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    Dizzy Need some MAJOR advice♥

    Hey guys,
    Newbie here..so here in the next couple of weeks I plan on auditioning at some clubs because I can NOT find a job anywhere and I'm running out of options for money! I've been practicing my dances and everything but I have no pole to practice any of that stuff on. I'm honestly worried I'm not attractive enough and I weigh to much..I'm 5"3 and currently at 137 pounds. The only good thing I can see about my body is my breast size. I'm naturally a C/D cup bra...

    What tips can you give to a newbie literally just starting out (as many as you can think of please!!!)?
    How much could a newbie expect on their first night?
    Where is YOUR average income (a night,week,whatever!)?
    What songs would you recommend to dance to? [I generally like anything except for rap and country((No offense just not my style!))]
    What should a newbie wear on her first night?

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    Default Re: Need some MAJOR advice♥

    Search around this site for all the answers to your questions.

    About your body, remember: Everyone likes something different! You should probably start at a dive or a low-tier club until you work on your hustle and lose maybe 20lbs, then start moving on up!

    Good luck, sweetheart!

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    Default Re: Need some MAJOR advice♥

    Like Tsempet suggested, search the site. You don't even have to look far to find the answers - all your questions are answered in the first few threads stickied at the top of the section you posted this in. You're not the first girl to have all these questions, don't worry!

    Another dancer's average income doesn't matter to you and this business is too unpredictable to ever guess how much you or anyone else will make. Just go in and hustle your hardest.

    But seriously - everything already answered here. Good luck!

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    Default Re: Need some MAJOR advice♥

    Dancers are all different, they come in all shapes and sizes. You don't have to look like Barbie to strip.

    As for naturally big breasts, they would be a great asset.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xxvanity View Post
    Hey guys,
    Newbie here..so here in the next couple of weeks I plan on auditioning at some clubs because I can NOT find a job anywhere and I'm running out of options for money! I've been practicing my dances and everything but I have no pole to practice any of that stuff on. I'm honestly worried I'm not attractive enough and I weigh to much..I'm 5"3 and currently at 137 pounds. The only good thing I can see about my body is my breast size. I'm naturally a C/D cup bra...

    What tips can you give to a newbie literally just starting out (as many as you can think of please!!!)?
    How much could a newbie expect on their first night?
    Where is YOUR average income (a night,week,whatever!)?
    What songs would you recommend to dance to? [I generally like anything except for rap and country((No offense just not my style!))]
    What should a newbie wear on her first night?
    I remember being in your shoes once.

    When first starting out, I recommend trying a smaller place, preferably a place where house fees are low and where some of your money comes from stage. I originally started out in a bigger place and I found it overwhelming and went to a dive shortly after that. That way it will be smaller, less things going on, and the hustle environment is usually lower than upscale clubs. That way you can slowly work on your hustle while learning the ropes. Sometimes girls are friendlier in dives and it can be less cut throat. Rules are generally pretty lax, like if it's a type of bikini/topless bar they will probably give less of a shit about your hair/makeup/outfit looks so you won't initially have to spend a lot of money on things like expensive stripper dresses/gowns. Which leads me to...

    Don't spend a lot on stripper clothes right away in case you don't like stripping. I suggest buying one or two bikinis, a couple of matching thongs (and a black one in case it's that time of the month), a garter, and a pair of 5-6 inch clear heels.

    When you go to audition, go there with your makeup done and your hair down (or with your wig if you're into that). Also bring a combination lock and super glue (you want to lock your stuff up and you will need super glue just in case the rubber part of heel's sole starts peeling off). Also bring baby wipes. They usually tell you to change and will put you up on stage for a song or two. Sometimes they just tell you to change and just inspect you.

    NO baby oil or any oil at all! Don't wear this stuff before working and don't put it on at work. This will automatically make the girls hate you if they find out you've been wearing it because when you go on stage and touch stuff, that oil is going to rub off and the next girl who goes up will feel a slippery stage/pole.

    Your first night you probably won't make a lot of money. Maybe ~$100. It really depends. It could be a bad night where you make almost no money and then try again the next day, or it could be pretty good and you could walk out with a nice chunk of change. Most of the girls I have talked to said when they first started out, their very first night averaged a little more or above $100.

    As for music, I don't know. I usually tell the DJ to play whatever if they give me an option. Some might not and will just play the usual pop/house. It really depends on the club. Urban clubs will have rap/reggaeton etc. Non urban usually plays the typical pop/club music.

    I wouldn't sweat not knowing how to work the pole in the beginning. When you go up, just move slowly. No jerky movements. Run your hands slowly up and down your body. It's good to make eye contact and smile. I was pretty shy for a long time so I didn't do this initially until I got more used to dancing. Point your toes while walking around the stage.

    Girls probably aren't going to open up to you until they get used to you for a while, don't take it personally if they ignore you. Let them open up to you. If the girls are friendly enough and if it's slow, then they could probably try to teach you some pole moves.

    Your natural breasts are good to have, a lot of guys love that. I have big natural boobs too and guys always say stuff like "Wow, I can tell yours are real, I don't like fake ones, blablabla."

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    Default Re: Need some MAJOR advice♥

    What tips can you give to a newbie literally just starting out (as many as you can think of please!!!)?
    Bring your OWN stuff (wipies, undies, shoes, mouthwash, toothpaste etc) Don't ask to borrow someone else's. Which brings me to my next point: Don't try to make friends within your first five minutes. The vets don't give a fuck about you and you shouldn't give a fuck about them. Don't be rude but keep to yourself. Keep your mouth shut and eyes open. Don't bring your bf/husband/girlfriend/ whatever in to your job. Cut your tampon string or tuck it. Don't wear church shoes.
    How much could a newbie expect on their first night?
    You could make $2 you could make $2000. Who fucking knows? You're a novelty. Enjoy it while it lasts
    Where is YOUR average income (a night,week,whatever!)?
    Depends on how lazy I am and how many bills I have.
    What songs would you recommend to dance to? [I generally like anything except for rap and country((No offense just not my style!))]
    What should a newbie wear on her first night?

    Any song that you're comfortable dancing to. Just wear what is legal in your area and what you can afford.

    I don't know how your weight is distributed but I will tell you right now that upscale clubs generally like them skinny and if not skinny then toned. Based on your assessment that the only good thing about you is your boobs that tells me that you are not happy with your body. Again with pics it's hard to say. If you are unhappy lose some weight.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
    Tempest

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