So I would like to have your opinion on having sex with a guy on the first date...
Unfortunately, this is something I am guilty of doing... I have such a high sex drive, I looove sex!!! but I never have a sex buddy. I prefer having sex often with the same guy and when I am not seeing or dating somebody I abstain. I am also very selective and I rarely meet new guys (except at work...), I am always at the library studying lol. So when I finally meet someone I am interested in, I hate to admit it but I often sleep with him after the first date or so...
It's not something I have always done, but it happened in the past where I would wait months before sleeping with a guy and end up being so disappointed... I now like to know if we are compatible sexually before deciding wether I want to take the relationship further or not...
The first man I loved and been with for quite a long period, I slept with him on the first date.. It did not stop him from wanting to be serious with me and he treated me extremely well... I am not with him anymore and I noticed that even though I am beautiful, smart and educated, men tend to lose respect for me or not take me seriously after they see that I sleep too early with them.I am currently seeing a guy I really like but I have the impression he doesn't really want more than sex from me and perhaps judge me based on the fact that I may have slept too quickly with him.
I've talked with a couple of girls, some strongly disagree with what I do. While others say that if a man really wants to be with me, it doesn't matter if I sleep with him right away or in 4 months and if a guy doesn't want to commit, even if he has to wait for months it won't stop him from dumping me after he finally gets what he wants.
What do you girls think? And if there is any guys reading this thread, I would like to know what you think as well. Do you have a low opinion of a woman who sleeps with you on the first or first couple of dates, does it influence your perception of her?



I am currently seeing a guy I really like but I have the impression he doesn't really want more than sex from me and perhaps judge me based on the fact that I may have slept too quickly with him.
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I believe in both celibacy and having lover if you want sex without a relationship. But I am sexual adventurer

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