This is when being married works in my favor. I just say im a house wife.
Makes me feel sneaky and exciting.
This is when being married works in my favor. I just say im a house wife.
Makes me feel sneaky and exciting.
I've been really thinking about this lately. Over the years I've said customer service rep, marketing and in recent years web developer. Those titles just didn't site right with me for some reason. Up thread I said I thought about making a fake site but I didn't feel like going through all the trouble of doing that. I went through some old threads and I think the perfect title for me is independent contractor, consultant, internet consultant or web consultant. Now if someone wants to be nosy and asks for more specific info I can just say that I do a variety of things...web design, editing, marketing and customer service.





Online Social media marketing expert. I would put my skills at that up against any one who went to college for it.
99% of the time I am a PORN STAR, worked hard to become one, worked hard to get where I am. Not ashamed about it at all. My family knows, my friends know and not one single issue over it. If someone doesn't know who I am, then i am failing at my job.
Never apologize or made to feel less about yourself over earning a legal income. I know, privacy,judging by people you wanted to be friends with or a relationship, discrimination in getting a place to live or job outside the adult industry. Long as we LET them do it to us, more we do have to be ashamed about.
More we win others with charm and sparkling personality more likely that won't be a problem for us. Also makes it more mainstream & less money sometimes or MORE mainstream & more money. We determine that outcome if we do it right.
Sam





^^^^Sam Again Yes Yes Yes!! Did That pneumonia raise your temperature cause you are on Fire!
Sometimes when I get bored with the "Im a pornstar" reaction I just say Im a whore. I laugh when I say it and people try to "make me feel better" by saying "Your not a whore its a different thing". They believe Im feeling sorry for myself when Im just loving myself for it cause no one can use it against you if you own it! But I find when you do anything in sex work people just project themselves on to you rather then get to know the real person.
I really never shy away from it at all, and pretty openly say it exactly as is. IF the situation comes up and I do need to be alittle more sneaky about my wording, I tend to say performing arts and leave it at that
Hatred does not cease by hatred but only by love; this is the eternal rule.
" What is Reality? An icicle forming in fire."
-Dogen Zenji
I just tell my family and friends that I do an online show. If they push I tell them it is in adult entertainment but I don't get more detailed than that. When I fill out any paperwork putting self employed is usually good enough, but if they need more specific info I will put "Model" since that is what all of the sites call our official job title.
When I was a PSO, I told people I did online customer service for companies like West and Liveops.. overflow calls for companies like Amazon and 1800flowers. I tell them we basically take orders, troubleshoot, tech support, etc. They usually don't ask anything else after. They're like "oh wow, I didn't know you could do that at home"... and then if they get curious and look it up online, they will see it is for real. I like the online social media marketing expert though. I may use that from now on. I went to web design school 11 years ago, so I do know about SEO, marketing, etc, so that is believable to those who know me. LOL





My closest friends and bf know exactly what I do. If it's nosy strangers, "I make more than you" or "online customer service", depending on how bitchy I feel.





I say I'm a web consultant...and if they pry, I tell them I work with mostly adult websites...which is basically true. They usually don't ask too much after that![]()




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I'm an out dancer but I don't advertise, so I use little half-truths or jargon.
- Model
- Entertainer
- Ecdysiast
- Performer
- Dancer
- Entertainment industry
- Adult entertainment
- Adult industry (surprisingly, this doesn't get weird responses the same way "adult entertainment" does in my experience)
- Sole proprietor
- Independent contractor
- Business owner
- Entrepreneur
- Customer service
When I'm speaking plainly with someone that I know is/will be okay with what I do, I just say exotic dancer or stripper. Any time someone bitchy catches on to what any of the above terms might mean, I just tell them to fuck off because "I'm going to school debt free" or some variation of "I make your paycheck/monthly/annual in a night/week/month" or cite one of the many perks that they don't have.
Otherwise, I just skip over talking about work, say I'm a student and talk about what I'm going to school for.
I have no idea what title(s) I'll be using in the future as I branch out into other areas of the adult, entertainment, and other related industries.
Exotic dancing is like any other job.If you work in an office, you wear dress shoes and a suit.If you work in a restaraunt, you wear skid resistant shoes and a uniform.If you work in a strip club, you wear 7" stilettos and lycra g-strings.





^You really are all those things, if you think about it.
My famila and friends and some acquaintances knew about me being a camgirl LOL.
But then whenever i meet some people who don't know my job and asked me about it, it always makes me nervous because i don't know if they can see through my lies although sometimes when i am prepared i can lie really good too lol.
Like when i was invited in a church meeting because my parents are friends with the pastor and the church is new and they asked me what my job is i told them i work in a supermarket and they started to ask me more question where is it blah blah... it made me so dizzy LOL
Just thought of another one Web/Internet Entrepreneur.





Depends on whos asking..if its a bitchy female i say that im a hotel bible distributor
If its just someone making conversation i say im an underwater basket weaving instructor. They get a good laugh out of it!




Imma sales representative for ICF Technology.
Sorta kinda ish...
"Do you do tech support in exclusive?"
Don't call me BB...I'm not the prime minister of Israel!



I had a friend once give me advice about how to reply to people as far as what I do. This probably will not work in all cases, but when people are trying to get to know me or my biz it is good. He said when people ask, "What do you do?" why do you find it necessary to reply with what you do for a living? Tell them other things "you do" and turn the conversation back to them."
So I now say things like, I paddle board, read a lot about investing, I try to garden, etc" It actually ends up being a more stimulating conversation and making stronger connections.
I was thinking that I could just say I am a virtual nude model for an online fine arts anatomy drawing program.
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Jack, that's good! My brother once suggested when they ask(back when I was stripping full time), I turn it around and ask..."Why do You want to know?"
It works, because I live where people only ask because they want to see if You can help them in any way.
I tell people my 'fake job, and they ask if they can do it too. Doesn't matter if its selling things on ebay, or senior care, they want what I have.. I laugh, because they aren't getting shit from me!



If it is someone I meet randomly and they ask (as they always do) what I do.. I merely say "lots of things" and leave it at that. They generally don't follow up on that. I have a friend who says she tells people that it is rude of them to pry with such questions. To those that know me I do travel health work or online chart work.
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