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    Ok so I just started and I need to work on my hustle!
    What are some good things to say when approaching customers?
    When I ask them if they wamt company, they literally want that: company. They start chatting with me and at some point it becomes kind of awkward when I ask if they want a dance. I need some advice! What's a quicker (and more efficiant) way to sell more dances?

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    Read EVERYTHING in hustle hut.

    Here is a stickied thread to start with:

    Things t do and say when sitting with customers

    Everything on this board will help you. That was the hardest thing for me to learn, too, for the record. You'll get there.
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    "Are you going to just stare at them or am I going to shove them in your face?"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jamiexxx View Post
    Ok so I just started and I need to work on my hustle!
    What are some good things to say when approaching customers?
    When I ask them if they wamt company, they literally want that: company. They start chatting with me and at some point it becomes kind of awkward when I ask if they want a dance. I need some advice! What's a quicker (and more efficiant) way to sell more dances?
    Asking them if they'd like some company is not a problem, but it doesn't mean you just sit with them and don't get dances. It's just a way of allowing them to "invite" you to sit with them. I sometimes say, "hey, would you like some company?" but I try to lessen the customer's ability to say no so sometimes, if they're not sitting with anyone and especially if they look at me, I'll just go sit with them and say, "hey, how are you?!" very bubbly. I ask them my name, tell them mine; I'll ask them a few more questions like whether or not they've been to the club before, if they're out of town where they're friend, etc. This will lead into conversation. I stay bubbly and a little sultry at all times. Once we're in good conversation (about 10 mins) I go straight to asking about VIP.
    "Rather have my feet hurting than my pockets."

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    +1 on what Nina said. You can't let the customer lead the conversation to the point where you're awkwardly looking for a moment to interject with trying to sell a dance. You want to keep the conversation light and sexy so bringing up dances feels like a natural segue.

    There's unfortunately no magical phrase that quickly and efficiently gets a customer from their chair to the lap dance room, so make your questions be strategic - Is he celebrating something? He's probably feeling spendy. Is he traveling? Great, chat about exotic destinations and all the hot lap dances he's had in other countries/cities to get him riled up and ready for you. Is he having a bad day? He probably wants someone sensual, so start massaging his shoulders while you talk. You have to learn to tailor your conversations to each client to find what they're looking for and adjust your hustle accordingly.

    You also want to find shared interests (even if they're feigned on your end) to build the rapport that sells extended VIPs. What kind of music is he into? What does he like to do for fun? etc. etc.

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    I'm pretty blunt, depending on how man bills I have. If it's rent time I'm usually a little sweeter but if I want play money I usually tell them "Let's cut to the chase. Obviously you like me or I wouldn't be here." My bluntness usually throws them off but it works. (Gee I wonder why)
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    Lol I don't know if I can be that straight forward but I'll give it a try.
    I guess I just need more practice.
    I just feel like once we have a normal conversation, they see me as a "person" and not a sex object anymore, so it makes them feel awkward getting a dance from me.

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    There's a bit of an awkward transition when you go from being new and just having conversation to get comfortable and start actually directing the conversations and making them strategic. You're right that you need more practice, but you'll totally get the hang of it!

    When you say you're having a normal conversation, what do you mean by that? Like, you can talk about totally normal things while keeping the delivery really flirty so that they don't see you as a sexy dancing creature anymore. It's really more about HOW you say it and the body language that goes along with it. Run your fingers over his arms, squeeze his thigh, lightly massage his shoulders/back, shoot him coy grins, give him flirty looks, sit facing him, whisper in his ear... Just generally, get close and pretend you're really into this guy and want him to know it.

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    I still sometimes entertain myself by watching other girls run their game if every customer is currently "occupied." It's funny, because there are so many different styles.

    Try taking 10 minutes during your next shift, find a place on the floor where you can watch everything going on in the club and observe the body language of the other girls that are sitting with customers. You'll see, with a lot of cases, you don't even need to know WHAT they're saying - it's how they're saying it, like Shanna said^.
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    Maybe that's the issue. I don't think I have a very sexy vibe about me. I know it's not my looks, probably more my body language. Plus I do find it hard to be all flirty and touchy feely during a conversation with a guy I'm not really attracted to. I need to become a better actress!

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    To me they are all ATM's with penises. I'm attracted to money, not the person. I could give 2 shits if it was Michael Vick handing me Benjamins. Money makes my pussy wet.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    To me they are all ATM's with penises. I'm attracted to money, not the person. I could give 2 shits if it was Michael Vick handing me Benjamins. Money makes my pussy wet.
    LMAO!






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    I usually try and find something about the customer I can compliment. For example if I walk by a neatly dressed man I will say in a flirty voice "Ooo I really like your shirt". I find this also gives me an opening to touch his arm, chest or shoulder in a sensual way without seeming as if Im just going straight for the hustle (which I am lol).
    Ive also found cheesy one liners work if your the joking type. I've been known to tell tall men "Wow your so tall! I want to climb you like a jungle gym"!
    You just have to find your hustle. Funny and bubbly works for some, agressive and pushy works for others. It all boils down your comfortability!

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    make them laugh! most guys come in to chill out and forget about the shitty realities of everyday life. always be ready to make a joke or make fun of yourself. don't take yourself too seriously on stage. i can't count how many times guys have told me they appreciate my style because i actually smile, and look happy to be there. then, we're off to the dance lounge.

    always be ready with a joke, it has worked wonders for my hustle.

    another line i always use which seems to work is "enjoying the view?" if he says yes, you should tell him it's an even better view in the back. if he says no, he's bored and you can offer him more stimulating entertainment.

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    I never ask if they want company. I just assume they do so I usually either sit down and start chatting and asking questions or I kind of hover over them with my tits in their direct view. I ask things like their name, have they ever been here before, whats the occasion, how do you know these guys you're with, etc. I usually chat till the next song is about to begin and then I pitch my dance. There are many ways to pitch a dance in Hustle Hut but I really like saying something along the lines of "im going to get naked for you now".

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    "Do you want hypoxia?" Squeeze tits)
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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    To me they are all ATM's with penises. I'm attracted to money, not the person. I could give 2 shits if it was Michael Vick handing me Benjamins. Money makes my pussy wet.
    ^^^^ THIS

    Amen sister. You are a beast.

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    I would usually say "Yore breaking the rules! You're supposed to have a girl on your lap!!"
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