not play both angles? If he's laying low, then its not like he can monitor everything you do anyway. Why not start back up at the club, perhaps part time, while you see what happens with him? If he works it out then great. If not, then you'll already have another source of income in place that you can ramp up as needed.
Anyway, just myand good luck.





lesson #1 - never put all your eggs in one basket #2 they all have an expiration date - cultivate others while you are with this one - have you met any of his friends? - rich men usually have rich friends#3 use his abandonment of you to get more money / stuff
#4 once the wife knows it is never good





good luck - stay positive
Better watch your back too, wives can get psycho on you if they do enough digging she could find out who you are especially if he sees you again. Maybe help him or your next sd to hide it better from wives, like correct him when hes slipping and make suggestions to him so he wont get caught in the first place.





This. Though in all honesty it is nearly impossible for most guys to keep something like this hidden forever. It is very hard to maintain heightened vigilance all the time and all it takes is one slip. I am fortunate in that I own my own business, which means that I have separate bank accounts, credit cards, computers, phones, email, mailing/billing addresses, etc., which makes it much easier to keep things away from the home front. But most guys who play around don't have completely separate operations to work from, so the wives who are motivated enough to start digging can usually find unusual financial activity, telephone calls, or other evidence of outside activities.
^^This is why it may be helpful to have a smarter SB, so she can watch your back if you slip. Would it turn guys off if the SB brings up how to hide things better from the wife?? Like if hes not asking for your advice on hiding things and she sees a potential slip and brings it up on her own..
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