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    Default Ever un-retire for one night?

    Had anyone ever fully retired from dancing ever go back for one day (or night) for a high roller regular? I'm fully retired from dancing and one of my twice-a-year high rollers is in town for 2 weeks only and wants to meet up. He's totally polite, doesn't do anything he shouldn't, nice to chat with/look at and he tips well.
    The money would be nice, however I still feel myself debating going back, even if for a night. I have a much shorter haircut than when he saw me last, I lost some muscle definition (I'm 5'2 and was 113 but now 118-119), and no longer own my dancing shoes. I also just feel iffy going back into an environment I worked so hard to get out of.
    i don't know what to think. :/

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    Default Re: Ever un-retire for one night?

    I've never done OTC so I might sound dumb suggesting this, and I don't know your personal policy on it... but do you think he'd go for paying for your time outside of the club in an environment you felt more comfortable with?

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    Default Re: Ever un-retire for one night?

    It sounds like you're not too keen on going back despite this dude being a high-roller. If you don't need the money, I'd just consider that chapter of your life to be closed.

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    Default Re: Ever un-retire for one night?

    I'd probably do it but I'm kind of in a fund raising phase right now for a couple projects.
    If he would be up for paying you for a dinner out, it might be a nice option.

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    Default Re: Ever un-retire for one night?

    I'm really not okay with going back into the club. I feel like my dancer life is behind me, and going back would feel like taking a step back. I have seen people outside of work before (strictly for non-sexual meet ups; like getting paid to go to lunch or dinner, or being taken shopping at a larger mall). However I'm not sure this customer will go for it. I am financially stable, but an extra $900-$1100 bucks makes me debate it, cause who wouldn't want that kinda money. That's a nice amount I could put towards a new car or pay off my last credit card. I'm probably gonna email him asking if he would be okay with paying to do lunch. If he says yes than woo hoo! If not then at least I asked.

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    Default Re: Ever un-retire for one night?

    I feel the same as you. Love that I don't need the club anymore. There are occasional times I go back to the club though. The manager calls me when a big event is happening if girls call out. But I make 1/2 of what I used to make because I just can''t get back into it. I always joke around and ask my regular, "Why did you leave your gun home?" He answers, "Because I know you would ask me to shoot you and put you out of your misery." I haven't been back in almost 2 months because it makes me so crappy. I always hope the spark will be there when I fill in, but it hasn't yet.

    I hope your custy will agree to lunch or something. Trust me, you'll be miserable if you go in and don't want to be there.

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    Default Re: Ever un-retire for one night?

    i'd probably do it.
    Last edited by yinyang; 05-24-2014 at 02:28 AM.

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