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    Hey there girls! My boyfriend of two years and I have been talking about moving in together lately. He has expressed interest in making videos and camming with me once we do. We feel totally at ease with each other and have no problems being intimate in front of a camera, plus we're open to almost anything, sexually-speaking.

    The thing is he hasn't got a big penis and he feels uncomfortable with this, especially looking at some other guys and couples in cam sites. He's about 5 1/2 inches(more when he's thin but we're both alright with his body the way it is) but he's a grower(no longer than an inch and a half when he's not erect) and he's uncircumsised. He feels really self-conscious but at the same time he really wants to try this with me. Maybe not like a full-time job but definitely do it a couple times a week.

    So girls, any advice on the topic? Have any of you cammed with someone that had an average or smaller than average member and had good results? Thanks.

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    Default Re: Camming as a couple and penis size issues

    Ron Jeremy doesn't have a big penis and that didn't stop him!

    lol I say go for it. Attitude and personality are the most important things. And I tend to think your looks matter much more than his...

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    I think that a lot of guys might actually like that he doesn't have a big cock, since it's more "realistic" to be average sized. I usually get comments to that effect when I use smaller toys, so it may apply to real cocks too.

    My husband is also uncircumcised and so far everyone either loves it or doesn't care. Also, you could play up the SPH fetish angle if your guy is comfortable with that.

    Good luck, and have fun!


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    Thanks girls

    He isn't comfortable with SPH so it's off the table :/

    Well once we move in together we'll try and see. I hope the guys say things like that, scarlettbelle! And if they make fun of him I'll tell them to fuck off But I'm hoping for guys to like him and be able to relate to him since he doesn't have a monster cock haha

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    No I had awful results lol. But that could have been due to factors other than his member size. I have found that guys just prefer to see me alone.

    It's worth a shot though. Try it and find out x
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    Ouch Well we don't lose anything for trying, I guess haha. Plus we still have to see if HE likes it once we do it.

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    Default Re: Camming as a couple and penis size issues

    Sweety if you try to set a downer angle n cam and show his manhood from that angle it will look bigger on cam so that can boost his selfesteem
    OMG how could I forgot this lol, try to show him a lil bit from the under you know what I mean?
    Set the tripod lower so I bet he would be proud of what he will see on cam))
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    Thank you Ephemeron! We're definitely going to try that

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    Default Re: Camming as a couple and penis size issues

    My now ex fiance and I attempted to do couples camming and it was AWFUL. If your partner has any underlying self esteem or confidence issues I would not recommend live camming. Maybe clips- maybe- but not live camming. My partner and I only did a handful of shows on indy platforms so he didn't have to be subjected to the trolls in free chat, he'd basically just come in the bedroom ready to go once the guy had paid. He was also 5", uncut, a grower, and he had serious size issues in his head because he was Korean and was constantly teased growing up about Asian men having small peckers. When we were alone we would sometimes record ourselves just for our own personal viewing pleasure and he would get really into it and it would be awesome, but having another man watching/directing the action/judging/demanding more made it impossible for him to perform at times if you get my drift. We stopped after a handful of times because while he was okay with the idea of it, performing for an audience can be very different from how you think it will be and guys can't fake it the way girls can.

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    Best of luck love! <3 And if you do lots of POVs! doing it on cam looks super cool!

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    Thanks you CourtneyRaine for your input My boyfriend has never been teased about his penis size but I know he feels self-conscious, mainly because of porn and how they portray guys as sex machines with donkey cocks. He doesn't have a problem staying hard most of the time but I get how it could be difficult when another person is watching and demanding various things. I guess we'll try and see how it goes, and if it's not for him I'm sure we could make clips and sell them(my boyfriend loves to record us and he too gets really into it). Again, thank you!

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    ^My guy and I made one clip that's available for sale, it's a bj clip. He was still a little self conscious making it but once we got a good angle and lighting he was okay and able to get into it. I think just because there was no pressure to perform right at that exact second, it made it easier for him to perform? I've sold that clip many times over and viewers either don't say anything (other than that it was hot), OR, many will come back and say they liked that he had a regular sized penis and not a freakishly large porn cock because it made it easier to imagine that I was performing on them.

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    Close up of the dick helps so much on cam. Angle that cock sideways right at the cam while you swallow it. Size does not seem to matter when a dick is getting good head!
    I have seen rooms fill up quickly as soon as the dick went in the mouth. Large or smaller, does not matter.

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    That's great! Maybe I could get my boyfriend to do some POV clips. I think that if guys can relate to his size they'd sell pretty well Thank you.


    Thank you Camigirl! We're pretty much open to anything and I think I'm pretty good at bjs. We'll have to try and see

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    Default Re: Camming as a couple and penis size issues

    I say most of your customers are more interested in seeing you getting fucked rather than sizing him up.

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    Try shooting POV clips, that way he is holding the camera and the viewer is seeing you.

    As others have said angles can make a world of difference.

    If he has a thick skin then go for it with cam. He can always tell the trolls he is getting paid to be with a beautiful woman and they are sitting home with their dicks in hand. I would say try clips first though and maybe have him watch you in your cam room to get an idea of how customers behave first. that way he will go in eyes wide open.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rina View Post
    Try shooting POV clips, that way he is holding the camera and the viewer is seeing you.

    As others have said angles can make a world of difference.

    If he has a thick skin then go for it with cam. He can always tell the trolls he is getting paid to be with a beautiful woman and they are sitting home with their dicks in hand. I would say try clips first though and maybe have him watch you in your cam room to get an idea of how customers behave first. that way he will go in eyes wide open.
    Yes clips are amazing ideas! <3<3<3 trough making clips he can get comfy in front of cam so when u go on live it will be so much easier

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    I do MUCH better solo or g/g but I just wanted to add that my man is well equipped and when we cam ppl say his penis is small or they are bigger all the time..He doesn't care since he knows that is not the issue. We do awesome on clips4sale but as camming goes he goes solo and i go solo and we do MUCH better like that. No matter what the size some guys just want to watch girls solo =) good luck!!!

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    Be prepared to hear shit from the guys. I have done many live sex shows, with my partner as well as with other men (professional porn stars) for other companies and guys will always rag on the other dude...no matter the cock size or what he looks like. Jealous key board warriors. You have to ignore it and keep in mind that most of the guys WILL want to see you. Every time I do a live sex show, so many guys ask, "how big is the cock that you're going to fuck"...I always say how the hell would I know, I don't carry around a tape measure, it feels good and makes me cum. Guys are so weird about the other guys dick size. Give it shot!!

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    Yeah I think customers are going to make comments no matter what. I would THINK that an "average" size would be a good thing because most guys could relate but I think most guys want to see a bigger one when it comes to porn. I dunno- don't worry about it though! If it was 2" then I would say ehhh maybe not a good idea hehe

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