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    Hi everyone
    I have abit of an odd question, it might even just sound absolutly ridiculous and I might just be sounding silly haha but here it goes I guess...
    I work on mfc, I have a very good clientele and a ton of consistent regulars. I like to be very talkative and get to know 'kinda' some of the more nicer regulars who are always in my room supporting me and not hounding me for stuff. The regulars I have gotten very talkative with and support me I see sometimes In other girls rooms when im watching as a 'guest' and not on my own personal account. And I actually get kinda jelous that they watch them or tip them.
    I spend a good amount of time watching as a guest other models when im not on the cam just because its fun haha and I'll see one of my regulars in the room im watching and seeing them talk and tip them gets me all jelous abit. And to make it clear I dont go looking for my regualrs in other rooms, I just catch them at random when im in the room haha

    does this ever happen to any of you cam ladies? and how do you just ignore it haha
    I need to learn not to care haha

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    Default Re: Getting jealous your regulars with other models?

    I really don't care as long as they come see me, but if they don't oh well.

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    Personally it doesn't bother me. If you are a guest and they are in another room they don't even have the option to be in your room, so it isn't like they are choosing other girls over you. You aren't available as a guest .
    I've just come to the conclusion that the ones who like me will stay and continue to come back , and the ones who wander aren't worth the stress. There is a new regular around the corner to take their place.

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    Default Re: Getting jealous your regulars with other models?

    Quote Originally Posted by serena1 View Post
    Hi everyone
    I have abit of an odd question, it might even just sound absolutly ridiculous and I might just be sounding silly haha but here it goes I guess...
    I work on mfc, I have a very good clientele and a ton of consistent regulars. I like to be very talkative and get to know 'kinda' some of the more nicer regulars who are always in my room supporting me and not hounding me for stuff. The regulars I have gotten very talkative with and support me I see sometimes In other girls rooms when im watching as a 'guest' and not on my own personal account. And I actually get kinda jelous that they watch them or tip them.
    I spend a good amount of time watching as a guest other models when im not on the cam just because its fun haha and I'll see one of my regulars in the room im watching and seeing them talk and tip them gets me all jelous abit. And to make it clear I dont go looking for my regualrs in other rooms, I just catch them at random when im in the room haha

    does this ever happen to any of you cam ladies? and how do you just ignore it haha
    I need to learn not to care haha
    I do understand, and admit I sometimes do/feel the same. But, we have to remember that a bunch of our clients are sorta sex addicts. Another way to look at it is this: if someone buys Playboy, etc, are they just going to look at one page, or flip through the magazine? Perhaps this, too: maybe it will keep them from getting TOO attached and demanding you as their "only" one, or to come see them, or (worst case) finding/stalking.

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    I think it's weird when cam models get possessive over their clients. I mean, they have zero loyalty to us. I love my regulars but I know that they all have an expiration date.
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    Default Re: Getting jealous your regulars with other models?

    You aren't loyal to them. You talk to more than just one guy, so I don't see why they should be loyal to you.
    Jealousy is a bad feeling. Maybe you should step away from watching as a guest and hopefully your jealousy will slowly go away.
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    I know that boys are whores and they bounce around and once you realize that, the better off you will be. This is on and off cam unless you find one that is super dedicated. Try not to give a fuck, okay? That's all I can tell you. Because they won't stop whoring, and they aren't married to your room so I would cut your feelings out of it completely. As long as they come back and spend on you, that's all you need to worry about. That and offering them the best cummmstomer satisfaction so you can get a ROI. It's all business at the end of the day bb, these guys are like fat kids in a cake shop. They can't handle all the pussy so they try and buy it all. Please don't let other people's actions in other people's rooms, get to you.




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    I admit that I did have feelings of jealousy over my top spender ONCE. But, that was a little bit different because we had gotten to know each other very well on a personal level off site, we talked about dating IRL when he moved back to the States (he's military), he had access to my personal friends and I had access to his friends and family, etc. So in that case I viewed him not as a cam customer, but as a guy I was genuinely interested in who also happened to spoil me rotten through a cam site. When I would see him getting glowing reviews from other girls after speaking to me it did bother me, because I felt like how the hell could he claim to be so into me and tell me he wants a woman exactly like me and then turn around and pay to jerk off to someone else? I ain't gonna lie, that shit hurt my feelings in the moment.

    Other than that, nah, I don't develop enough personal feelings for my regulars to feel upset/jealous if they go elsewhere. I'd actually have to care about them, and while I have several guys who I truly enjoy hanging out with and doing shows for, after I log out for the night I'm not thinking about them at all, you know?

    One thing that does piss me off which I guess is something similar is when guys promise to spend money on you and then don't. I'm not talking about freebie seekers, I mean long time good spending regs who promise to do a show with you and then stand you up two weeks in a row, or promise to order a custom from you once they get paid and then they don't, and it's been weeks, and yet you see they've paid for customs from other women like two days ago. That shit pisses me off to NO end. It's like, you know what buddy? Don't fucking make promises when you're not going to follow through. Just don't even fucking say anything. I'd rather you not say anything at all than promise me something and not follow through. It's just plain mean to get my hopes up like that. I have only had a handful of guys do that and you best believe I done told them off for it. But I've always hated when people don't stick to their word. I don't care if they've spent hundreds and hundreds of dollars on me in the past, I WILL call them out for that kind of flaky behavior.

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    I think you also need to remember different girls provide different things. Not to mention most of these guys are on multiple sites. A guy may get a GFE experience from one girl and get hardcore domination from another. Even if he gets the same thing from two different girls, why not? As someone said we don't see only one customer. I get wanting to inspire brand loyalty but there is a limit to that. No matter how much you love Manolo Blahnick you still buy Louboutin sometimes right?

    Try to think of it this way if the guy was already a site member before he came into your room you weren't his first model so you have always been one of many girls he spends on, if these guys were loyal to only one girl business might be a lot less. Besides you can't be on 24/7 and it's just not logical to think they won't go elsewhere.
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    I don't care if they visit other models. With that said most of these regulars have wives and girlfriends, yet watch YOU.So, there is no loyalty to be gained. Its entertainment and I try to leave it at that. Keep in mind also that it goes the other way as well.....the random guys who tip you/get shows, are someone else's regular as well. I think if you focus on your financial goals- Did I make my daily, weekly, or monthly goal? Thats all that really matters.
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    I don't have this problem because, well, I don't go into other rooms often. If I do, it's only for a minute or two. I figure I spend more than enough time in my own room, plus like you I don't want to see my regulars in there. I try not to read other models' comments for the same reason. It's not the same sort of jealousy that I get in relationships--I don't think I'd feel betrayed or anything--but seeing one of my regs who talk about how I'm the best on the site, blah blah blah, tell some other girl the same thing wouldn't make me feel good, so why do it? If it doesn't make you money or make you feel good about yourself, just don't do it.

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    Honestly, I was shocked when after being gone 4 months old regs came and found me. I remembered who a lot of them were, guys who would tip in for every show or who would buy out whole shows or give me a fat chunk...but I was fucking SHOCKED that they remembered me and came back to me.

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    This ^.

    I was on a 5-6 month hiatus and so many of my regulars immediately came into my room on the first night back and were asking where the hell I had been and telling me how much they missed me. I was surprised they remembered or were still interested after all that time.



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    The only thing I get upset about is if they are sucking up my free time and spending money on some other girls.. then I get pissed.. cuz they are wasting my time. And that has happened soooooo many times.. like they come to me for girlfriend chat and go fuck someone else.. So yea.. that's the only reason. Otherwise I do not care if they spend money on other girls as long as they are spending it on me when they visit me.

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    Exactly. I also have those "regulars" who used to spend a lot in private, now just come for the free chat, and probably spend somewhere else. Makes me feel like being taken for granted. I would get jealous in the beginning when I was new to camming, would check their feedback left by other models, but now I don't care much about that.

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    As long as guys aren't in your room saying things like "Well, see ya later. I'm gonna go to *insert-model's-name-here* room now." Because I do think it's tacky and inconsiderate for members to be dropping other models' names while they're in your room. We know these guys visit other models (even if they claim you're the "only" model they visit), and that's fine...we just don't need to hear all about it in our rooms. The other night one of my best regs told me he had to leave because his friend (another model) was on cam too. He didn't blurt out the model's name in my chat though, which is good cuz that would've annoyed me.

    And as much as I hate to say it, our regulars dohave an expiration date. Many times I've looked at my MFC friends list to remove names of members who don't come by and tip anymore.
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    Who has time for that really? Every regular has an expiration date, every time. Focus on getting more regs and giving attention to the ones who are spending right now. They all eventually move on (and usually come back eventually too) but in the meantime focus on who is currently spending.


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