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    hey! i know about pref411, eros, ter and backpages [i dont use them, i look for a different type of client]. does anyone know of any other places to advertise? im especially trying to build an outcall, businessman type of clientelle. im based in boston as well if that helps!

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    Best advice I can give is to do a google search for "boston escorts" or "escort in boston" or whatever....think like a potential client, what he woudl put into google to try and find someone, and then check out the places that come up.

    Ive been hearing a lot from the Boston ladies that things have slowed down, but its not just there, its everywhere...Things are painfull slow here in SoFla...and Im not even one of those who whine about how slow things are lol but really, over the past 2 months Ive noticed a very distinct shift in business and it seems a lot of women are feeling it,more so than how it usually is this time of year.

    Oh but anyway, dont completely rule out Backpage. Some of my best / most amazing clients have come from there. As long as you present yourself right, you will appeal to the type of guy you want. Generally, I get *very* few wierdos...I think my rates and presentation intimidate them, they already figure Im not down with any nonsense. Also, not sure how old youare, but Im in my mid 30's, which tends to catch the eye of the older professional types....in a sea of 20-somethings, I stand out.
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    thank you so much! i'm pretty new so everything is helpful for me. maybe i will link myself on backpage once i get my screening down pat. do you use any verification besides pref411 and verifyhim? i'm debating on hiring a booker but id rather not especially if it isnt going to be that busy yet. again thanks! its hard to find anyone around here that is really helpful and not hurtful, boston not sw that is!

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    You're very welcome! And dont worry, ladies arent really that bad in this industry, just very guarded...for very good reason! Once you get more established and can be trusted, then you'll find that developing a local network of ladies will come easier. And on that note! Cant really share specifics of how I screen, but for basics, VH is my first stop, I google every bit of information I find to make sure everything is consistent, and also I require references. Personally, I think its better to learn how to screen on your own, at least at first before getting a booker, that way you know know whether or not their screening process is up to a standard you are comfortable with.
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    i'm 25. my old agency wanted me to present as younger. but seeing your advice i think being honest about it makes more sense. plus i always caught myself up in talking about experiences, such as prior career, although short haha, that didn't make sense with having just graduated. i am terrible at dishonesty. :\

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    Have you considered meet and greets? Boston and New England have several this fall.
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    I suck at it too....I think about how Ive said little things, like my time in the military, the places Ive traveled, even just taking about stuff that would be before my time if I lied about my age like music, culture, etc... I would have busted myself out on my age immediately had I lied about it LOl

    besides, I like to say, Id rather be a really hot woman in my 30's than an average looking woman in my 20's. Its a big ol stroke to the ego when guys cant believe Im my age because I look so much younger. If I lied about my age, no one woudl say that LOL
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    Quote Originally Posted by CFMNH44 View Post
    Have you considered meet and greets? Boston and New England have several this fall.
    Don't go to a meet and greet.

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    especially being so new

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    Meet and greets are DEFINITELY not the business travelers. It's more like: a client will pick you up for FREE and take you to a meet and greet so you can be surrounded by all of the guys on TER that want to know who does "insert desired sexual acryonym"s....ounds a little creepy crawly to me to take an evening off work..when you could be making real money... to go to a meet and greet and sit in a hotel bar filled with a bunch of TER dudes?
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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetPinkCupcake View Post
    Meet and greets are DEFINITELY not the business travelers. It's more like: a client will pick you up for FREE and take you to a meet and greet so you can be surrounded by all of the guys on TER that want to know who does "insert desired sexual acryonym"s....ounds a little creepy crawly to me to take an evening off work..when you could be making real money... to go to a meet and greet and sit in a hotel bar filled with a bunch of TER dudes?
    When you put it like that? LOL Sounded like a good suggestion at first.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetPinkCupcake View Post
    Meet and greets are DEFINITELY not the business travelers. It's more like: a client will pick you up for FREE and take you to a meet and greet so you can be surrounded by all of the guys on TER that want to know who does "insert desired sexual acryonym"s....ounds a little creepy crawly to me to take an evening off work..when you could be making real money... to go to a meet and greet and sit in a hotel bar filled with a bunch of TER dudes?
    Word!!!

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    Hahahaha! Yea I don't need those kind of clients thats for sure. I appreciate the suggestion though! I just provide upscale incalls at residence so the less creepy the better!

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    It sounds like you've had a bad experience at a M&G, but I noticed the the negative comments were coming from posters on the West Coast. The OP indicated she was East Coast and I personally know a number of ladies that attend M&Gs here and repeat. I doubt they'd attend again if they were anything like what you describe. They are organized by ladies, BTW, in upscale locations. Just a cocktail party, newbies and experienced ladies. I'm a dude, so I'll shut up now, but if the OP wants to PM me for more info or the organizer's email, I'll happily give it.


    Quote Originally Posted by SweetPinkCupcake View Post
    Meet and greets are DEFINITELY not the business travelers. It's more like: a client will pick you up for FREE and take you to a meet and greet so you can be surrounded by all of the guys on TER that want to know who does "insert desired sexual acryonym"s....ounds a little creepy crawly to me to take an evening off work..when you could be making real money... to go to a meet and greet and sit in a hotel bar filled with a bunch of TER dudes?
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    Quote Originally Posted by CFMNH44 View Post
    It sounds like you've had a bad experience at a M&G, but I noticed the the negative comments were coming from posters on the West Coast. The OP indicated she was East Coast and I personally know a number of ladies that attend M&Gs here and repeat. I doubt they'd attend again if they were anything like what you describe. They are organized by ladies, BTW, in upscale locations. Just a cocktail party, newbies and experienced ladies. I'm a dude, so I'll shut up now, but if the OP wants to PM me for more info or the organizer's email, I'll happily give it.
    I don't want to out anyone's identity but one of the other ladies who commented is originally from the East Coast and the other is not on the West Coast.

    At the end of the day, TER losers are the same on any coast. Meet and Greets have also been busted on quite a few occasions. Stay safe.
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    ^ yup - do a search on this forum and you will find info on a highly publicized bust that was discussed here - and it was on the east coast

    you can make it without a M&G

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