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    this is my resting face when im smiling if you were someone coming into my chat room and you saw me like this what would you think was wrong that would make you leave soon as you got in? because i cant figure it out. a lot of ppl say that i look sad or tired or something other then content and chilling witch is what i am . i know my eyes are small - but like really ? is it that bad? do i need to wear different make up and make my eyes look bigger? do i need to just be talking to my computer screen having full on conversations with myself because my resting face is that bad. I dunno something is wrong with this face and i cant change it if i dont know what the issue is.
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    I think most people look rather bored / tired / sad when their face is neutral. I know I definitely have heard that about myself - that I look sad or something (in person). It's the same as some people looking angry all the time even when they're not (although this is generally just applicable to older people I guess).

    I see tons of models that just look somewhat bored in their rooms....hell...it's hard entertaining these dudes all day with little return from the majority of them lol.

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    I have the same facial expression at rest! I'll take a pic or video and feel like I'm smiling just to end up looking grumpy when I see the end product. Just put a bit more effort into your smile and it can help. Sometimes guys just want to see a bright smile. And it only takes 14 muscles to do it!

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    To my eye you look just slightly irritated or something. I can't quite put my finger on it. I have the SAME problem though! People always come in and are like "why are you so sad bb"? I'm learning to try and do things when I'm just hanging out waiting for people that make me laugh or amuse me because then the smile reaches my eyes and it works better otherwise, I look like a total grump. I can't read forums or anything like that because I get intensely into it and I look mean or angry when I have the intense thing going on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Staples View Post
    To my eye you look just slightly irritated or something. I can't quite put my finger on it. I have the SAME problem though! People always come in and are like "why are you so sad bb"? I'm learning to try and do things when I'm just hanging out waiting for people that make me laugh or amuse me because then the smile reaches my eyes and it works better otherwise, I look like a total grump. I can't read forums or anything like that because I get intensely into it and I look mean or angry when I have the intense thing going on.
    That's me too. I have that "sad / lost" resting face. And it's like "I'm not sad!!! My face is just stuck like this." lol







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    A little tired. Maybe a little bored. I'm not a cam girl, so I probably shouldn't give advice. I feel like if you were leaning forward, maybe smiling a little more that would look like you were ready to engage, a bit more. I strip and in slow shifts at work, guys used to tell me I looked board when I was laying back in a chair, waiting for something to happen. I stopped getting so many of these comments but sitting up straighter and smiling more. Sometimes I'll bop around to the music or mouth the lyrics, for a few minutes. Or I'll glance at my phone and laugh for absolutely no reason (but the guys don't know what). I feel like those things show that I'm present and not off in lala land, dreaming of turning on HBO and eating ice cream when I get home (even though I am in lala land, counting down the minutes until I can attack that ice cream).

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    Your lips look a little tight to me. Maybe try to relax your mouth a little?

    I can never really rest my face. My lips naturally curve downward, which makes me look sad. I have trained myself to hold them up.lol
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    Off topic, but I'm very jealous of your boobs. Just saying. They make my boobs feel sad about themselves. My boobs are pouting, right now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sammii View Post
    If you're trying to make your eyes appear bigger, then the color on your lid is way too dark.
    Gotta echo this. While I think pink shadow looks cool it does tend to make people's eyes look irritated, which is probably why guys assume you're tired. Try a diff color on the lid with a white/silver accent just below your eyebrow and your eyes will appear much more open and bright

    you're cute as hell btw

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    I wish I could remember where it was but I read a study once where they asked people to interpret men's and women's facial expressions. Men overwhelmingly said that women's neutral faces looked mad and that their happy faces looked neutral. So you basically have to be smiling your ass off for guys to consider you happy. It's not fair and this is an annoying issue I deal with pretty much every day IRL. But that's the way it is, so try being super bubbly instead of assuming that guys will be able to read a subtle "neutral" face. They're emotionally retarded. You gotta make it idiot proof for them to figure out your mood!
    Don't try to win over the haters. You are not the Jerk Whisperer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by loveshooks View Post

    you're cute as hell btw
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    I have permanent snarky face and you expression reminds me of mine right before I get sarcastic. I think it's cute and would make me want to talk to you, but guys tend to want you to be happy happy. I have no clue what to do about it, though. Still you're adorable.

    PS Your tat is awesome and made me smile.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rina View Post

    PS Your tat is awesome and made me smile.
    o thax its the cover to the tao of pooh book i became a taoist because of that book its like a permanent homage
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    Without reading what others said (not to be influenced) i would say that is not a proper smile, ur eyes do not smile nor do ur mouth. When u smile best is to open ur lips and show teeth a little, then simply smile with ur whole face and heart.
    (I always smile and people compliment me for it, my cheeks hurt after a few hrs of smiling lol).

    That is a fake smile u try but i dont sense it as a smile, ur eyes are like a cat eyes looking straight and ur lips are 'sealed'.
    The make up, pink is not a good color for ur lid, try to find a neutral color for ur lid and another for under the brow, in fact u need bright color for inner eye area and darker for outer side, google make up styles and see how women do make up.

    Another thing is the wig, i would not wear any and go with my natural hair no matter how short it is, that wig is looking soo fake.

    Another thing, i always wear very dark/ black dress under my tits, either a nightie colored on upper side and black below tits or a black skirt i pull to under my tits and i wear a colorful bra, i never show my tummy in bright colors.
    I have outfits i wear just on request exactly for this reason.
    I am curvy/ small BBW myself but i hide what is looking not flattering.

    Ok, i hope my input is helpful, it comes from a person that studied arts (fashion included). Good luck!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Snowy0Star View Post
    o thax its the cover to the tao of pooh book i became a taoist because of that book its like a permanent homage
    I have that book as well, a few other Pooh related philosophy books. Pooh is truly wise and I am contemplating a Pooh tat
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    thax guys i try to be fun and colorful with my makeup so i always match it with the color of what im wearing should i stop doing that and just go for neutral eyeshadow colors?
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    Snowy Dear neutral colours work much better if you would like to get close to the girl next door type. The secret in my opinion is not the colorful eyeshadow but the pretty big lashes. Lately I dont use eyeshadows but I simply make a cat eye for myself. Mainly because my lips are one of my best assets so I rather pop those out lol And big bright red lips would look like a bit trashy with dramatic look make up.

    And honestly if I were you I wouldnt use that specific wig. Sweety you have a round face and this wig wasnt created for your face shape. The shorter part which rounds your face makes your face a bit rounder. I guess there are applications for you know being able to match a wig to your face before you purchase it I would really recommend you to try it because that way you can see how would it actually look on you. Those ladies who wear the wigs in promo pics have different face structure than u have sweety so even though the desired wig looks amazing it might look slightly different on you.
    Plus if you try this the face match thing you can spare lots of money.
    Actually I love your real hair colour. Even with the hydrogen blond highlights in it. I would really suggest you to look for a wig with that colour combination it would suit u amazingly.
    Do not buy a wig with bangs your forehead is not that high so those type of wigs might look a lil bit weird on you.
    I know you love anime <3 but for a working with if I were you I would totally go for a more natural look.
    For the dress I would totally suggest you to wear whatever you love dear. seriously what u feel yourself comfy in. I think it is important because on cam you have to represent u. Real regs would wanna choose you because of who u r not what are you trying to look like.
    And I guess that could have been the main problem dear. Love yourself SNOWY! I know its easy to talk but I ve been there done that. And the minute I started to love myself for what I am how do I look like and what kind of person I am things started to get better day by day! The real you is amazing! Do not give away the chance from others to see that!
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    yeah im not going to use that wig anymore its a wig i got for a cosplay i do at anime conventions looks cute at cons but i guess not so much on cam.
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    Can I just say I love your tao of poo tattoo ♥

    Idk if this is just the pic but if you had a clearer cam that would probably help too, if you are changing things up.

    ETA: I also have a round face and I find the most flattering style for that face type is long, loose waves with a side part.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Charlotteslut View Post
    Can I just say I love your tao of poo tattoo ♥

    Idk if this is just the pic but if you had a clearer cam that would probably help too, if you are changing things up.

    ETA: I also have a round face and I find the most flattering style for that face type is long, loose waves with a side part.
    its a 9000 i have a c920 but this comp cant handle it it makes my cam blurry and grainy a bit its a Pentium 4 even my 750 socket reg couldn't handle it but i think my 1155 socket rig can handle it but my processor might be blown so i have to wait i got a new 1155 socket motherboard so when i get it from the post office i have to see if i get POST beeps or not when i turn in it. if it doenst the processor is shot then save up 300$ for an i7 i was told an i5 can be overclocked to an i7 with water cooling but i dont wanna fuck with that stuff . this comp needs to die tho the sound drivers are shoot now so i cant hear anything out of it anymore and nothing i download works when i try and get drivers from the net. i have no clue WTF the guy i got from on CL did to it but the drivers i ordered off the gateway website for this model wont work thats the first place i tired.

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    Gosh it's hard for me to get out of the cam performer mode of this. As a customer first time popping into your room I would say you have a smirk on your face and look very cute but rather bored or tired. The smirk could be, you just banned an idiot, or not impressed with the chat right now. It's so hard to say, when there are no words coming out of your mouth. Tight lipped is usually a sign of being peeved or just not amused atm.
    I think you carry the look very well, as I would look like a full on bitch with that look. I think body posture speaks volumes when working cam as well. Your face is looking at the cam, but your body is facing away from the cam... that could be what I really see that makes the picture look like you are not into it right now. Body posture is off? Tough call since you are pretty.

    Side note: You are so cute, and carry cute very well. You are fresh faced and have the sweet girl next door look I see. I like the clothes, and love the hair wig or real. Makeup if pinks I feel on the lips, glossy pink and maybe a brown smokey eye would perhaps wake the look up. I think pink or reds on the eyes make us look tired.
    I would pop in and say HELLO! Toss a few tips!

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    You look ready to log off, like your about to say " good nite boys." You do look relaxed, not sad though. They probably say your tired because your not moving. Not saying you have to get up and toosie roll but those lil movements we all make when were talking or laughing with friends, your not making them( when they say you look sad that is). Lil things like sitting up straight, flipping your hair, if you have music on moving your shoulders alil bit, tilting you head or just waving hello when a new guy enters. Lil movements like that will make you look as awake as you are. And smile with teeth showing that will also help you not look sad.

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    I've been told that I look a little like Michelle Williams (of Destiny's Child) when she has that "worried" look on her face. I know the look people are talking about. People will look at me and be like "What's wrong?" because they swear I look sad about something...when half the time that's just my serious look or my 'deep in thought' look...lol.
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    Something I do to keep my face look super awake is to tap bright silver/white eyeshadow into the inner corners of my eyes. It makes your eyes look larger, brighter, and way happier. Sorry for the kind of strange pic, I could only find an example of my makeup from a picture I took right after one of my camshows.



    It had rubbed off slightly throughout the show, but you can still kinda see what I mean I hope? I think it makes a world of difference! I was exhausted when I took this picture, but I feel like the silver in the inside corner of my eye somehow reflects light in a way that makes me look wide awake.

    I also always make sure to keep a light source right behind my cam and fiddle with it until it keeps me super bright, but not over-exposed. I'm constantly changing my lights until they look just right!
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    OMG I know how you feel! I have one of those faces too. Even a stock boy at a grocery store has made a comment about me looking mad, but it's just how my face looks. I have to smile lots, with lots of teeth, to the point that my cheeks hurt. That's the only time I don't get comments like that. If I am having health issues or flare ups... I just don't even bother showing my face because it's hard to smile through the pain. Not everyone likes their teeth when they smile, but if you do, I suggest doing that as often as possible! Totally understand your frustration though!

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