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    So I was at my local club, in the Northeast, suburb of a major city, hanging w/ my stripper GF. I asked about a dancer who I used to see there but hadn't seen in a few weeks. She told me she had met a guy who worked in the aforementioned city who had a lot of money and was taking care of her and that was why she hadn't been dancing. She went on to say that when girls aren't around for a few weeks/months that was usually what happened, so I think the whole stripper/sugar daddy relationship thing is most likely downplayed by the girls and is probably happening more then a lot of the girls will admit. Any opinions/comments?

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    Sm girls certainly pick up sugar daddies, but interestingly, we also move, take vacations or find jobs in our chosen career fields, just like ppl in any other job.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alexander5691 View Post
    So I was at my local club, in the Northeast, suburb of a major city, hanging w/ my stripper GF. I asked about a dancer who I used to see there but hadn't seen in a few weeks. She told me she had met a guy who worked in the aforementioned city who had a lot of money and was taking care of her and that was why she hadn't been dancing. She went on to say that when girls aren't around for a few weeks/months that was usually what happened, so I think the whole stripper/sugar daddy relationship thing is most likely downplayed by the girls and is probably happening more then a lot of the girls will admit. Any opinions/comments?
    Why do you care???

    Strippers are generally private. What we do and don't do outside of the club isn't usually publicized. It's not that girls "downplay" their lives outside the club doors... we just don't air our personal business to others, period.

    The fact of the matter is that there are too many big-mouths out there (like your "stripper GF") who blab to customers and gossip in the dressing room.

    It's not your "stripper GF's" business, it's not your business, it's not downplayed... it's just a matter that is not your concern.

    Long story short: Dancers are independent contractors. We don't have to "admit" shit.
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    At my last club everyone knew about my "sugar daddy." It was a lovely Anna Nicole situation. Guy was 9 million years old. Like he could barely walk. So no extra stuff. If I had ever provided him with extras, he probably would have died on the spot. I played that shit up!! I let everyone know that fool was mine!

    But like Sophia said, I, like most strippers keep many things to myself. My real name, everything about my real life, my yeast infections. I ALWAYS really play down my yeast infections.

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    And that dude laid some sugar on me, if that wasn't clear. Paid off my car loan, paid for 3 semesters of college, furnished my house.... Love that man!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alexander5691 View Post
    So I was at my local club, in the Northeast, suburb of a major city, hanging w/ my stripper GF. I asked about a dancer who I used to see there but hadn't seen in a few weeks. She told me she had met a guy who worked in the aforementioned city who had a lot of money and was taking care of her and that was why she hadn't been dancing. She went on to say that when girls aren't around for a few weeks/months that was usually what happened, so I think the whole stripper/sugar daddy relationship thing is most likely downplayed by the girls and is probably happening more then a lot of the girls will admit. Any opinions/comments?
    Thoughts? First of all your "stripper GF" isn't very discrete or very bright if she is (a) blabbing about the private business of another dancer and (b) actually believes what she told you.
    Secondly, who should these ladies be admitting anything to? What they do outside of the club is no one's business least of all that of gossiping customers or other dancers.
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    Usually when I'm out if the club for a couple weeks it's for an abortion/heroin detox. I try to schedule them together so I don't miss too much work. I have a very strong work ethic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasmine.Doll View Post
    Usually when I'm out if the club for a couple weeks it's for an abortion/heroin detox. I try to schedule them together so I don't miss too much work. I have a very strong work ethic.


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    Thoughts? First of all your "stripper GF" isn't very discrete or very bright if she is (a) blabbing about the private business of another dancer and (b) actually believes what she told you.
    Secondly, who should these ladies be admitting anything to? What they do outside of the club is no one's business least of all that of gossiping customers or other dancers.
    Nice in theory Yoda, but as I'm sure you know it happens all the time. I could fill a small book with how much gossip I hear from dancers in a given year.

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    We were just talking to each other in confidence. She knows i won't tell anyone else at the club anything she tells me like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alexander5691 View Post
    so I think the whole stripper/sugar daddy relationship thing is most likely downplayed by the girls and is probably happening more then a lot of the girls will admit
    ^Regulars are common i.e. a dancer making majority of her income from one or two regulars who spend a large amount of time with the dancer inside the club. Sugar daddies aren't as common in the industry as you would think.
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    ^^Maybe my guy wasn't really a sugar daddy. Just a good regular. I guess I don't really know what a sugar daddy is.... Thought it was just a old guy that gave you tons of cash/stuff. I only saw the guy I mentioned OTC 4 times. I worked at this place for 2 years. On his Bday and on Vday, we would meet at some cineplex to see a movie. All 4 times he didn't recognize me in clothes. I had to chase him down, while he asked everyone around him if they'd seen a "real pretty girl." One time he was eating popcorn and his denture came loose and he nearly choked to death. Yes, my OTC action is steamy hot.

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    I'm always so puzzled by questions like this in the Customer Convo section. Are there these proclivities/traits/lifestyle choices/preferences in men that can be applied as an umbrella statement over the hundreds of thousands of strippers in the tens of thousands of strip clubs that exist?

    No, no, no a million times no.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    I could fill a small book with how much gossip I hear from dancers in a given year.
    This is exactly why I keep my lips sealed .

    I don't talk about myself too openly... I definitely don't talk behind the backs of other dancers... and I super-duper-definitely don't gossip to customers about what the girls at the club are doing, may be doing, etc.

    You wanna know why? .....Because I'm too busy stripping!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasmine.Doll View Post
    Usually when I'm out if the club for a couple weeks it's for an abortion/heroin detox. I try to schedule them together so I don't miss too much work. I have a very strong work ethic.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    Nice in theory Yoda, but as I'm sure you know it happens all the time. I could fill a small book with how much gossip I hear from dancers in a given year.
    Sure it does rick but I don't have much use for it myself. It's more than likely that I won't be spending much time or money on dancers who waste a lot of my time bad-mouthing other dancers. I've got regular girls in every club I go to. The great thing about that is that we have established conversation topics when I visit and just sort of pick up where we left off on my last visit. Just about all of them are on the older side and well beyond the dressing room drama stage of their dancing careers. They are too busy making a living to sit around gossiping.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasmine.Doll View Post
    Usually when I'm out if the club for a couple weeks it's for an abortion/heroin detox. I try to schedule them together so I don't miss too much work. I have a very strong work ethic.
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    It's not any concern of a customer who does what with us on our off hours. If you don't like that we give attention to some guys and not you then here is the deal...
    OUTSPEND HIM!

    Quote Originally Posted by Alexander5691 View Post
    So I was at my local club, in the Northeast, suburb of a major city, hanging w/ my stripper GF. I asked about a dancer who I used to see there but hadn't seen in a few weeks. She told me she had met a guy who worked in the aforementioned city who had a lot of money and was taking care of her and that was why she hadn't been dancing. She went on to say that when girls aren't around for a few weeks/months that was usually what happened, so I think the whole stripper/sugar daddy relationship thing is most likely downplayed by the girls and is probably happening more then a lot of the girls will admit. Any opinions/comments?

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    It's not any concern of a customer who does what with us on our off hours. If you don't like that we give attention to some guys and not you then here is the deal...
    OUTSPEND HIM!

    Quote Originally Posted by Alexander5691 View Post
    So I was at my local club, in the Northeast, suburb of a major city, hanging w/ my stripper GF. I asked about a dancer who I used to see there but hadn't seen in a few weeks. She told me she had met a guy who worked in the aforementioned city who had a lot of money and was taking care of her and that was why she hadn't been dancing. She went on to say that when girls aren't around for a few weeks/months that was usually what happened, so I think the whole stripper/sugar daddy relationship thing is most likely downplayed by the girls and is probably happening more then a lot of the girls will admit. Any opinions/comments?

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