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    Default Re: What do you do when......

    Yeah, Id say 99% of those guys are living a fantasy...just like the idea of talking about meeting up with no real intention of it. When I got those guys, Id just laugh and say something like they wouldnt know what to do with me if I were in front of them, then lead them off into a fantasy of what they would like to do...

    Ive only had one guy ever really want to try and set something up, and Id always just say "if only we really could!" and say it would be awfully hard to explain to my bf why I was traveling without him. That guy was my customer for yeears...every once in awhile hed bring it up, but then say oh I know you cant, but if you ever decide to just let me know. And we'd go on to talk about what it woudl be like if we met.

    But never everrr did I lead a guy on to think I would actually meet him or that it was a real possibility. I stayed sweet (or spicy...depending on if he was a sub or not) but always humoured them enough to keep them interested. Would never ban a guy and cut him off for asking...thats $$$ right there. Of course these were paying clients..if it was just some guy hogging up my room talking nonsense who never booked a show, Id blow him off.
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    Actually it's true times have changed. You could easily say no in the past or infact guys didn't really ask until they spent serious money first. Now? Guys are asking in free chat or 5 seconds into a private. Also they aren't fantasizing either because there usually is a model or 10 that will meet a customer. Something like that happened recently. A model that is friends with me on MFC met a customer and had a relationship with him.

    I even have guys arguing in my room telling me if I don't tell them where I am they will not take me private. This behavior is umm unheard of in the past. I can even bs my way through a private anymore. It's like Private 1 sec ( where are you?") I ignore and say so would you like me to... ( where are you?!!!). So I have my dildo all lubed up.. don't you want me to.. (end private). lol

    I think the only thing that works now is if I just jump into teasing and ignore what the member types but that could probably turn into a chargeback so I'd be screwed either way.

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    Jesus...that is insane!!!! You remind me of something though Cherry...on SM I had guys in my chat who for some reason were convinced I was in Africa and I was like nope, All American Girl born and raised....and they were there shooting me questions on American geography and history. I was like WTF man, those were my worst subjects in school, and Im on a fuck site and you want me to tell you who our 34th president was? Fuck all y'all LOL

    I also had guys who were more interested in seeing my room, even in private, asking me to pan the camera around my room and Id be all ummm..dont you want to see *me?!* and theyd be all over wanting to see my room. I never kept pictures or anything in there, so Id be all, well damn here you go, grand 180 tour for ya...and I had one guy spend his entire time in private telling me how much he liked my room.

    Some guys are very weird.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    Jesus...that is insane!!!! You remind me of something though Cherry...on SM I had guys in my chat who for some reason were convinced I was in Africa and I was like nope, All American Girl born and raised....and they were there shooting me questions on American geography and history. I was like WTF man, those were my worst subjects in school, and Im on a fuck site and you want me to tell you who our 34th president was? Fuck all y'all LOL
    I also had guys who were more interested in seeing my room, even in private, asking me to pan the camera around my room and Id be all ummm..dont you want to see *me?!* and theyd be all over wanting to see my room. I never kept pictures or anything in there, so Id be all, well damn here you go, grand 180 tour for ya...and I had one guy spend his entire time in private telling me how much he liked my room.

    It's like the good old days of stripping. $$$ in stage shows and you could skip a lap dance because that wasn't where the money was. Now? Dancers in most states have to do lap dances and stage performances don't yield any real money. Plus she has to spend the day dogging grabby hands and guys trying to get close as much as possible to simulating sex.

    In most cases I loose most of my regs because I wouldn't meet them. They were only on the site for that purpose or you'll see them in other rooms "shopping". One guy explained to me that with some escorts he wasn't sure what he was getting. Some pictures weren't up to date so on a cam site he see the model and then he asks.

    There was a model negotiating her rates in free chat for anyone to see. So yes camming has done a 360 from when i started. lol

    Haa lol @ American geography. I actually had a guy think I was in a studio because of the artwork on my wall. I was like umm no dude the wall will not fall over if I hit it. lol. So I sat there banging on my wall to show him that in fact it was a real wall. Weird! lol

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    eek the quote feature got weird on me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    Actually it's true times have changed. You could easily say no in the past or infact guys didn't really ask until they spent serious money first. Now? Guys are asking in free chat or 5 seconds into a private. Also they aren't fantasizing either because there usually is a model or 10 that will meet a customer. Something like that happened recently. A model that is friends with me on MFC met a customer and had a relationship with him.

    I even have guys arguing in my room telling me if I don't tell them where I am they will not take me private. This behavior is umm unheard of in the past. I can even bs my way through a private anymore. It's like Private 1 sec ( where are you?") I ignore and say so would you like me to... ( where are you?!!!). So I have my dildo all lubed up.. don't you want me to.. (end private). lol

    I think the only thing that works now is if I just jump into teasing and ignore what the member types but that could probably turn into a chargeback so I'd be screwed either way.
    Exactly! I'm getting dudes on ImLive (or AdultWork when I can manage to get a show on there) going private and immediately asking "Where u from?" Apparently the answer I give them is the "wrong" one because then they end the session right away...smh.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    There was a model negotiating her rates in free chat for anyone to see. So yes camming has done a 360 from when i started. lol
    Yeah, I notice some models asking guys "Okay, so how about $3? Can you guys do a $3 Gold show buy-in?" And then each time it's unsuccessful and the timer has to be restarted, the models are lowering the buy-in even more until they're done to a $1 buy-in. See, I can't be dealing with stuff like that...having cheap guys telling me that $4 or $5 is "too much" and to lower the price.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    In most cases I loose most of my regs because I wouldn't meet them. They were only on the site for that purpose or you'll see them in other rooms "shopping". One guy explained to me that with some escorts he wasn't sure what he was getting. Some pictures weren't up to date so on a cam site he see the model and then he asks.

    There was a model negotiating her rates in free chat for anyone to see. So yes camming has done a 360 from when i started. lol
    Im like sitting here, totally creeped out. And Im an escort!!! LoL Seriously, thats just insane.
    For the guys to do, for the ladies to do...just insane.

    I guess thats why the guys will leave private when the lady says where shes from, if shes too far away from him why bother?
    Sucks HARD that there are women offering escort services as a camgirl though, cause its seriously ruining it for ladies who are in it to actually...CAM!

    The thought alone is very annoying.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    Yeah, I notice some models asking guys "Okay, so how about $3? Can you guys do a $3 Gold show buy-in?" And then each time it's unsuccessful and the timer has to be restarted, the models are lowering the buy-in even more until they're done to a $1 buy-in. See, I can't be dealing with stuff like that...having cheap guys telling me that $4 or $5 is "too much" and to lower the price.

    Hehe I was talking about her escort rates Hheeh

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    OR just lead them on? If they are stupid enough to believe that you would actually meet up with them then just play the game until their money is gone and they realize it wont happen.

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    I just ignore them when in prvt., when they start that ' let's meet up' crap! It's funny how they actually stay in prvt. longer, because they take up so much time, re-typing the question! I have a lot of regulars who keep coming back to prvt., and still don't take the hint. For guys,, the 'hunt and chase' will always be very enticing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SweetPinkCupcake View Post
    OR just lead them on? If they are stupid enough to believe that you would actually meet up with them then just play the game until their money is gone and they realize it wont happen.
    I always tried to avoid leading them on because there are always the crazy one that turn out to be stalkers. Some guy got really nasty with a model and outted her location on twitter calling her a fucking lying bitch.

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    ^Yeah, I just lie and say I live in a totally different country than I really do. That's honestly how I make the most of my money....besides another random thing that always gets me shows....is the guys that think I live near them. I can usually get them to spend a lot of money for a few months before they disappear and realize it wont happen..but a lot of times it is the guy just playing out the fantasy...so excited thinking about the possibilty of meeting, but would never fall through with it. That's just me though

    And I think MFC is different....

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    Quote Originally Posted by HaydenBlue View Post

    Times have changed - we're marketed as date and fuck bait. There is no way to avoid it - adapt to it. And I think by shutting them down and saying "no" you are losing out on a lot of extra $$$. A majority are all about fantasy.
    Very true! I find they love it when you say things like "omg how naughty! you would just meet a stranger like that? What would you do first if we were to meet" and play along without ever once promising that it's really possible.


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    Yeah, I think there's a difference between playing into a fantasy like "wow, let's describe our fantasy date at your island in the south pacific" and actually saying something like "buy shows for 2 months and I will get on a plane to meet you in ohio" kind of thing. That's just mean So what if the guy is "dumb/stupid"? Some people are super dense but sweet.

    Plus depending on the site that can get your account shut down. Not worth it.

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