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    So we have a bachelor party tomorrow. We are going to start off at a paintball field for 4+ hours, head home and get cleaned up, grab a nice steak dinner we have made arrangements with at a bar, then we are heading out to a club, most likely after 9pm. We already paid for getting in the door, a drinks package, etc. The club has stage dances, lounge/couch type dances, and the presidential dances as they call them. The club we are going to has a bar attached to the club. The club servers beer and some mixers, the bar is fully stocked for shots, hard alcohol, etc. As far as I recall the ladies are not allowed to do shots, but can be bought a mixer or a beer. They are not allowed into the bar and I assume this goes for before or after shifts as well.

    So how, as a dancer, would you react to this? Would you even want to be involved? And what if, as a group, they would like you to hang with them for a while. (Assuming you are also paid for the time! Very generous tips of the stage show, dances for the bachelor and co, etc)

    And how would you say a guy from the group like this should approach a dancer the others might not be interested in, but he wants to spend a bit of time with.

    And any other tips, insights, etc you wish to share!

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    I didn't drink at work, so the whole not-being-allowed-in-the-bar-area wouldn't be a dealbreaker for me. Give me my tall glass of juice & I am a happy camper

    I found bachelor parties to be hit or miss. Had a very fun time w/ one involving lots&lots of dances, & a conspiracy involving a pink tutu, w/ a respectful group just out for a good time. Also had ones where I was expected to come home w/ the stag/party & nastily turned away when I refused, w/ no $$ for the time w/ them. That's the first thing I thought of when I saw your question abt the group wanting dancers to 'hang out for awhile', you are meaning just ITC I hope.

    I am shy by nature & always had a hard time approaching groups. Also, I worked w/ a few girls who specifically avoided bachelor parties b/c their experiences were of rowdy, out of control jackwagons. Just a thought, you might have to show a little initiative to get the girl(s) you're interested in to come over. But just like any other trip to the SC, pay well, be polite to your chosen dancer(s), don't try to put hands or mouths where they are not welcome, & pay well!

    As to approaching a dancer your mates might not be into, but you are - go for it. You are there to celebrate w/ your buddy, but that doesn't mean you can't have sm say in which dancer you spend your time & $$ on. Most dancers would also welcome being approached for dances.

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    Yes in the club only. If we wanted something like that we would have hired out.

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    I myself like it when they have the bachelor crawl around the stage on all fours, with a dancer on top of him


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    Default Re: Bachelor Party Recommendations!

    Hang out at the bar to get drinks initially and for top ups. Take your naughty beverages (if allowed ?) into the club to spend time with the dancers and organise fun for the buck, tip the stage shows etc.
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    Couldn't bring the hard alcohol over to the stripper side. Still didn't stop us from having a good time. The boyo still has some marks on him. He got the hard core treatment after being tied to the chair, including one of them removing his belt and giving him a few good whacks. We all had some paintball bruises on us from earlier in the day and he has a welt on top of one now. We also splurged on a 30 minute VIP for him and added a generous tip on top so the gal wouldn't try for more from him which she did not. He was happy. The rest was spent mostly on the stage shows, drinks, and when we left we bought the whole house a beer. We did several pass the bucks for the stage show where you paid for the guy to your right and ended up getting everyone around the stage to put up money several times. I believe by the end of the night pretty much every dance there got some money and at least one drink from us.

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