...I hate negativity.
Lately I've been dancing less and less. No matter how many times I take off or take an extended break from dancing, I seem to always come back to negativity no matter what club I go to. Its so depressing at times.
I've noticed more and more customers coming into the clubs like this, follow my scenario:
Me: (Walks up to costumer with a smile and introduce myself) My name is Kelly!
Customer: I'm doing okay (Doesn't even turn to look at me)
Me: So how are you doing today? Whats your name?
Customer: My name is Joe Blow. I'm alright, just chilling. (Still turned away, maybe even pulls out his cell phone)
***AWKWARD SILENCE FOR ABOUT 10 MINUTES BECAUSE BOTH PARTIES ARE AT DISCONNECTION***
Hell, the guy isn't even paying attention to any of the girls on stage. You start to wonder why the f*** are they here. Wait, your damn club has a $1 beer special today...
But anyway, this is what has been going on lately for the last couple of months. I don't know if I've just been blessed with asshole customers or people who are truly not interested in coming into the clubs anymore.
Has anyone been feeling this way and experiencing customers like this?
Whats the best way to mentally deal with this bullshit?
Anyone have any websites that contain mantras and positive quotes?
Anyone know a guru?
Thanks!



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, or are cheap and there for a free stage show, which they make abundantly clear by being rude to the dancers.



#2 Ive got the tipping rolling (usually when one girl tips another it gets this phenomenon going that everybody starts going up to the stage. #3 I got the girl on stage to feel special #4 when he comes in WITH some money he'll remember me or at least that the money is not supposed to stay safe and warm in his pocket but free and chillin' in a dancer's garter. If you can't get a dollar out of the guy to tip someone else, then there is no hope and you must immediately pour a drink on his head-- joking! Just walk away. If you must say something snarky to make yourself feel better (cause I promise he doesn't give a shit) don't be too rude, say something like 'you're missing out baby!' or 'hope you're ready for fun next time!' Group mentality is different but works to your advantage. Guys like to pick on each other so they do the lay up for you. "Oh, he's first time/ shy/ broke/ gay/ sad/ hungover/ married and doesn't want to be here/ get a dance. What?? That's crazy talk! All the girls here are HOT and really good. *lean in, wink* How could anyone not want to have fun here? I know you're smarter than that, you're bound and determined to make this the best night ever!....So let's start. My lap dances are thirty, my vip three hundred, where do you want to start?" Now you can insert Christys tips and tricks from hustle hut. *EOTP eye on the prize *ABC always be closing *LoA Law of Attraction (my enter key isn't working so this is kinda run on so sorry but I hope I helped)

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