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    I had to block one of my regs the other day. He has been seeing me since I started camming. What happened was I mentioned my partner in free chat because it got brought up. He started saying shit, like "We pay for your pussy so you can pay for his pussy ass?" Which isn't true, but w/e. I just ignored it and asked him not to be disrespectful in my room. He ignores me and goes on to say he is a douche for ALLOWING me to cam, I don't love him, we are too young, and other bitter divorcee crap. I didn't explain anything to him, because I don't have too. I said "Thanks for the money." *banhammer*

    Yeah I'm gonna miss that extra 60 bucks a week, but fuck that. If you are going to be disrespectful; GTFO. I didn't block his messages because I want to see if he will apologize. I'm not going to unban him, I just want to see.

    Now I was wondering, if any of you ladies had to block regs because of whatever reason. What happened and why? Did you let it pass for awhile. Did you give warnings?





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    I would have banned too. I recently banned a level 3 regular on SM who used to buy into all my gold shows. I decided to stop doing so many gold shows because I like classic chat better. He won't do privates and he would just sit in my room and chat me up all day. That distracted me from paying customers. I told him I did not mind him sitting there chatting but a little tip every once in awhile would be nice. He replied that I was only after money and he was disappointed in me. So I banned him from chat and messages.
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    He replied that I was only after money and he was disappointed in me. So I banned him from chat and messages.
    Well duuuuuuuhhhh You are on a camsite, broski.





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    You may have lost $60 but he could have been costing you hundreds by running off potential customers.

    He turned toxic.

    Personal life is always off limits. If you worked for a corporation, talking about personal life instead of working is a major no, no. Camming is your job. Of course, it happens, don't let one guy affect you when there are many others to replace him.

    You should always be recruiting new regulars anyways. You gave him fair warning, now you need to move on too. He will find another girl who he thinks is single & play with her.

    It is camming, be happy you had a great enough of shows to get a regular. Many men come on cam for a different flavor everytime.

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    I banned a reg when he started negging me, and It was very cold and backhanded. I have no regrets, and he was a daily spender.

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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
    Now I was wondering, if any of you ladies had to block regs because of whatever reason. What happened and why? Did you let it pass for awhile. Did you give warnings?
    Yep I ban/block regs all the time. It seems like every 3-4 months one acts up and I have to ban him. Most of them stop going pvt. Some will come in my room and try to hang out or they'll stop by to say hi (which I hate with a fiery passion). Others will pop in not say anything and then leave. I'll try to be nice like 2 or 3 times by saying hi, how are, are you in a horny mood tonight, we haven't played for a long time, etc. By the 4 or 5th time they come into my room and don't go pvt or even tip gold I block them.

    I've also had a couple of regs get disrespectful out of no where. I don't exactly let them slide. I'll tell them that the way they're acting isn't acceptable. The second time they act disrespectful (which they always tend to do) I ban/block them.

    I use to feel guilty about blocking regs but I don't anymore. I think alot of these guys(well men in general) tend to think that they have a hold on us because they're giving us money. It surprises them when you show or tell them that you don't need their money and that you'd rather be without their money then put up with their b.s.
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    I have had to do this once and it was hard. I now have another regular who has been a sweetheart to me since I first started camming 3 years ago. Just recently he has been making snarky comments to me about the things I say and about how I've "changed" so much since I have a busier room. I have let him off the hook many times because he has always been such a great sweet regular but I am getting the feeling its time to ban him as the comments are getting meanier . His comments are private so only he can see them but they still bother me and distract me from keeping my game face on (big smile) and a good attitude while working.Its always hard to let regulars go but sometimes they cross the line when they think they have the right to be rude to us just because they were nice to us at one time.

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    Audritwo, good for you for banning that douche. He was wrong to talk shit about your man like that, and your relationship is none of his business anyway. LOL at guys asking cam girls "Your man lets you do this?" Lets?! What does he think this is...the 1800s? Nobody has to let you do anything. And I hate when guys like that run off at the mouth about how they're "paying for pussy." *rolls eyes* In my experience, the best/most decent cam site regs are the one who don't brag about their spending...they just do it without rubbing it in your face.
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    All regs have an expiry date.

    It is the camgirl circle of life.

    Whether they end up just disappearing and leaving you never to be seen again or that you will have to ban(ish) them is the only variable that will end up being a surprise.


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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    All regs have an expiry date.

    It is the camgirl circle of life.

    Whether they end up just disappearing and leaving you never to be seen again or that you will have to ban(ish) them is the only variable that will end up being a surprise.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^What she said. Look at it this way, he's retired to asshole land and a new, polite, generous guy has just discovered the cam world and will become your new regular.

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    A few times. I had one that would come in 3 times a week and I would get $100 (my cut) from him every week. Then his pvts started getting shorter and shorter. Which didn't really bother. Whatever. Then he started asking me to take my panties off in free chat first. The first time I did it because I knew he would go pvt so I figured why not. Then he started to ask me to take off my panties and sit on my dildo before he went pvt. He asked every day for about 2 weeks and every time I said no. He would be pvt anyways but rush me the whole time trying to get everything he wanted to see (normally about a 20 min show) into 3 or 4 min. I put up with him way longer than I should have. He happened to catch me on a bad day one time I banned him right out of pvt.


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    Good Advice, I need to learn more of!!..LOL

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    You may have lost $60 but he could have been costing you hundreds by running off potential customers.

    He turned toxic.

    Personal life is always off limits. If you worked for a corporation, talking about personal life instead of working is a major no, no. Camming is your job. Of course, it happens, don't let one guy affect you when there are many others to replace him.

    You should always be recruiting new regulars anyways. You gave him fair warning, now you need to move on too. He will find another girl who he thinks is single & play with her.

    It is camming, be happy you had a great enough of shows to get a regular. Many men come on cam for a different flavor everytime.

    Good Luck,
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    I blocked a regular who went exclusive for 2 hours every Monday, Friday and Saturday. At first he was very sweet, but then started to get really demanding. I blocked him after I had an emergency come up and missed out 'date' one Saturday. I normally email regs who have an appointment if something came up, but this time I didn't have time. Anyway he emailed me to say who worthless I was and that I 'better' be on next time. BLOCKED!

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    I ban when they keep pestering to meet up, especially when I've already said no a million times. I just banned someone yesterday who won't take no for an answer (about meeting up) when he's in prvt. at least twice per week., because he typed his phone number in Party Chat!
    FYI-The block is only good until they come back in with another user name. (And They will). When they do that, I just ignore them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    It is the camgirl circle of life.
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    A little OT, but I also love it when the regulars come in and try to drop subtle hints about how much money they spend on you. They act as if you beg them to come in sometimes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by audritwo View Post
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    I'm sorry I had too.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Blovely View Post
    I use to feel guilty about blocking regs but I don't anymore. I think alot of these guys(well men in general) tend to think that they have a hold on us because they're giving us money. It surprises them when you show or tell them that you don't need their money and that you'd rather be without their money then put up with their b.s.





    Yea I agree with Blovely it seems to be a biannual purge of at least one. I used to try to just disengage or be things they dont like so they feel empowered enough to just leave of their own volition in case theyre super imbalanced, but pffft I cant, I dont have the patience.
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    ^^^ perfect!





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    I rarely have to do this, but it is essential that you do what you have to do in this business to keep your sanity. I had a regular who met me on cam 5 years ago. He spent hundreds per day in shows to just "talk" and told me he was looking for a sugar baby. I warned him that it would be a virtual exchange early on, that I wasn't cheap, and he agreed as I was his first. He then found me on yahoo via my model name and at first I didn't like it but he had already spent hundreds of dollars on me in pvt. So, eventually this guy starts doing the indy (which I didn't know back then) thing. He was giving me thousands of dollars a week on paypal for shows, and dropping more whenever I asked for it and he had his way with me on yahoo cams. There were several occasions where I wouldn't even go on, yet there were always "$urprise$" in my pp account from him.

    Fast forward to 2013. We still talk, well, at least up until a few days ago. He's been wanting to meet in person for some time, accompany him on cruise, etc. but I was very serious when I mentioned that I only wanted a virtual sd/sb relationship and I told him this. Of course, after $15k+ in a very short time, it starts to trickle instead of rain and he eventually stops giving me money because he no longer saw the value in virtual play with me. He wanted more and I couldn't give that to him. He then started to just talk, and wanted my new phone numbers, etc but wasn't dropping anymore cake. After 5 long years I've finally cut him off and blocked him on skype/yahoo. I noticed he hopped in my camroom the other day and watched me for a few min, I would've banned him then but since he's a level 3, I may keep him around for shows on the site only. I'm no longer his friend, it's just back to business. If I find that he doesn't spend more money on me, I will be blocking him on there as well.

    My moral of the story is, it doesn't matter how much they spend on you. They are ALWAYS paying for a service, no matter what. It's up to you as the provider in how far you let them go as customers and how much they can get away with. If a regular is acting a fool, he should be blocked. Forget about putting up with their nonsense for financial purposes, it's not worth the headaches they cause in thinking they own your attention just because they paid you. Remember that you also gave them what they paid for! Know your value, and always look out for your best interests first. Men are like buses. When one ride stops, there are plenty more on the way.
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    I've had regulars drop money during my free chat sessions, and then send me their life stories VIA email or PM. I mean... EVERY... DAY. They pester me about whether I read them or not and such. It's like, I may work from home, but I go out and about too. I'm not a super hermit who has nothing better to do of her days, and reading their emails is unpaid time.

    Guys like that are clingy and irritating. And I can't put up with that. They think that by being "nice" and "vulnerable" will give their tokens more value. I'm not their psychiatrist, or their best friend. They want to tell me their sob stories? They should take me private and tell me all about it. Only THEN will I give them my full attention lol. It would only be my job to do so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tlulu View Post
    They want to tell me their sob stories? They should take me private and tell me all about it. Only THEN will I give them my full attention lol. It would only be my job to do so.
    I read emails for $10 gold. It's another $10 if they want a short response. My day is pretty cram packed with camming/fucking around on the internet. I don't have a lot of time to read about some guy's life (probably more boring than mine).
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    I LOVE this thread I've had to ban some myself. I always argue with myself beforehand on whether or not I should lol but its always for the best.
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    I have one reg I'm going to have to block. Well in 3 years he has only done 6 shows with me, so he isn't all that "regular", but he spends decent $. At this point, it's not even worth it anymore. He keeps getting meaner it seems or wants more extreme stuff that I said I won't do. It was only a matter of time anyhow. I just wish we could ban them on SM directly from our notes on them and not have to wait for them to come in to our room or send us a message.


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    I recently started banning the "regulars" who are the 0 tokens dudes that were at least keeping the room moving with good convo. It took me longer than it should have, probably, but.....meh.
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    I banned a gold show reg today. Lately he has been bidding in my GoldShow the last seconds of the countdown when he knows it isnt going to happen and was hanging out during the duration of most of the gold show. I confronted him about it. and he goes because I want you to start it and I think you will if I join.



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