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    Default movivation due to burn out

    I tried looking in the search bar but couldnt find anything so heres what happened
    I took my usual two days off then I found out i had a yeast infection from hell, took two pills and monistat. A week later I could cam
    no big deal..right?
    That day I could go on cam I started my period. I got the soft cup things and still had blood leakage... so next time I am
    reordering some sponges, because tampons and soft cups tend to get blood on toys or fingers.
    so I took another week off... then a few more days because my period was actually longer than 7 days... >.<

    I have cammed about 3 times during the past 3 weeks.

    I cant seem to get myself to go into my cam room
    I even rearranged it around and fixed my lighting to make myself feel better


    all i want to do is just spend time with my family and nothing else

    but i know I need to make money, just not sure what my problem is.

    so much going on with my body...
    I deal with depression and when i get online I want to get off because I feel like its going to take forever to make
    the money i was making.

    I need some help...its hard for me to even get ready during the day

    I am now on anti-depression pills to help with my depression and anxiety


    Has anyone else had this problem?

    its been a month since I cammed regularly.

    I just want to feel good again
    I want to feel excited about making money and having the best job I have ever had

    thanks for reading this.

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    Default Re: movivation due to burn out

    The longer you stay off cam the harder it will be to get back on. Log on ASAP, even if it's just for half an hour a day, because it is way too easy to get into the habit of never getting on cam. Don't concentrate on money if that demotivates you, concentrate on time (the 1000 minutes challenge is great for that.) Your flow must be super heavy because I've never had an issue with blood getting on my fingers from tampons, for me absolutely nothing gets past those things... hmmm... I know some people on here use (clean) makeup sponges, there's mixed reviews on that but it might be worth a try. If nothing else you can put in a tampon and fake finger penetration (curl your fingers against your palm and just move your arm.) It works best in riding. Good luck with everything!

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    Default Re: movivation due to burn out

    This is really simple...but the way I get myself to cam when I don't want to is to tell myself "I don't need to stay on long"..."I can take a break and walk away any time I want to"...and then once I'm on its always easy to stay there.

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    Default Re: movivation due to burn out

    called my doctor and i am getting my implanon removed today...because of the bleeding nonstop and heavy bleeding. any good lubes cause i cant use coconut oil for lube if i use condoms with my bf

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    Default Re: movivation due to burn out

    *hugs* Hang in there! Camming can take you into dips where you're going, "Wtf is wrong with me!?"

    A good start could be to log in for ONE hour a day, every day. Just one! It'll get you up, get you ready and showered, and get you moving. When you're ready/when you want to, put in a little more time. Maybe stay on for that extra half hour on Thursday or whatever, but don't overdo it! I am up to 4 hours a day, 4 days a week right now. Keeps me refreshed, ready, and eager to get back in without overdoing it (unless I get super rambunctious, lol!).

    I am a heavy flow kinda gal too. No help from me there because on my Shark Week I don't cam, I just make non-penetration clips to help boost that week!

    Sometimes you need a little foreplay to get wet <3 So diddle that cam bb, diddle start button bb. Mmm.

    Don't expect much, though! You may get 7 bucks in that one hour, you might get 50, maybe more! Just focus on being on and training yourself to not flip out/be unapproachable on cam. You're getting back into it, let things progress naturally!

    Just food for thought, always taken with a grain of sugar

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    Default Re: movivation due to burn out

    Thank you guys sooo much. I feel like im such a mess lately

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    Default Re: movivation due to burn out

    May not believe me but if you can find time..get into yoga or pilates. Really, need to get in some ME time and attempt to do something which releases stress and increases endorphins. Hope this helps!

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    i was going to start pilates after my birth control is out and my period is back to normal. right now i feel too gross to do anything cause i bleed 24/7

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    Default Re: movivation due to burn out

    You are not a mess, you are human. We all have times when we don't want to cam for various reasons. Try slowly going back on cam for an hour or two for a couple days and then bumping it up another hour each day. Having a lot going on also makes you not want to cam sometimes. I'm having health issues too and it so makes me not want to cam. I tried to cam last week a bit and just logged off because I couldn't focus. You have to make your health a priority and the rest will fall in place.

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    Default Re: movivation due to burn out

    I tried this the other night when I just was dreading going on (hadn't happened before, but didn't realize I was getting my period): I told myself I didn't care if I made ANY money, I was just going on for some nice compliments--like you wouldn't get in a stuck-up bar. And, all dolled up with compliments and requests coming in, I felt pretty good after that.

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    Default Re: movivation due to burn out

    Hope you will get better soon!!

    Until you can cam with whole of you, why not try clips4sale and make some simple clips and to rest? At least, you will make money. Better than zero. You would feel more comfortable to get on cam over the weeks by making clips. Just a suggestion.




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    Default Re: movivation due to burn out

    well i got my birth control removed out of my arm and yesterday when i got home i felt EXTREMELY exhausted after it was removed.
    and felt irritated, fidgety, and just overall horribly emotional, so put on some jeeper creepers and chilled on the couch and went to bed early
    I am bleeding more now but in a few days i am guessing my body will feel normal since my hormones are dropping a lot

    Honestly I am thrilled i decided not to use hormones in my body... I am going to see if I feel better overall...energy wise and see how it affects my camming
    sucky thing is no coconut oil with my bf. due to using condoms..but me feeling like me and not some raging *itch will probably make things a looooot better at home and camming

    So happy i have you guys as support, ty

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    It seems like you're slowly easing into it which is so good! Keep going, and the clips suggestion is brilliant, even if it's just a million clips of you with your feet in the cam. Anything is better than nothing <3

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    Default Re: movivation due to burn out

    Like everyone else said, just concentrate on getting back on cam, everyday, even if its only for an hour or two at first...

    Also, dont focus on money if it demotivates u, focus on hours put in, and then check ur $$ status every 2 days or so...this way the slow periods and the good times will even out a bit so ur not on a roller coaster of "im banking!!!" and then "im not making anything "

    we are all there with u! we all know how u feel...

    also i just realized this recently...i think it helps if u dont think about camming when ur off cam. yes u should think about it so u go online, but other than that, off cam, do NOT think about ur regs, dont stew over stuff some troll said to you, and that includes not having to worry about not camming enough (so put in ur time, then u can ENJOY your time with your family!)

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    Default Re: movivation due to burn out

    Awww *hugs* that's why I like doing this job. You can rest when you need to. im new at this whole buiness , but What about phone sex on your rough days if the site you're on provides a phone option.Or, cover your cam so they cant see you
    that way you can stay in your pjs.Maybe disguise it as telling your customers you want to fulfill his every wish with mystery, or something? Idk, lol Just thinking out loud. Feel better.

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    Default Re: movivation due to burn out

    Quote Originally Posted by Jade62013 View Post
    also i just realized this recently...i think it helps if u dont think about camming when ur off cam. yes u should think about it so u go online, but other than that, off cam, do NOT think about ur regs, dont stew over stuff some troll said to you, and that includes not having to worry about not camming enough (so put in ur time, then u can ENJOY your time with your family!)
    This is SUCH great advice and I hope I can follow it. I'm taking a desperately needed day off tomorrow but already I caught myself planning cam-related things. I need my brain to just STAHP with the camming already.

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    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=31g0Y...ature=youtu.be

    how i feel right now....so taking the night off.

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