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    Default Hope everyone is having a GREAT weekend...need some advice for free/guest/member chat

    Hi ladies!!
    This forum has been great for me, I've only been camming for a few months, and I find so many great advice, stories, opinions and just general rants and info here-thank you so much.

    I need some advise from you gals...I've been on a few sites, doing this a few months.
    Starting out, I think the biggest mistake I made was trying waaaay too hard in the free and guest chat. I know I need to flirt a lot, be appealing and fun, but I was burning up so much of my energy in the free/guest/member chat in hopes that I would be taken private.

    I still find myself doing that, maybe not as much, but I'm just trying to get someone...anyone to take me private sometimes.

    I make sure I look good when I go online, makeup, room is well lit all of that. I keep is simple with the dress, like sometimes bra and g-string or cool tank tap with a g-string. Occasionally a nice nightie or slip with cute undies or g-string.

    How do some of you gals behave or talk in the guest chat area?? I think from reading these forums and a few others, the more you do (like flashing or showing your booty a lot) it just encourages the free loaders.

    I will still turn around and show my ass here and there, it's one of my better features I guess (hehe)
    ...and most of the guests/members do tell me I am very attractive and sexy....which I always great to hear, I just want to get more privates without wearing myself down in the process.
    How do some of you gals do it?? I mean get the privates without burning up all of your energy in the free and guest chat.

    I know I'm still learning, believe me I try every day and when I log on to whichever profile I'm trying I am positive and have high hopes.

    Thanks in advance...could really use some more tips from you ladies.

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    Default Re: Hope everyone is having a GREAT weekend...need some advice for free/guest/member

    OMG...not harsh and cynical at all dear...I don't like the free chat on some web sites...it's hard to tough it out when you are required to do some of it. Haven't given up, but it's hard to take sometimes

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    Default Re: Hope everyone is having a GREAT weekend...need some advice for free/guest/member

    I just... chill. I sit on my bed, usually in a tank top and tanga or booty shorts, I don't wear thongs on cam bc they don't see my ass unless they pay and for that I can hike them up or take them off. I find a comfy position (making sure they don't get a good view of my ass or feet), say hi/how are you/etc to people as they come in... and just chat a bit. It's usually very PG-13 but occasionally I'll throw in something dirty just to get their attention (a quick comment, out of the blue, not enough to get off on.) No dancing around or posing. I'll show ass/tits/etc for tips but that's it. If they want more than short, platonic chat time they have to pay for it. Since I work classic chat I'm almost always pleasant and sweet--unless I think something's funny and want to share it with the other guys, I just ignore/kick/ban any losers. So basically, I'm sweet, friendly, attainable (for a price), and always a bit distracted. As a result I've had many, many guys who were trying to chat me up in free take me pvt and say that they wanted my undivided attention.

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    Default Re: Hope everyone is having a GREAT weekend...need some advice for free/guest/member

    I generally never have to burn all my energy in free chat. unless the guys are boring me and if that's the case the mad dash to log off before I die of it is the most energy I burn. The guys who want to have fun with me based on looks will always take me private without me having to say a word. The freeloaders will do what they do without me having to say a word and the gusy who what to get to know me a little before taking me private will do so without me having to flash tits or an ass hole so I don't do anything but be pretty in free chat. I don't flash for tips in free either, the honor of seeing my goodies are for the gentlemen who can take me private and out of the eyes of the hobos.
    As for as talking, I talk like my character. Im the girl you wish you had next door, so your not gonna hear super raunchy things coming got of my mouth. But talk what ever way your comfortable with, you know when you see a girl trying to be sexy but she looks very awkward, that's because she uncomfortable ( nor is she herself) with how she's acting/talking and it reads. So however you talk or act, whether it be dominate, slutty or shy, be comfortable and confident within yourself and if not practice it off cam until you are.

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    Default Re: Hope everyone is having a GREAT weekend...need some advice for free/guest/member

    Every time I cam it's a different stradegy , depending on how my room is flowing. I am the type of person who gets bored very, very easily, especially if I'm not making money. I remedy that by doing a number of different things.
    if I haven't worked out yet that day, and I notice that the same user names who never pay are coming in being silent, I put on music full blast, and dance, and ignore the chat.
    If I notice a new user name I start a conversation and ignore everyone else who is lurking, which usually results in a prvt.
    I play trivia games, and storytelling for tips, using different categories.
    my feeling is, I'm going to get paid no matter what.
    Sometimes, I just sit there, dildo in front of the cam, and ignore them, and look bored. That gets lots of prvts. also.
    When I'm not feeling it, I do long voyeur shows, and zone out watching T.V.

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