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    I know I know... but I'm bored and you probably are too. My intention isn't to convince SW to believe this dancer fell head over heels for me, because to be honest, I don't even remember what she looks like. Frankly, it doesn't matter much because I'm not looking to date a woman who is older than me and has a kid. Forgive me for the fragmented sentences, I'm trying not to write a novel here.

    I visited the SC after a night of drinking. Dancer joins me, we talk and drink for what seems like hours. Eventually, I'm inebriated and suggest we go dance. A couple songs in and we're making out. Keep in mind, this is a club that serves alcohol and isn't known for "extras." Suddenly, she jumps up and apologizes, says she normally doesn't do this. She sits up for a minute, acts embarrassed, compliments me, then we continue making out. After we finish dancing, she asks for my number. Later that night, she texts me and suggests we should hang out tomorrow.


    Okay, I lied earlier... maybe I do care what your thoughts are. I wouldn't mind a FWB situation or simply just friends. Thoughts?

    If in fact I got hustled... kudos to her! Sure as hell fooled me!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kawized View Post
    I know I know... but I'm bored and you probably are too. My intention isn't to convince SW to believe this dancer fell head over heels for me, because to be honest, I don't even remember what she looks like. Frankly, it doesn't matter much because I'm not looking to date a woman who is older than me and has a kid. Forgive me for the fragmented sentences, I'm trying not to write a novel here.

    I visited the SC after a night of drinking. Dancer joins me, we talk and drink for what seems like hours. Eventually, I'm inebriated and suggest we go dance. A couple songs in and we're making out. Keep in mind, this is a club that serves alcohol and isn't known for "extras." Suddenly, she jumps up and apologizes, says she normally doesn't do this. She sits up for a minute, acts embarrassed, compliments me, then we continue making out. After we finish dancing, she asks for my number. Later that night, she texts me and suggests we should hang out tomorrow.


    Okay, I lied earlier... maybe I do care what your thoughts are. I wouldn't mind a FWB situation or simply just friends. Thoughts?

    If in fact I got hustled... kudos to her! Sure as hell fooled me!
    This is easy just reply to her text with a place (not the strip club) and time for the two of you to hang out and see if she actually follows through.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kawized View Post
    I'm inebriated and suggest we go dance. A couple songs in and we're making out. Keep in mind, this is a club that serves alcohol and isn't known for "extras." Suddenly, she jumps up and apologizes, says she normally doesn't do this. She sits up for a minute, acts embarrassed, compliments me, then we continue making out. After we finish dancing, she asks for my number. Later that night, she texts me and suggests we should hang out tomorrow.
    When a dancer says she normally doesn't do something it means she does it all the time and with any guy who is willing to buy more than one dance. If I listed all of the things that dancers have done to me over the years that they "don't do with every customer" we'd be reading here for a few hours.

    Thoughts? Unless you go visit her a the club and bring more money you will never see or speak to her her again...

    FWB? After one visit to a strip club?
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    Reminds of of the month one of my dancer friends turned 21. We're sitting at a table trying to get a couple of guys to go in back. All of a sudden she starts making out with her guy. "What are you doing?"I yell as a go to pull her off him. She replies, "I do this all the time!" No, she was wasted. So I dragged her to the DR to yell at her some more and lecture her about drinking too much in our line of work.

    If "she normally doesn't do this" she would have apologized and quit it or ran to the DR. By "hang out" she means at the club. She's either an idiot, or has her extras game down. Either way it's all to get more money out of you.

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    Agree with safado, this one is easy. There's no way to know what's going through her head just based on what you've described, but if you text her back suggesting somewhere outside the club, and she not only shows up but doesn't charge you for it, then there you go -- that's an indicator. Anything else -- she "forgot" she was working and needs to meet you in the club, she charges you for meeting outside the club, etc. -- that's a different indicator.

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    Well... if it was a part of her hustle, again kudos to her because the look of embarrassment seriously had me fooled. On the other hand, if it is a part of her hustle, it's probably not the best club to be doing so.
    You're probably right, it's foolish of me to jump to these conclusions after only 1 visit. I've had my share of luck with OTC and FWB relationships, but never after one visit. But to defend myself, just a little bit, I've got enough things going my way that wouldn't make this scenario so unbelievable. Young, decent looking, clean, above average size, 6 figures, own some toys (motorcycles, cars). Also, she's the one who stopped dancing and asked for my number, I imagine it'd make more sense to make as much money as possible ITC first.

    I just read rickdugan's "what is her game" thread and to be honest, I haven't ever encountered an OTC hustle so the thought never crossed my mind. If that is her end game, that's fine and something I might be willing to entertain. Either way, safado is right, there's only one way to find out for sure. At least I won't be a complete fool if it's an OTC hustle, at rickdugan's expense. Thanks ladies and gents.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kawized View Post
    I've had my share of luck with OTC and FWB relationships, but never after one visit. But to defend myself, just a little bit, I've got enough things going my way that wouldn't make this scenario so unbelievable. Young, decent looking, clean, above average size, 6 figures, own some toys (motorcycles, cars).
    Of course, it all makes sense now...
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    Whether it's a customer or a dancer, everybody comes to the SC for smtg. Great to hear you've got all these things going for you but ffs quit overthinking shit.

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    A couple of quick thoughts:

    1) OP- check ribbon color setting. Presently pink (meaning you're female). You might want to go to profile CP, and change it to blue.(male)

    2) Where is the link to 3 Stooges clover picking scene of "she loves me, she loves me not" when you need it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by minnow View Post
    A couple of quick thoughts:

    1) OP- check ribbon color setting. Presently pink (meaning you're female). You might want to go to profile CP, and change it to blue.(male)
    Actually he can't do that. Neither can I. My hunch is that he blew his load with his last post but if he sticks around I'll contact the admin about changing his ribbon...
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    You know, there is a very small chance that a stripper likes a customer enough to have a relationship OTC. But, it happens. I read it on this very board that a stripper dated a customer, or vice versa. A friend of mine just met a stripper who has plans to hangout with OTC. And no, I dont mean to go find a place to handle business either. But forever reason, when someone posts a thread like this on it...the idea that a stripper might actually like or have feelings for a customer is squashed like a bad habit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Actually he can't do that. Neither can I. My hunch is that he blew his load with his last post but if he sticks around I'll contact the admin about changing his ribbon...


    Quote Originally Posted by Barney Stinson View Post
    You know, there is a very small chance that a stripper likes a customer enough to have a relationship OTC. But, it happens. I read it on this very board that a stripper dated a customer, or vice versa. A friend of mine just met a stripper who has plans to hangout with OTC. And no, I dont mean to go find a place to handle business either. But forever reason, when someone posts a thread like this on it...the idea that a stripper might actually like or have feelings for a customer is squashed like a bad habit.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Barney Stinson View Post
    You know, there is a very small chance that a stripper likes a customer enough to have a relationship OTC. But, it happens. I read it on this very board that a stripper dated a customer, or vice versa. A friend of mine just met a stripper who has plans to hangout with OTC. And no, I dont mean to go find a place to handle business either. But forever reason, when someone posts a thread like this on it...the idea that a stripper might actually like or have feelings for a customer is squashed like a bad habit.
    LMAO! So you're the one who never gives up hope, huh?

    Well first of all, I don't think we were totally dismissing the idea that the stripper may be interested...like you said, there's a very SMALL chance WHICH WAS SAID IN THE REPLIES. It was CLEARLY stated that if the dancer meets up with you outside the club without charging or etc, then she might be interested..... I have no idea where we "squashed like a bad habit."

    Second, we tell it as it is...this is not some Strip Club Fantasy Website Land where we tell only sweet stories about happily ever afters...you asked, and we tell it. We tell the Good and we tell the bad. This is the place where you will get what you asked for, otherwise what is the point of asking?

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    LMAO! So you're the one who never gives up hope, huh?

    Nope. Not at all I know better. Like I said I have read it on here from other ppl. Slim chance BUT it does happen.

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    Thanks for the reply. You made my point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Barney Stinson View Post
    Nope. Not at all I know better. Like I said I have read it on here from other ppl. Slim chance BUT it does happen.
    Yes, it does happen from time to time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Barney Stinson View Post
    You know, there is a very small chance that a stripper likes a customer enough to have a relationship OTC. But, it happens. I read it on this very board that a stripper dated a customer, or vice versa. A friend of mine just met a stripper who has plans to hangout with OTC. And no, I dont mean to go find a place to handle business either. But forever reason, when someone posts a thread like this on it...the idea that a stripper might actually like or have feelings for a customer is squashed like a bad habit.
    Well, there are very few absolutes in life and it is certainly possible that a dancer and a customer can wind up dating. I know this to be a fact from personal experience. That being said, when a guy shows up on site that is populated primarily by dancers asking if he is special the most common answer (not the only answer) is going to be "no, you are just a customer". Seriously, what else would you expect them to say? "Yes, I think you are super cool, please start coming into my club during all of my shifts and making goo goo eyes at me from the corner while not spending any money on me as I try to work the PAYING customers so that I can pay my bills."
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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    Second, we tell it as it is...this is not some Strip Club Fantasy Website Land where we tell only sweet stories about happily ever afters...you asked, and we tell it. We tell the Good and we tell the bad. This is the place where you will get what you asked for, otherwise what is the point of asking?
    Tell it like it is? Come on now. I've been lurking around this board and if we were to believe what's written here, the conclusion we would come to about the posters here is that you are all nuns who happen to work in strip clubs, where no one here gives extras, giving nothing but air dances without so much as taking off your bottoms all while being able to have a sustainable career in the sex industry. Look, I don't want to sound mean, but if you claim you're being honest, well, I think people have a right to call that into question.

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    ^ I'll repeat the warning I gave you in another thread. Stripper web is here for dancers. You are a guest here. Act accordingly. You're not a dancer. Assuming that a poster is lying simply because you don't agree with them isn't going to fly here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Well, there are very few absolutes in life and it is certainly possible that a dancer and a customer can wind up dating. I know this to be a fact from personal experience. That being said, when a guy shows up on site that is populated primarily by dancers asking if he is special the most common answer (not the only answer) is going to be "no, you are just a customer". Seriously, what else would you expect them to say? "Yes, I think you are super cool, please start coming into my club during all of my shifts and making goo goo eyes at me from the corner while not spending any money on me as I try to work the PAYING customers so that I can pay my bills."


    This section should be called: Customers w/High Hopes & Slim Chances


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    As I have posted in a couple of other threads, we keep hearing that meeting in an SC and building a relationship is rare, but I have personally asked many, many dancers where they met their man, and the vast majority say in the SC. I think it is becoming harder for anyone, anywhere to meet Mr or Ms right, but I think it can happen in the club at about the sae
    rate as anywhere else. Thoughts..

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    Thoughts? The fact that it can happen is not nearly as important as realizing that many dancers make a good living from making guys think that it can happen.

    The common thread among all of the "does she really like me" threads is that they are all from guys who walked into a club, met a dancer for the first time and she somehow convinces them that she thinks they are special. Well, that's her job. It's how she pays her bills. Trust me, I fell victim to it several times many years ago before got burned a few times, befriended a few dancers and learned how the game is sometimes played. Sure, it can happen but no within an hour of arriving at the strip club! Heck, even a broken watch is right twice a day...

    There is a sucker born every minute and that is what drives the strip club industry. Learn it, know it, live it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by donb777 View Post
    As I have posted in a couple of other threads, we keep hearing that meeting in an SC and building a relationship is rare, but I have personally asked many, many dancers where they met their man, and the vast majority say in the SC. I think it is becoming harder for anyone, anywhere to meet Mr or Ms right, but I think it can happen in the club at about the sae
    rate as anywhere else. Thoughts..
    With some customers who seem hungry for a "real connection," not just entertainment, I will give them the impression that I date customers frequently--which couldn't be farther from the truth. But, it give them hope. And that hope usually helps me reign in some cash.

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    An update to my original post. After a few days of texting and some flaking on both ends, it fizzled there.

    On another note, I did meet another dancer during one of my stops to have a few drinks. Ended up spending the entire night with her. She's quite an amazing woman and it's almost scary how many hobbies and interests we have in common. She gave me her number, which I treat as a ploy to get me back in the club. Regardless, I enjoyed her company and don't mind spending money, so I asked what days she typically works. Her response, she only does this part time to make extra money and says I don't have to come to the club to see her. Interesting, so I'm thinking she works a 3rd job... Well, it's been a couple weeks and I haven't been asked to pay up. In fact, she pays half the time when we get together. So far, so good. Although my neurotic side forces me to partially keep my guard up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by donb777 View Post
    As I have posted in a couple of other threads, we keep hearing that meeting in an SC and building a relationship is rare, but I have personally asked many, many dancers where they met their man, and the vast majority say in the SC. I think it is becoming harder for anyone, anywhere to meet Mr or Ms right, but I think it can happen in the club at about the sae
    rate as anywhere else. Thoughts..
    My thoughts... chances are slim of meeting Mrs right at a strip club. Almost as similar as a woman looking for Mr Right at a bar. At a bar, guys are looking to get laid. At a strip club, girls are looking to get paid. Obviously, odds are in favor of the regular bar.
    As few here are willing to admit, it does happen every now and then. I've dated a stripper several years ago, didn't quite work out romantically but we've remained friends. However, after reading a few threads on this topic, I can understand why most are so quick to squash any hope.

    Yoda, sorry to dissapoint but I haven't completely gone away. However, no need to waste anyone's efforts with changing my ribbon. I enjoyed the forum, but I blew my load and THIS is probably my last post.
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