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    A few times. I had one that would come in 3 times a week and I would get $100 (my cut) from him every week. Then his pvts started getting shorter and shorter. Which didn't really bother. Whatever. Then he started asking me to take my panties off in free chat first. The first time I did it because I knew he would go pvt so I figured why not. Then he started to ask me to take off my panties and sit on my dildo before he went pvt. He asked every day for about 2 weeks and every time I said no. He would be pvt anyways but rush me the whole time trying to get everything he wanted to see (normally about a 20 min show) into 3 or 4 min. I put up with him way longer than I should have. He happened to catch me on a bad day one time I banned him right out of pvt.
    Worked last night a customer with a 1 next to his name comes in. I checked his profile and he has a $22 exclusive listed under sessions. He takes me exclusive and begins to ask for the exact same things as the reg I explained about quoted above. Then I noticed the username is oddly similar also. Lol.


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    Quote Originally Posted by MellyMay View Post
    I recently started banning the "regulars" who are the 0 tokens dudes that were at least keeping the room moving with good convo. It took me longer than it should have, probably, but.....meh.
    I would not call those guys regulars. They are just freeloaders.



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    I ban regulars. Not on a regular basis though When they start to get rude, annoying or they are "just dropping by to say hi" too often. Gosh I hate those "just dropping by to say hi" guys. Let me tell you I have a friend who works long hours in a coffee shop. It's a busy place downtown. I am her friend, but you'll never find me going in there "just to say hi" and if I did do such a stupid thing I would not be surprised if she kicked me out! The two times I have been there in the past 6 months were to buy a cup of coffee and muffin on my way to the train station.



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    I just banned a reg who had been around for like a year and a half. It honestly felt awful, and I've never had to do it before. I have very strict boundaries on cam, and since he had been around so long, I made a few exceptions in sessions with him. But I got really, really tired of him trying to push every boundary, every single time, and having to tell him to chill out. Tired of of the increasing sinking feeling I'd get when he logged on. I take some blame for it because I shouldn't have let it continue that long. But I got the feeling more and more that he was getting his kicks out of making me uncomfortable. He finally pushed me over the edge with this one remark, so I told him we were done, basically. His reply was, "k".

    Moral of that story is, when it comes down to it, most of these guys don't give a single fuck about us. So don't feel bad when you decide you can't deal with whatever it is they are doing anymore. Like I said, I felt awful, but now I feel much better about it. It's highly unpleasant, but you have to do it sometimes and there is probably a good reason you're doing it in the first place.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ojenni! View Post
    i would not call those guys regulars. They are just freeloaders.
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    I would not make it a habit to ban regulars. In my 7 years doing this I would say I have banned maybe a dozen if that. However there is a time to ban a good spender and that's when a) they stop spending b)they get rude or too demanding c)they want to meet (this sort of falls in with b) and you can no longer fairly lead them on.



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    That's why it's important to keep your personal business at the door All jobs have irritating aspects and irritating customers. But if it's someone who pisses you off on a regular basis, definitely ban them cause sometimes it's not even worth it.

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    There is one I'm planning to ban next time he comes in. He has turned into an asshole.

    "You are getting so boring I might as well watch free porn". I saw this just as I was going into an exclusive so didn't have time to ban him.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ~Carmen~ View Post
    There is one I'm planning to ban next time he comes in. He has turned into an asshole.

    "You are getting so boring I might as well watch free porn". I saw this just as I was going into an exclusive so didn't have time to ban him.
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    Do you ever come across people that you just have a bad feeling about and don't trust them? I feel like the ones who are extremely generous and nice as pie, then have a nasty attitude when they don't get what they want, can't be trusted. Also there have been people who pay for things I said I MIGHT do, or things I said I wasn't doing, then get mad and bug me for not delivering. Like are you kidding... Don't be mad at me because you're trying to bribe me and its not working lol. I always offer to try to send their money back and they cop an attitude like "just forget it!" Oh ok

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    I've only banned two guys who have spent some serious chunk of change, and it was recently (both times mentioned in thread). In general if anyone tries to play the mindfuck game on getting more or for free, I ban them. I think most men think girls do sex work because they are at a low part in their lives and have no self esteem. We are easy to take advantage of because "we are desperate for money and filled with daddy issues." BULLLLLFUCKINGSHIT! I will not allow grooming. I have a "dom" reg I'm waiting to come back to ban if he does. He has done like maybe 50 S&M roleplays with me and knows my limits. Lately I've noticed he was trying to push my limits. Called him out on it and was very upset and offended that i'm not comfortable enough to push myself with him since we've done tons... Dude this is fantasy, I'm not your irl slave.




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    I've had a guy say if I didn't make him a certain type of video then he wasn't spending any more money on me. Ohhhh noesss! Not the 2 privates per year!

    The ones that badger you to meet up with them, give your number, or anything else personal...then disappear or give an attitude when you don't.

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    I used to be super ban happy. If you spent more than a minute in free chat without buying, if I didnt like your member name, if you called me out of my name, if I was just having a crap day etc... I wouldnt kick, I would just ban you and you would stay there. I think at one point I had over 7k banned. smdh.

    Then one day out of nowhere, I unbanned everyone. If I couldnt remember who they were and why I decided to block them from spending on me, I was only hurting my own bank account in the long run. I am a cam girl to make money and I keep my personal feelings out of that, kill 'em with kindness and my big ass fake smile. My $ went up and I havent looked back.

    Nowadays, I dont give these asshats the honor of my attention if they choose to act up. Someone is bound to take me private in the midst of them acting a damn fool in my free chat and thats all I care about. The majority of them come back with their tail between their legs and money to spend and if they dont thats their loss but that door is always open. Words dont hurt me.

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    ^Sweet baby Jesus! I have like over 200, I thought I was ban happy. I only ban negative people, trolls, or if they give me entitled attitude.





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    Quote Originally Posted by SecretCrush View Post
    Then one day out of nowhere, I unbanned everyone. If I couldnt remember who they were and why I decided to block them from spending on me, I was only hurting my own bank account in the long run. I am a cam girl to make money and I keep my personal feelings out of that, kill 'em with kindness and my big ass fake smile. My $ went up and I havent looked back.
    Wow, this is interesting to read because I just did the same thing and I was thinking I must be crazy to do it, but it just seemed like the right thing to do for the reasons you mention.

    Most of the times I banned people it was just me reaching the limit of my patience with stupid remarks in general and not them in particular, and since that is just part of the job if it's getting to me then it's time to log off. I would say 95% of my banning took place when I stayed on too long so it's silly to punish other people just because I didn't realize I where my head was at.

    The only ones I left banned are just a couple who left unwarranted bad ratings, and one guy who was starting to get dangerously attached to me (and cried in my free chat, freaking me right out). Some guys have expressed happiness that they can come back and say they missed hanging out with me. One guy wrote me tonight to explain what his offending comment really meant and he is right, I totally misread it. I don't want that to happen so I am going to try to be a little more patient and understanding.

    The longer I cam, the more I realize anyone can decide to spend on me whether it seemed like they would or not, and in the meantime whatever nonsense they chat about is their ish not mine so why should I limit my customer base. The asshats will show themselves out eventually, once they don't get a reaction, anyway, and I never give them that.

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    Today I banned a good spending first time customer. Not a regular, but could have worked out to be one if I kept at it. He was in private for over an hour (hit his limit after 45 mins then came back and upped it). He wanted to manipulate the private chat even though other customers, including regulars, were coming in to see me for a show. He wanted me to stay clothed and talk to him and not "be a whore". He turned on his cam and he literally looked like a psycho you hear about on the news. The entire time he was insulting other customers and trying to get my contact details. Now normally I would have strung him along, but the way he was being it just got me fed up. I did not like his racist comments either even though I am not black.

    This is just a small bit from the chat (it literally went on for pages):

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    dont be daft if i was there u wouldnt need this site xx
    im NO PERV
    WEIRD
    NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
    hem mother fucker aint african they steal they N******
    not a compliment A FACT XXXX
    I ain't no N*****
    CLICK what dat
    i c dat
    YES
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    IM A spartan xxxx
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    mentally phisically xxx
    had to be
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    i wanna meet you and take you from this
    cuz u do what u do cunt
    a leaperd never chANGES its spots xxxx
    give me your numer xx
    y
    il give you my number xx
    HOW
    HOW
    bby dnt do that xxx
    remember you aint like dat xx
    fuck it xxx
    i dnt care i can get girls any day of the week i chose you coz i thought you were sexy xxx
    I DONT LIKE N****** DON'T TALK SHIT
    DEM BLACKS STEAL DEY SLAVES
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    shut up bitch
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    I was talking to him by audio so I won't go over line for line what I said. He just got under my skin. I have been at this for 7 yrs and dealing with a guy like him would only lead to burn out and paranoia. Not worth the money, even though the money from him is good.
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    over 7,000.. wow! i banned 913 custies. i am too scared to unban and they will haunt back to me. lol




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    Quote Originally Posted by ~Carmen~ View Post
    I would have banned too. I recently banned a level 3 regular on SM who used to buy into all my gold shows. I decided to stop doing so many gold shows because I like classic chat better. He won't do privates and he would just sit in my room and chat me up all day. That distracted me from paying customers. I told him I did not mind him sitting there chatting but a little tip every once in awhile would be nice. He replied that I was only after money and he was disappointed in me. So I banned him from chat and messages.
    Those guys piss me right the hell off. I swear some of these guys get real life and this mixed up. DUHHH fucktard...your on a paying cam site...if you wanna meet girls and talk to them for free go else where. These men need to grow a brain.

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    I haven't banned a regular yet, but I have two regs I cannot stand. Its getting harder and harder for me to deal with them though. Its bad when I see them and I cringe just because I know they will hit that private button. Today I was ban happy.. bad day to start off with and the first 10 minutes of camming brought out my evil side. I had to sign out and collect myself before I banned everyone. Oh well...I'm getting to the point I could care less if they spend money on me...the next guy will. Regs dont last long anyway. Most of my regs just stop buying shows and come in to say hi and just chat. I will chat for awhile, but eventually I stop even saying hello to them. The have a expiration date with me..as I do with them. This is a paid sex site...I'm not here for you to get off with for awhile, then you just want to chat because you feel we have some kinda of stupid ass connection. WTF ever DUDE...grow a freaking brain and move on to annoying some other cam girl until she's tired of you as well. Like I said in the above post..men get this shit mixed up with real life. I guess they think we are horny sex monsters and we need dick to live. I guess it is their fantasy...but I rarely get off with them. The minute the shows stops, my moaning, and dirty talk abruptly ends and my dildo is thrown on the floor . My husband thinks is comical. All this shit is, is a bunch of acting to get their money and when the cash stops coming..they can get lost.

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    Just banned a Level 4 regular on SM. I was already in a bad mood, and he was 4 months overdue on my birthday gift (which really pissed me off). I cannot stand broken promises.

    He, for some reason, did not take me excl last night and abruptly left without saying bye. -blocks-

    He was my only level 4 too. But he had only taken me excl once in the past 2 months and had recently stopped tipping me $100 gold after every show. No patience.



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    Quote Originally Posted by ksage13 View Post
    Do you ever come across people that you just have a bad feeling about and don't trust them? I feel like the ones who are extremely generous and nice as pie, then have a nasty attitude when they don't get what they want, can't be trusted. Also there have been people who pay for things I said I MIGHT do, or things I said I wasn't doing, then get mad and bug me for not delivering. Like are you kidding... Don't be mad at me because you're trying to bribe me and its not working lol. I always offer to try to send their money back and they cop an attitude like "just forget it!" Oh ok
    I used to have a good-spending regular on MFC who was super sweet, but then one day he flipped the fuck out just because I didn't call him first thing in the morning on his birthday (I had promised him a birthday phone call, but never specified a time). He went off, and started blowing up my phone with text messages (this is back when I gave out my REAL phone number)...talking shit about how my child should be ashamed to have a mother who's a "cam whore" and blah, blah, blah. Tried blocking him on my phone, but apparently the block didn't "take," so I think I had to go into my Sprint account online and add his number to my blocked list for it to finally go through. Then after that, I had logged into my MFC public chat and was advertising a raffle, and he came in talking about "Your raffles ain't shit." So I had to block him from my phone, as well as block him on MFC.

    And as for the guys who tip for stuff you say you won't do, that's their own damn fault for thinking they can dangle money in your face to get their way all the time. I told a guy on MFC once that I absolutely do not public cum shows, and he tipped some 4-digit token amount and was like "Now will you do it?" I told him nope...you could've just used those tokens to take me into a true private. SMH.
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    I try really hard not to ban regulars on any of my sites.

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    I think its important to ban regulars for the following reasons: If they are over stepping things, banning them lays down boundaries. Thats very important when camming. YOU are in control, if someone over crosses your personal boundaries then they must be told either verbally or through a temp ban. Secondly comfort levels, anyone who becomes annoying will make you feel uncomfortable and this will seep over into shows and with other customers. A comfortable camgirl will always put on a better show than someone who is annoyed by pathetic comments or someone overstepping the line constantly.

    Ban away I say

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    I've only banned a few. The majority are cheapo level 1 spenders who eventually just turned into habitual peepers. The other one was a fairly needy reg who spent A LOT of money on me at first, but over the course of a few months would come in to my free chat, monopolize my attention, dangle the possibility of a show over my head like some sort of stupid fucked up carrot, and then after getting his fill of free attention would never follow through and bail. I was new-ish and put up with it for way too long. When I finally did ban him it felt like what I imagine heroin feels like the first time. THAT GOOD. In fact re-living it right now still feels hella good!

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    I have a 2 I'm about to ban. He's bought 2 custom videos from me in 6 months so he's of course now a 2. He acts like he's a damn 3 and it's getting irritating. Once they become needy & think they own you, time to move on from that. I'll ban a 3 if they're irritating. I'm a ruthless bitch. My sanity is worth more than money.

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